Our Dead Dads
The concept of Our Dead Dads was born through the daily discussions of seven men who share bonds of blood, friendship and all having lost their fathers. Nick Gaylord, the show’s host, shares his life experiences with his deceased father while exploring the complications and realities of that relationship. Life is intense, grief and loss come in many forms, and no parent-child relationship is black and white, which is why this show touches on all shades of grey.
Join Nick for candid conversations with his three brothers and three of his lifelong friends, along with other special guests who discuss their experiences with loss, grief, laughter, and moving forward. Nothing is off-limits here. Nick learned after his father's passing that he couldn't process what he was going through alone and sought the help of a therapist, who helped him to let go of his anger toward his father. Looking back, he realized just how many people are being crushed under the weight of grief, loss, and in some cases, anger.
Nick's mission through Our Dead Dads is to offer a platform for anyone who needs or wants to tell their story, to have that opportunity. He also hopes to reach many more who need to talk but don't know how to start the conversation, hopeful that by listening to these stories, they will be able to start talking with someone.
Nick has always sought to help others and to make everyone around him laugh. Along with his brothers and friends, he has frequently used humor to get through the hardest times in their lives, and hopefully, you will permit yourself to do the same. Get ready for an emotional deep dive. Nick has a lot to say and so do his guests. He's here for you and ready to help. Everyone has been through trauma, grief, and loss. Now, along with Nick and his guests, everyone will get through it together.
Nick is changing the world one damaged soul at a time. Welcome to Our Dead Dads.
Our Dead Dads
Coping with Cancer, Caregiving, and Grief Transformation with Vicki Goodman - Episode 47
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WHO THIS EPISODE HELPS:
Spouses, caregivers, and anyone navigating anticipatory grief or struggling after the death of a loved one.
WHAT LISTENERS WILL GET:
Practical insights on caregiving, grief recovery, resilience, and finding healing and purpose after loss.
DESCRIPTION:
In this episode of Our Dead Dads Podcast, host Nick Gaylord speaks with author and widow Vicki Goodman about her powerful journey through anticipatory grief, caregiving, and healing after the death of her husband Sam. Vicki shares the love story that defined their marriage, the reality of facing a terminal cancer diagnosis, and the emotional challenges of stepping into the caregiver role. She reflects on anticipatory grief, the support she received, and the complicated reactions from friends who struggled to face mortality. Vicki also discusses her healing process, including moments of serendipity, discovering new passions, and writing her book To Sam with Love. This conversation explores how grief can inspire growth, purpose, and peace while honoring the memory of a beloved partner.
This episode answers:
- What is anticipatory grief and how does it impact caregivers?
- How do you support a spouse through terminal cancer?
- What role does caregiving play in healing after loss?
- How can widows and widowers rebuild purpose after losing a partner?
- What lessons can grief teach us about resilience and acceptance?
Key Takeaways:
- Anticipatory grief prepares you emotionally before loss occurs.
- Caregiving can reveal unexpected strength and resilience.
- Community support is essential, but not always easy.
- Finding new passions can help channel grief into growth.
- Love, memory, and legacy continue to shape life after loss.
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