Empower Your Soul

You Don't Need Permission

• Medium Nicole • Season 1 • Episode 119

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Do you need someone else's permission to explore your spiritual gifts? Have you been told you're a healer, a psychic, or something else entirely—and wondered if it's true?

In this raw, unfiltered exploration of spiritual development, Nicole confronts the persistent need for external validation that plagues many spiritual seekers. With characteristic humor and zero-bullshit clarity, she challenges the notion that we need others to define our spiritual capabilities before we can embrace them.

"Everyone's a healer, everyone's psychic," Nicole explains, cutting through the mystique that often surrounds these abilities. "Your soul already knows how to do that, so you can fucking tap into that whenever you want." Rather than waiting for the perfect teacher or the perfect reading to confirm what you already sense within yourself, Nicole encourages listeners to follow what brings them joy and excitement—the true compass for spiritual development.

Drawing from her own experiences with both genuine teachers and those she humorously labels "crazy ladies," Nicole illuminates how people in the spiritual community often project their own biases and frameworks onto others' abilities. Whether someone tells you you're an ascended master from the sixth dimension or simply a natural empath, what matters isn't the label but how it resonates with your own internal knowing.

The episode tackles religious trauma, spiritual perfectionism, and the fear of exploring unconventional paths without permission. Nicole shares personal stories about family dynamics around spirituality, career transitions guided by passion rather than obligation, and the freedom that comes from trusting your own spiritual journey—even when it looks nothing like what others expect.

Ready to break free from spiritual limitation and embrace your soul gifts on your own terms? This episode will leave you feeling empowered, validated, and eager to explore your spiritual potential without apology or explanation.

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I am starting this empower your soul episode off today with a huge and glorious appreciative Thank you for all of you that are listening and also for those of you that are over there on Instagram and responded to my stories. So for those of you that may missed out, or just to remind you if you are on my Instagram, I posted a story of my daughter's new crested gecko. She finally picked a freaking animal. Well, we picked an we. To be fair, we picked the crested gecko. She finally picked a freaking animal. Well, we picked an we. To be fair, we picked the crested gecko because it was the only lizard I didn't have to have.

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Live bugs in the house. They eat a paste, eat a fruit and insect paste. I'm cool with that. I do not want the sound of crickets coming from inside the house. Outside, fine, inside, absolutely not. So we ended up getting a crested gecko and I thought it'd be fun to kind of introduce her to all of you through my Instagram stories.

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And and while I was just posting this late at night with insomnia because I had cups of coffee way too late and I napped during the day because I'm a napper those are my initials, nap I decided to ask a couple questions on my Instagram stories because I have to be like, honest with you for just a second. I am such a customer data nerd and this comes from my background in process engineering and Six Sigma, because the whole basis of Six Sigma, which was, you know, founded by Motorola in the 70s, made popular by Jack Welch, by GE, in the 80s right, like this whole thing, the Toyota production system, etc. I did I. Are you sleeping yet? Did you fall asleep yet? The whole basis of the work that I did for 20 plus years is that you find out what the customer values and you deliver on what the customer values.

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And I know that can be a really wishy washy space with the spiritual stuff. Right, like you don't want to just like make the customer happy, but I'm always open to feedback, questions, concerns from all of my customers and clients, which is all of you. Right, that is just the unglamorous term from the industry. Right, like I should really just call you little love bugs. Let's be honest because you're all so adorable and passionate and badasses and I love you every, every single one of you. I love you all, and so I thought it was a really good opportunity to ask a couple questions, because I really don't know who my target market is, and I think this is really funny. This is something I go over with my business coaches like who my target market is. Like I don't know if we're talking to beginners, advanced people, if people are into mediumship, because there's so many different modalities with the space.

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So thank you all for humoring me and educating me a little bit more on what your preferences are. So I know how to kind of tailor my social media accounts, because I can talk all day about all these different things and I absolutely will probably continue to. But it helps me to know what your preferences are, because I don't want to waste your time. God, we're all so distracted enough, I ding. I don't want to waste your time, I want it. I want this to be digestible, amazing content for you, so that you get the most value out of it, without like giving you some stupid ass dance on TikTok. You know like I'm all set with that, you're all set with that. It might be fine once in a while to do a silly post, but for the most part I want this to be short, sweet, and I'll give you the information that you need, give you the value that you want out of social media so that you can get on with your day. So welcome to my life. Everybody is what I'm constantly trying to battle with inside my head.

