Dragon Slayers

Men Always Provide

lovingonpurpose Season 2 Episode 3

In this powerful live episode, Ben and Danny Silk continue their monthly Dragon Slayers call with a deep dive into the creed: Men always provide resources, strength, and identity—they never consume or compromise the quality of life for others. This conversation confronts entitlement, exposes cultural confusion around masculinity, and offers a clear path toward servant leadership, covenant brotherhood, and spiritual maturity. With honesty, conviction, and real-world stories, this episode equips men to step up, take ownership, and lead their families and communities with purpose.


What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • The difference between provision and consumption in a man’s role
  • How healthy shame helps shape identity and protect connection
  • Why covenant brotherhood is essential for processing pain and growth
  • How to stop needing control and start leading yourself
  • Practical steps for launching and leading a Dragon Slayers group


Key Takeaways:

  • A true man provides strength, identity, and resource—he doesn’t drain others to meet his own needs.
  • Entitlement destroys relationships; servant leadership builds lasting legacy.
  • Healthy shame leads to repentance and connection, not condemnation.
  • Your wife, kids, and brothers aren’t responsible for your needs—God is.
  • If you don’t control yourself, you’ll try to control others, and it will cost you everything.


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