Cracking The Man Code: Unlock The Mystery of How Men Think, Love & Communicate - Interview with Mat Boggs

The Midlife Mentors

The Midlife Mentors
Cracking The Man Code: Unlock The Mystery of How Men Think, Love & Communicate - Interview with Mat Boggs
Aug 01, 2026
The Midlife Mentors

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Relationships can be one of the most rewarding parts of life... but they can also be one of the most confusing, especially in midlife.

Many women tell us they feel like the man they love has changed. He's become quieter, more distant, or harder to connect with. At the same time, many men say they don't even recognise themselves anymore.

So what's really going on?

In today's episode, we're joined by one of the world's leading relationship coaches and author of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs, to unpack what's happening beneath the surface. We explore what women often misunderstand about men, why so many men seem to pull away in midlife, what they're actually craving in a relationship, and the communication tools that can help create deeper connection.

Whether you're in a long-term relationship or dating again in midlife, this is a practical conversation packed with insights and simple takeaways you can start using straight away.

Grab Mat's book: Cracking The Man Code:

https://get.bravethinkinginstitute.com/love-relationships/ctmc/ctmc-book

www.youtube.com/@matboggs

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