Aloha Caroline

In this episode of the Hey, Am I Adopted? podcast, Gene and Emily Trowbridge engage in a heartfelt conversation with Caroline about her adoption journey from Taiwan to Canada and her experiences growing up as an adopted child. Caroline shares her early life, the challenges of cultural identity, and her emotional journey of reconnecting with her birth family. The discussion highlights the complexities of adoption, the importance of family dynamics, and the impact of cultural heritage on personal identity. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into the multifaceted emotions surrounding adoption, exploring themes of self-esteem, family dynamics, and the impact of cultural and generational influences. They discuss the importance of feeling wanted and chosen, the common traits among adopted individuals, and the narratives they create to make sense of their experiences. The conversation also touches on the joys and challenges of adopting, as well as the connections formed through shared experiences and mannerisms.

• Caroline was born in Taipei, Taiwan, to birth parents with significant challenges.
• She was adopted by a couple in Vancouver after a missionary intervened.
• Growing up, Caroline experienced cultural duality between Canada and Hawaii.
• At 12, she expressed a desire to meet her birth sisters, leading to a reunion.
• Caroline's visit to Taiwan provided closure regarding her adoption story.
• She felt a strong connection with her birth family despite language barriers.
• Cultural identity played a significant role in Caroline's upbringing.
• Her adoptive parents were supportive but had their own emotional struggles regarding her birth family.
• Caroline's husband played a crucial role in her journey to meet her birth family.
• The conversation reflects on the emotional complexities of adoption and family dynamics. Feeling lucky to be adopted can vary greatly among individuals.
• The sense of being chosen can significantly boost self-esteem.