7. From Bullying to Empowerment: Confessions of a Mean Girl

In this conversation, Xela reflects on her past as a mean girl and shares her journey of personal development and growth. She reflects on her experiences of being bullied and becoming a bully herself, starting from elementary school and discusses what's she's learned behind her behavior, including insecurities, jealousy, and a lack of guidance around managing and directing her emotions through self reflection. She also explores the dynamics of school environments and the impact they have on children's behavior. The episode highlights the importance of understanding that humans are dynamic and capable of change. She discusses how seeking attention and positive feedback from her friends led her to engage in negative behaviors, such as fighting and bullying. Xela also opens up about her regrets, including an incident where she brought a gun to school. She highlights the importance of anger management classes and the impact they had on her. Additionally, she talks about her experiences with diversity and inclusion, and how they shaped her perspective on valuing differences. Xela acknowledges that she is still a work in progress and shares her desire to empower other women to develop personally and build strong bonds.

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