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And so, for those of you that humored me, I did have a question at the end that said what do you want to know, like, what have? What do you want to learn from me? What do you want me to talk about? What am I missing that I can't provide you? And the reality is I don't know how people do these podcasts. Can I just be honest with you for a second, because I could just as easily go on to chat GPT and say what should my podcast be about? But every time I do that, when I run out of ideas like this week's a little slow on ideas every time I do that it just doesn't fit. The flow is not right.

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I know that this needs to come from spirit and or all of you, so thank you for those of you who answered that question and they're good fucking questions. Like I'm going to have podcast questions for months, so I'm going to continue to do this. So you know once in a while if I'm running dry on ideas or if I know there needs to be inspiration from all of you, because there's no accident, right? There's no accident, right, there's no accident that I'm getting a little dry on the ideas coming in from spirit, because I think I need to start asking more and providing information more to all of you that you're looking for, because, let's be honest, I've been doing this work and it's all basic, foundational shit to me.

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I don't mean that from an ego centered perspective, but, like for me, a lot of the topics I feel like I've covered, I feel like most people would know it, and I think this is probably where you guys are with your work to, like, you feel like it's the imposter syndrome, right, like I feel like I know this stuff, you probably know it too, and then I always forget that my brain is just a little bit different. I don't know what that means, but I've always been told, nicole, your brain's different. Like literally everywhere I've worked, they're like, wow, your brain's really different and I know that. And so the things that I think are crazy and unique, like my week galactic awakening, right, like I don't know if you all want to hear about that, but I will continue to show up authentically, obviously, with the stuff that spirit is in my ear about to share, like this wild ass adventure and these wild journeys. But you all ask some really good questions that I don't think I've covered on this podcast before and they are really good questions that I have mulled over in my brain for several years. So I'm going to pick which one I want to go after and spirits pointing me to this one. Okay, the question is from mystical star 444. I love the fours.

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Psychics told me my gift is healing. Other psychics said I'm psychic. Do gifts change? I think that's related to, oh, this one From Wildflower Meadows Homestead. I think that's what that site is. Sorry, it's like the tiniest screen of responses everybody. So you're, you only have a short amount of space to answer. I only have a short amount of space to see your answer. So it's always fun. How can we figure out how powerful our gifts are? These are amazing, unrelated but awesome questions, and I know Crystal over here also replied. You know I think this is going to go into it about the Akashic Records and how we know it's factual. That might be another podcast, but I might touch on that a little bit here.

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And so let's talk about your gifts as a soul. And it's so funny because I recently went to I dabble everybody Like I dabble. Do you have online events? Please invite me to them. I don't like, I don't come to judge. I like to experience everything Because I feel like I learn things from absolutely everything I go to, and this is like my spirit team is tapping me on the shoulder about is like find all of the events and just go, just go, go, experience them. And so what the fuck was I just? Oh? So I went to another one of my friends metaphysical kind of circle events and she had a star seed lady there and she's like hey, I heard you were going galactic, why don't you come and listen in? And it was so interesting because it was this she's definitely talented did not have me pegged, but definitely talented. It was really interesting. But she was able to kind of like go into your galactic Akashic records. Right, that'll be it. That's a thing I'm probably going to learn. You can go into these galactic Akashic records and like learn what your soul's gift is, what is your soul blueprint?

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And this lady God, can you tell when I say this lady, that there's a little bit of distrust in there, because that's how you know If I do this lady or this guy, there's that distrust there because I'm not going to be your friend, you're just going to be that lady. So this lady told me the most beautiful story about my soul and how it comes from the sixth dimension, which apparently is the dimension of ascended masters, and I'm from the rainbow beings and I'm here. I've decided, apparently maybe that's true, I can't tell if the bell is sarcastic or truthful right now, because because if you know spirit, they're really really fucking sassy and sarcastic all the time. But she says that you know, I'm the star rainbow being from the sixth dimension that has essentially come here to help with the ascension of planet Earth. Right, and so when she said that I was like so interesting, I don't know anything about the sixth dimension I don't know anything about, do I say it? I'll say it. When she said that I was from the ascended master realm, what went into my head? Cue asshole Nicole. Here it is, here it comes.

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I was partnered up in one of my mastermind summits with another woman and we were in like this four person little breakout group introducing everybody to each other. So I was a presenter, this other woman was was kind of a presenter. And then there were two other women in the room that were just attending this mastermind summit. I didn't know there was breakout groups and I would have to introduce myself to the other people. That's fine I mean social awkward me dealt with it, that's fine.

