Dragon Slayers
Boys don’t become men simply by getting older. They must be shown the way; they must be initiated into manhood by other men. They need brothers! The world may be collapsing, but God is raising up good men to raise good men. It’s one of the great God-movements of our time, and you can be a part of it.
Welcome to the Dragon Slayers Podcast! Join us as we embark on a journey to interview ordinary men with extraordinary tales of conquering their fears and becoming fearless, loving men of God. Through their stories, you will hear rich wisdom, practical advice, and the value of brotherhood so you can stand out as a man among men.
Dragon Slayers
Men Always Control Themselves (Not Others)
Danny and Ben break down a core statement from the Dragon Slayers Creed: “Men always control themselves from the inside out. They never control other people.” Drawing directly from the transcript, this episode explores internal self-control as the foundation for leadership and clarity in relationships.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- Control starts with you—not with trying to change others.
- Love is freedom, not control.
- Self-control is the spirit God gives you—not fear or timidity.
- Without self-control, you're like a city without walls—open to attack.
Key Takeaways:
- True leadership starts by mastering your own responses, not by micromanaging others.
- Cultural environments—at home or in teams—are shaped by whether you self-regulate or try to dominate.
- Self-justification, blame, and victimhood are signs that you're ceding control of your internal state.
- Training others (kids, peers) starts with empowering them to control themselves—not by forcing compliance.
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