FUN - a parents perspective (Emma)!

This week we catch up with Emma! An incredible advocate and parent, she describes herself as a big kid and a perfect example of this week's F-word, F.U.N, in action!

Emma's thoughts on the importance of fun really hit home for me. It's so easy to get bogged down in appointments and therapies, especially in the beginning, and forget that the simple act of enjoying time together is crucial. Emma reminded us that happiness isn't a luxury, it's a fundamental need for our kids to thrive and reach their full potential. 

It made me think about how much pressure we can put on ourselves to constantly "do all the things" and how important it is to prioritise our children's joy and what truly makes them light up.

Emma's journey really highlighted the shift from the purely medical model of disability towards a more holistic and social perspective. 

What I found particularly inspiring were Emma's practical ideas for weaving fun into therapy and everyday life. From creating songs for daily routines to transforming activities into games and incorporating her son's love for loud music, it's clear that tapping into your child's passions is key. 

Emma emphasised the importance of giving him choices and control, something that is so incredibly beneficial. Her reminder that therapy doesn't have to be traditional clinic-based exercises – whether it's exploring the neighbourhood or playing in a walker – was so freeing. 

Ultimately, Emma's powerful message resonated deeply: if our children's goals aren't tied to happiness and fun, perhaps they aren't the right goals. It’s about truly listening to our kids, letting their interests guide us, and remembering that play is their way of learning and where so much meaningful progress and joy can blossom.