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But what ended up happening is I was like hey, why don't you go first? So she goes and she's like I'm an ascended master and she I, the shit that came out of this woman's mouth. I was just like, no wonder people don't believe this shit. Like no fucking wonder. Like how would you be following me if, in my social media be like Hi, I'm Nicole, I'm an ascended master here on earth. Like, jesus is my, is my peer. Like, like, really, really Like, do I think there's way more than we know in the spiritual world? Sure, do I think that maybe there's some ascended masters that are here on earth? Sure, okay, cool. Do I think that spirit would let us know that we are ascended masters here on earth? I don't think so. I don't. Wouldn't that get in the way of your fucking mission? I don't know, the verdict is still out, but right now I'm calling. I'm calling bullshit, I'm calling crazy. Where the fuck was I with this? So, anyway. So this woman says that I'm from the 60m. I'm essentially like ascended master material and I'll take my paycheck now, please. Thank you God, thank you God.

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And she proceeds to tell me that when people descend from 6D dimensions to 5 or 3D dimensions, such as Earth, there can be a lot of physical body issues, there can be a lot of like, allergies and all these different things. And I'm listening quietly, I'm like, no, I got none of that. I'm literally allergic to nothing like, not even poison, ivy, I am not allergic. Well, hang on pause. I'm allergic to parabens, which, if you are a female in the moisturizing era, right, and if you love your, your, your lotions and products, like they tend to be in all the cheap stuff. So, um, it's the only thing I'm allergic to, okay, man-made substance, nothing of the natural right and so like.

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So she, it was just so interesting because she gave me perspective, and this is what I mean about I go to. Everything is like she gave me perspective. I like to watch and observe and see what this is. But ultimately I walked away like scratching my head and I'm like, okay, well, I can see why people follow her, because she, she presented her information very authoritatively. She had confidence, like like she, she dressed up to the nines. Like she had the beautiful wavy hair and the wonderful jewelry and like the perfect setup in the background. Like you could. In lipstick, she had lipstick on everybody, lipstick, I mean. I I'm not judging, I'm a little jealous because parabens are in all the lipstick so I can't wear lipstick there you go. That's my secret.

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But I'm just like and I don't want to judge people by the way they look, that's not what my intention is but like, she's got a show going, right, you got a show going. If you're going on a date, you're going to show up and look nice, right. If you're selling I know I've worked with sales teams you're going to show up and you're going to look good. Because if you look good, then your brain thinks you're trustworthy, right. Like, because what happens is, you know, in my, when I was a communication minor in college, you judge people in a half second. Half a second, like you can walk into an interview, interview and they will decide to hire you subconsciously within like half a second. That's it. That's how long your brain decides whether someone's trustworthy or not. Is that your subconscious or is that your spirit? I don't know. It's a good question. It's a good question. So back to reality here.

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So, so, as we, as I look at these questions, these are such good questions because I think that, um, when we're talking about our soul gifts, there are going to be a lot of people that tell you a lot of different things, and I think that's the reality of it. Like this crazy lady told me I was an ascended master I'm going to call her crazy. She's got good social media though. She's good at that. She's good at the game. Told me I was an ascended master, rainbow being from the 60, here to ascend planet Earth. Like some of that I've already heard, okay, but the reality is, with a lot of these readers, they're going to tell you the basis of what they know, and I love that. A lot of them talk about soul path and soul missions and, like, do you ever?

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I think what frustrates me is that all the people who talk about their soul paths and soul missions and gifts and stuff like that, they make it seem like you're the hero, and I think that's where a lot of this spiritual psychosis comes from. Is that, like, you are here to do a specific mission from God, from this goddess source, whatever you want to call the supreme being on the other side, um, and it makes you feel good to be like I'm on a mission, fuck, yes, right, I am here to do the work, right, like, get the fuck out of my way. I'm here to ascend earth. Like it feels really good to hear that. Okay, like little old me coming from a podunk town where I have a whole bunch of squirrels, like never mind about the squirrels, I'm fucking awesome, you know.

