Mother's Day

In this episode of the Hey, Am I Adopted? podcast, hosts Emily, Gene, and Kay Trowbridge discuss the complexities of Mother's Day from the perspective of adoptees. They explore the emotional challenges that many adoptees face on this day, contrasting their experiences with those of birth mothers. 

The conversation delves into the significance of biological and adoptive relationships, the societal influences on adoption narratives, and the concept of being "chosen" in the context of adoption. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, they aim to provide a nuanced understanding of the adoption experience, particularly on Mother's Day.

• Many adoptees find Mother's Day to be a triggering holiday.
• The emotional impact of being adopted can vary greatly among individuals.
• Adoptees often have complex feelings about their biological and adoptive mothers.
• The societal narrative around adoption often overlooks the birth mother's perspective.
• Celebrating Mother's Day can be a challenge for those with adoption backgrounds.
• The act of giving a child up for adoption is often seen as selfless.
• Adoptees may feel a sense of rejection tied to their adoption experience.
• The relationship with adoptive parents can be deeply influential in an adoptee's life.
• Understanding the birth mother's experience can provide valuable insights into adoption.
• Intergenerational storytelling can help bridge gaps in understanding within adoptive families.