#438 Stop Sign. Distracted driving.

A simple red octagon can change how we move through the day. We take a hard look at the moments we blow past warnings—on the road and in our routines—and ask what that says about attention, comfort, and the people depending on us. Jared’s voicemail lands like a wake-up tap on the brakes, reminding us that missing a sign isn’t just inconvenient; it can put others at risk. From there, we unpack how distraction creeps in, why comfort can be a liability, and how a tiny pause can turn into a protective habit with real impact.

Across the conversation, we connect the physical act of stopping with a practical rhythm for life: pause, notice, proceed with care. You’ll hear how to build lightweight guardrails for your busiest intersections—no-text zones in the car, clarity checks before saying yes, and short phrases that cue a reset when emotions run hot. We share simple, repeatable practices to stay present without turning your calendar into a maze: breath-length stops, quick scans for who might be affected, and weekly “near miss” reflections to spot patterns before they become collisions.

This is not a lecture on safety; it’s an invitation to choose presence over autopilot. Think of it as installing better optics for the blind spots you already know you have. By treating the stop sign as a growth instigator rather than a scold, you build trust with the people around you and reduce the chance you’ll cause harm when you never intended to. Listen, reflect, and then tell us: where do you need a flashing red reminder today?

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Chapters

• 0:00 Framing The Stop Sign Lesson
• 0:23 Jared’s Wake-Up Call
• 0:56 Distraction, Comfort, And Risk
• 1:35 A Flashing Red Reminder
• 2:21 Share Your Observations

Transcript

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Welcome to message 438 of the Growth Instigators Hotline. This week we are talking about a stop sign, an everyday normal object that we can assign deeper meaning to, something that can remind us of a bigger truth. Welcome to part three of five as we dive into lessons we can glean from a stop sign. Jared left a message with some very good reflection for all of us. Sometimes we all have to slam on our brakes because we didn't notice that stop sign, right? Remember a time when that happened to you? This often happens because we are not paying attention. We are too distracted. We are too comfortable and not taking seriously the position we are in as we operate a 2,000-pound vehicle. That vehicle, great potential for both good and harm. We put other people at risk or in risk when we are distracted or too comfortable. Yikes. Well put, Jared. Are you reading my mail or what? Yes, this is true for both while I drive my vehicles each day, and yes, this is true for how I live my life. My friends, are you so comfortable andor so distracted that you are putting others at risk? Where are your actions or inactions potentially harming others around you? I bet 10 out of 10 of you would say you never want to harm someone else. Yet in our car or in our life, if we run that stop sign, don't notice it, we could smash into another vehicle and at best cause an inconvenience or at worst cause injury or casualty. May this message be a flashing red light stop sign today. Blink, blink, blink, stop sign. Where might you need to slow down, notice your surroundings, and stop putting other people at risk? May a stop sign today remind you to pay attention and make the changes you need to make in your life to be a more centered and a more focused human being. That, my friend, is how a common everyday object can instigate growth. I would like to hear some more of your observations. What growth lessons can you apply to a stop sign? For those of you calling the Growth Instigators hotline, I'd love to hear your thoughts after the beep or send me a text. For those of you listening in on our podcast, visit growth instigators.com and send me your thoughts. Let's never see a stop sign the same.