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So I think there is this I want to separate out where do I go with this? I want to separate out what you hear which is coming from the bias and the basis, the CEO's basis, of the people who are giving you readings. Okay, because they are coming from their own background, their own experience, their own journeys, and if they think that there's a timeline battle going on in the ascension of Earth, then yeah, they're probably going to think that you're assigned to one of the sides to help ascend planet Earth. Right, ding Again. I don't know if this bell is sarcastic or not. You guys are going to have to help me. Can you tune in to the energy of the bell for me everybody. I can't, while I'm doing this and channeling at the same time, I just it's too much energy at the same time. So, so you need to be careful what people tell you, because they're going to tell you on their own bias, right? So let's go down that rabbit hole and hopefully spirit will bring me to the other half of this in a moment, which is, you got to figure out what resonates with you, period. Okay. So when people tell you, my dear, that you are a healer, yeah, you probably are.

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Who's who's not a healer? Who is not a healer? Do you take care of your pets? Do you have kids that you take care of, right? Do you water your plants? Do you feed the birds right? Are you actually in the medical field, where you're a nurse or a doctor, or are you somebody who does Reiki and you want to do energy healing on people? I'll tell you what mediumship is healing Akashic Records. Is healing right?

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I think healing is anything that helps you or other people like survive the triangle of Maslow, maslow, maslow, maslow. Do you help? Provide people shelter, emotional support needs Do you bring I mean, we feed our neighbors fucking chickens, not our chickens, sorry eggs all the time, like we have so many eggs and we just hand them out to the neighbors. That's healing, that's giving them food that heals and makes their body better, right, like so. So it's just so interesting because when somebody says that you're a healer, again it's like that badge, it feels really, really good. But there are so many different types of healers out there.

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And then, from the galactic lady that I trust, who we're going to go on back and forth a little bit on this mentorship, you know, she tells me my mission is to raise my own vibration again and keep me happy and keep me grounded, and that by just doing that I'm healing others. Other people are getting their vibration better because of me. So like, this is what I'm talking about. And then, and then they'll tell you that they're saying you're psychic, right, like, and I think this is your bullshit detector 101. Again, you have to take this the way that you feel it in your body and like I want. It's really hard because your ego is going to be like yes, motherfucker, yes, I am powerful, I am Gollum, right, like, it's Gollum powerful.

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Because when someone tells you you're a healer and you're like, it doesn't fucking feel good, like when the lady, when the medium who told me I was a medium told me my entire fucking world flipped upside down. I was like, oh my God, here it comes here. Yeah, right. And I think for some people it does feel that way, and obviously my reaction to it wasn't just ego. It was like this knowing sense of fuck. Yes, that's true, but here's the truth. Everyone's a healer, everyone's a psychic. So, yes, you are a healer and a psychic, right, you are both those things. And I think that's what's amazing about all of these modalities that exist, because you can go become a Reiki teacher. Right, you can learn about your intuition and take psychic classes. Everybody has access to that. Everybody can do that.

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That is our right as a soul that comes here on planet Earth. That is our right as a soul that comes here on planet Earth. We are spirits and souls first, and we are human bodies second, and energy and energetic healing and clearing and energetic transfer of information that comes through psychic. This is all part of the experience of being a soul. How do you think they communicate? Has anyone listened to the freaking telepathy tapes? Like it is nothing except mind games? Okay, it is all about the transfer of energy, it's all it is. So your soul already knows how to do that, so you can fucking tap into that whenever you want.

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Now, I don't want to say you're not special. So let me be very clear about this, because I think every single person that comes here comes here for a specific reason, and some people are working on their own journey, their own healing their own karma even though I freaking hate that word, because I don't think there's anything bad or negative that you need to overcome. I think it's just progressing the journey of your soul and maybe learning a different perspective. But I wouldn't label that karma, because karma sounds like a death sentence, karma sounds like punishment, and I don't think it's punishment. I think it's just the journey of learning. Do you punish your kids when they don't learn multiplication and they have to repeat that in the second grade, right? Do they call that karma? Do they just call that remedial math? Right? Because wouldn't that perfectly describe planet earth? This is the remedial planet, everybody.

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Okay, and so this is what I'm talking about is that you are special. There is something unique and special to you and what you're doing here and what your journey is and sometimes your only job is to survive, right? How about? How about, like cerebral palsy palsy that's literally coming into my brain right now, like, why would people come here with cerebral palsy? Right, horrible, horrible. I'm sorry, not judging the souls or people that have it, but it's, it's devastating, right, it's devastating to watch. I can't imagine what their, what their incarnations are going through. I can't. But there was a reason, it was probably something in the journey of having that disease, right, as sad and asshole-ish as it sounds, right.

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And so some people choose their own lessons to just survive, to overcome obstacles, right, and to live just a normal everyday life. Some people decide they want to become like Elon Musk and ruin a whole fucking fleet of amazing cars because no one's buying that shit no more. And so this is just the the irony of it, and I think the thing is that you can't judge it. You can't judge what people's journeys are. I won't go down there at all but you can't judge people's journey because we never know what is happening behind the scenes. Why did they pick that? What is the lesson that they're learning? What are they overcoming? Because it could be something really small and it could be something monumental that looks really small, or it could be something monumental that is like monumental, right. We don't know. We don't know why we choose these things, but I will tell you this If the thought of being a healer and being a psychic excites you and brings you joy whether or not some person in a reading told you you were capable of this go do it, right?

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And and the fact that so many people wait for somebody else to tell them, I see this in you, like me, I see that you're a medium, right, I see that you're a psychic. I see that you're a healer. You do not need permission. This is not like your first tarot deck. It does not need to be gifted to you. And so a lot of us are looking for validation and permission to get into this work, especially those of us with the fucking religious trauma, right.

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Like, can we even go there for a minute? Because, oh God, 100% certain my father-in-law thinks I'm going to hell. Like, 100% certain he can. I I'm sorry family members that are listening to this, I'm going there just for a second, just for a second. My last name's Pope, everybody. It is not my name, it's my husband's family name. So there you go.

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There's the irony in that, right? And so he's a whole bunch of fucking Catholics. Right, I grew up Catholic too. But I'll send the kids over there to hang out with them and he'll teach them about hell and the devil and they'll come home and they'll be like Grandpa was talking about hell today. He was talking about the devil today and I said jokes on him. It's not real in I said jokes on him. It's not real. But if that makes him happy and that makes him sleep at night, that's fine.

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Whatever, as long as my kids don't become brainwashed to, at least as long as my kids can decide to have their own decision and freedom about what they want to believe and when they want to believe it, because that's the choice, right, and that is the free will that we have as souls here. So again, I don't judge my fight drives me up a wall, but I don't judge him for it. Right, he can, he can do what he wants. But like when he starts impeding on mine and starting to teach my kids. But that's when I get pissed off because I'm just like I'll respect you, you respect me, right. But when people don't respect me, that's a whole other problem. That's when the Boston side of me comes out, right. So I digress.

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So you don't need somebody's approval to do this. In fact, like and I think that's the biggest learning, the biggest lesson and I think a lot of us in this metaphysical work have is coming home to yourself. Coming home and choosing things for you that feel good, that bring you joy, that bring you love, that bring you that sense of wonder and passion and magic, and saying yes to that when everybody else tells you you're crazy for choosing that. Don't choose that. That's not normal. It's like my aunt that I saw the other day. That was always the weird one in the family because she did yoga. I know, really, can we go there? And she's like my aunt that I saw the other day. That was always the weird one in the family because she did yoga. I know, really, can we go there? Um, and she's like thank you, because now you're the weirdest one in the family. I'm like I'll wear that with honor. That doesn't bother me. Um, I'm the one who saw them through the matrix. Is that weird or is that fucking awesome? Because, because, when you realize that all of this is fake and nothing can touch you, it's fucking awesome, thank you.

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I'm going to take that one as not sarcastic from spirit, and so this is kind of going to be my challenge to you is you don't need someone to tell you what your gifts are. If you feel joy or excitement, there is a reason. That is your intuition, that is your inner knowing, and I want you to follow that. Okay, if you are super tentative and super unsure and you do want that validation of, can you just check what I'm capable of or what my gifts are and what I'm, what I can't I'm not going to say supposed to, because I think that takes again away free will, and I think free will is a very important thing here, because we can choose to do whatever we want. Whether you want to pursue this path or you don't want to pursue this path, that's totally up to you. Even if you are naturally gifted in it which is another question that was on that list what happens if you turn away from it? Nothing, nothing happens. You get the choice to and it doesn't mean that you're not going to, you know have hits or downloads or intuition along the way, or maybe come back to it at a later state. But but if you aren't feeling joy and passion in this, even if you've decided to fucking, let's just go there, quit your job and do this work full time and you fucking love it, but you can't pay the bills and it's not fun anymore Like this was me with my photography business. I loved photography and it's not fun anymore Like this was me with my photography business. I loved photography.

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My mom grew up. When I was growing up, my mom was in a photography studio, fucking loved it Like the I w. I got to work in the dark rooms Like I got to. I get to help them on my sick days home from school Cause she was working, my dad was working, so I had to go with somebody and when I was a young kid, I would go in the dark rooms. I would see, I would help develop fucking photos. I would go and see the studio setups Like it was the coolest shit in the world. As a little kid being like, oh my God, and this was like back in the day of film, obviously, because I'm not. I'm not a spring chicken anymore. Um, I say that lovingly to myself. I say that lovingly to myself.

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And so that's what happened is, when I went into photography because I loved it so much, and the reason I got into it was, I started doing portraits and family, family photos and weddings, all because I wanted to buy the equipment. But my passion was not people, my, my passion was landscape photography. Like Ansel Adams, everybody like, can I just plaster my whole house, my whole first floor in this house, are photos I took of epic places all over the world in black and white Couple colors in the hallway. And so I loved nature and I fucking detoured into doing people photography because somebody asked me to. It was easy, it was fast money, but I loathed it. Could you imagine like I loathed it? So once I got enough money to not have to take wedding photos anymore fuck that I ran for the hills right. Once I had all my equipment, I was gone, right.

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But this is what I'm talking about is, even though it was something I loved and adored, I was gone because it wasn't fun for me anymore, because that passion became work and that work was not joy filled. And so, even if you don't want to do this work, even if you do want to do this work and it takes you down a path where it's not joyous anymore, take a pause, take a time out, go away for a while, revisit it at a later date if it's not fun, right, see if it. See if that spark continues. Because I'll tell you right now, I hit micro bursts of that all the time with this work. I have days where I'm just like, fuck this shit Spirit can suck my you know. You know what I mean.

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I'm not gonna go there, I'm not gonna say it everybody, I'm not gonna say that, but, but, like, realistically sorry, that was really crude, it's not what I expected to say Suck my popsicle, everybody. Peanut butter, okay, wow, am I off the hook? Or am I off the hook? Okay, so I'm going to reel my energy back in there for a moment there, cause that is not a phrase I ever say. So there has to be something in there for somebody that just listened to this. Cause I never, ever, ever, say that, um, I'm going to leave it. Cause why not? Why not leave it anyway? Anyway? So this is what I'm talking about.

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So, if you feel like you want to pursue this, pursue this. If you want somebody to tell you what you are naturally more gifted in, what could be more fun, what could be easier for you book, a reading, right. I feel like this is what the Akashic readings, and or, which is my soul alignment readings and or I think I still have my intuitive readings out there. These are perfect for those readings, because you don't want somebody just to say I'm a, what are you? Oh, you're a healer. Right, like no, let's talk about who your soul is. Let's talk about your soul. Let's talk about what your journey is, what your soul's passions are, right, what and how that shows up already in what you do today. Because guaranteed and this is part of the evidence that I'm talking about, guaranteed the things that I'm going to tell you that your soul loves are things you and the whole point of, I think, working in this field is to amplify what you're already doing and how you can use your soul's passions more in alignment with your soul than your incarnation. Does that make sense? And so, yeah, you can find out what gifts you have just by asking somebody who's tapped in. You have, just by asking somebody who's tapped in. But know that if you feel that excitement and that passion, there's a reason and you don't need a leader to kind of show you what, where, where to go. And oh, my god, this episode so long already.

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And so the other thing I just want to say is spirit doesn't tell you everything at once? Okay, that would ruin the fun. Who isn't that the whole point? Like, we came here and we forgot. We forgot who we are, we forgot our path, we forgot our journey. Do you think that suddenly we're going to tap into the spirit world or going to tell us fucking everything? Like really do you think because wouldn't that ruin the fun, wouldn't that ruin the side quest, ruin the journey of, of what we're supposed to be on, what we're supposed to learn, the failures we're supposed to go through to help us position us for more success later on? Like that's the whole point of this. And so if you get a reading, no, it's not going to be the end, all be all of what your quote, unquote path is. It might be what your next few steps are, but I'm going to always encourage you to follow that passion, follow that joy, because you might start, let's say, with psychic work.

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Okay, let's start with healing, right, because I think a lot of people who end up in this space start with, tend to tend to start with Reiki, or it happens very early in your journey. So you tend to start with Reiki, you get your attunement and then the walls blow off your house Because now you've been attuned to spirit and it's just like there goes your crown chakra, it's wide open now. And now, all of a sudden, you're getting psychic downloads right. And now if you go to a thing and you're like a metaphysical practitioner, they're going to be like well, you're a healer and you're a psychic Fantastic, that's great, what else should I do? So maybe you decide, oh, I really want to learn spirit community, I want to work with my soul, so my spirit guides. So you go and take a spirit guide class. Okay, no, I don't have that, maybe soon. So you go and learn all about spirit guides. And then you go from there and you're like, oh, you know what? I really love? The Akashic records. So you go to the Akashic records, right, and you do that for a while and then you decide, oh, I need a break.

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So you take a couple years off, you go to France, get married, fall in love, have a couple kids, and then later on, after you have those kids, you're like, hmm, maybe I should get back into it, right, like it doesn't matter, just go do and live your life and follow the joy while you have it. I think that's my point. And maybe eventually you know, you're walking down the streets of Paris, I'm living my dream life, obviously, and some little woman stops you on the street, grabs your arm and she's like Madame. And you're like mademoiselle, not madame. You know, if you know, you know, you know, madame, you're gifted. And then it reminds you that you're gifted and maybe you get back into it and maybe you decide, you know you, you pull a suzanne geisman and you quit your job at the pentagon in paris yes, maybe. And you decide become a medium like you, like you have no idea. Isn't that the fun? Isn't that? Isn't that the like does?

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Does anyone read the obituaries of people who fucking lived? Who fucking lived? There was one of my co-workers back in the corporate days. Her dad died and I had to check out her obituary because the way she talked about this man you would think he was I don't even know. It's like one of those fictional characters that does everything, everywhere all the time, and his obituary fucking reflected that. I mean, this guy decided to retire by a sailboat and sail around the world for 20 years with his wife.

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What a journey, right. Like you can't predict this stuff, why bother? It would take the fun out of it. Wow, I went everywhere. I told you to suck something. This is not good. Everybody Like, while I'm saying thoughts inside Nicole's brain, while I'm kind of having these conversations and I'm actually talking to you, I'm talking to them in my head saying, do I keep going? Should I cut that out? And they're like no, keep it, it's funny. So there we go. So I guess this is a lot for me to answer and I'm just checking it. So, mystical star 444,.

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Your gifts are your gifts, your soul. You have unlimited potential, but your desire to do gifts might change. Does that make sense? Because we are all from unlimited potential and so you might decide you want to go down one rabbit hole, then the other rabbit hole doesn't mean anything's going to be closed off for you. So no, they don't change. You just change your ability to see what's in best alignment for you at that moment.

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And again, wildflower, meadows I can't say it. Wildflower, why can't I say that word? Meadows, homestead, your gifts are as powerful as you want them to be. Again, it all depends on how much time and effort you want to put into it, because it's going to take work, which is what the previous podcast episode was about. It's going to take work, but you can be incredible at it. You can be the best of your ability, the best in alignment for your soul at it, and I encourage everyone who is interested in this path go down. It's freaking awesome, um.

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And just checking one more. Just checking one more and I think that answers your other question mystical star 444. About um, whether you want to do it or live a normal life, do both. Why not do both? All right, that's where I'm gonna end it.

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I, I, I hope all my expletives and swears show you how passionate I am that you cannot put yourself in a box. Don't let other people put you in a box. If someone is trying to define who you are and what you're capable of, you get to tell them whether you agree with them or not, or don't tell them. You get to decide whether you agree with them or not, but please know we were not put on this earth and shown possible potentials for spirit to turn around and say it's not for you, it doesn't happen that way, does not happen that way. So I am going to be your absolute biggest cheerleader in this space. If what I'm saying resonates with you, stay tuned.

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I spirit has me in my ear about lots of different programs coming up, if you were interested in this metaphysical work, no matter what it is for you, for other people, et cetera, because I want, above anything, to create a safe space for you to learn without the bullshit teachers, without the people who limit your abilities, tell you you can't do it, tell you you have to do it a certain way. Like I can't stand all of these fucking teachers out here, and people have asked me for referrals to other teachers and I don't have anyone I would really refer for a lot of this stuff, and so, um, I am going to put that backpack on myself and give to you what I would want if I were going down this path at this time. So stay tuned for more. Um, if you are intrigued by this, I can't wait to work with you. And for those of you that are just listening and you're already spiritual badasses, you keep going. I'm proud of you All, right from my soul to yours. Have a wonderful, wonderful day, take care.

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