Episode 49: Olan Mills Portrait Day

In this episode of 'The Mental Funny Bone,' Sarah and Christine blend humor and heartfelt storytelling while tackling mental health issues. They emphasize the importance of attending therapy sessions and share personal anecdotes about their own mental health journeys. They also revisit nostalgic memories of awkward family photos at Olan Mills studios. As they prepare to shift their podcast release days to Mondays, they encourage listeners to provide feedback and share their favorite episodes. Closing out with a preview of their next book discussion, they invite their audience to join them on a new, more challenging journey into mental well-being.

How to find mental health help when you're struggling. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists
https://washingtoncountyhumanservices.com/agencies/behavioral-health-developmental-services
https://www.alleghenycounty.us/Services/Human-Services-DHS/Publications/Resource-Guides
Apps - Just search mental health where you get your apps.
EAP programs are a great place to look for help!!

Additional Resources (Sports Related):
https://globalsportmatters.com/health/2020/12/04/mental-health-resources-2/

Transcript

Sarah 0:11

Welcome to The Mental Funny Bone, a podcast where we strive to create a safe and entertaining space where listeners can explore mental health topics, find solace, and enjoy laughter. This podcast aims to de-stigmatize mental health discussions and empower individuals to approach their own wellbeing with humor and openness. I'm Sarah.

Chris 0:28

I'm Christine and I am not a mental health professional. Neither is my sister. I would guess that there may be like three or four of you guys out there are medical professionals. Thank you for your service, really. Sarah and I go to mental health professionals. I, I sometimes, I've been skipping my appointments, which is something we'll probably touch on later in this episode.'cause Sarah's really, very much against me skipping the therapy appointments, even though I'm fine. She's shaking her head. She's also drinking something. So when she's done swallowing whatever she has in her mouth,

Sarah 1:03

Please don't say swallow. so my buddy at work, he ha he has a friend whose last name is Swallow. It's actually swallows

Chris 1:10

talking about it.

Sarah 1:12

what the hell is, why it's the best. It's, he like, he had to change his shit for Facebook'cause Facebook wouldn't let him put his name on it as with the last name, swallows. But my favorite story is that he got married and his wife actually changed her last name. Like it would be like me changing my last name to swallows and my name would be Sarah Swallows. And then you have daughters. And your daughters have that last name.

Chris 1:38

No,

Sarah 1:38

not a good idea.

Chris 1:39

They should get to

Sarah 1:40

not a good idea. In that case, the man takes your name. Okay.

Chris 1:45

We're saving everybody here.

Sarah 1:47

Anyway. you should never skip your mental health, appointments, with your therapist, your psychiatrists, whatever, any doctor's appointments actually you shouldn't skip or put off.'cause all of that stuff, when it comes to health is good. It's good stuff. Yeah. We like it. and there's a thi Okay, yeah. I'm not gonna go there.

Chris 2:08

Yeah. You're all done. I'm gonna talk. So I had put off the, going to actually see the psychiatrist for so long that they were like, you have to come in and talk to her face to face, or we can't renew your medication. I was like. That's fair. That's fair. That's a good way to get me into the office for sure. And

Sarah 2:25

I don't think it's like not a law. I, it probably is a law, but I feel like that's a good way to get people in the office.

Chris 2:32

it's nice for us to, it's nice for us to touch base. She's I haven't seen you in a while. I love your shoes. And I was like, oh my God, girl, they're Roth's. And she was like, yeah, they are.

Sarah 2:43

I like how you say that. girl, they're Roth's.

Chris 2:46

Right.

Sarah 2:46

what says I'm a mom more than Roth's.

Chris 2:49

nothing.

Sarah 2:51

I'm with you Roth's. I fucking love the Roth's and I wish I had as many Roth's as you do. I'm very jealous of your Roth's collection.

Chris 2:59

it is one of the joys of my life to, to go into the Rothi store and be like, I'll have this one. Except for I don't want the pointy toed one. I want the kind of rounded toe one. And I would like it with a double strap for the Mary Jane instead of just a single strap.

Sarah 3:14

I'd Like, a little bit of toe cleavage, like if we could make that happen, that would be really great. yeah. I also really, actually would love to be a fly on the wall and listen to you say to anyone at any time about anything. Hey girl.

Chris 3:31

Hey

Sarah 3:31

Hey girl.

Chris 3:33

No, it doesn't even come out like that'cause it comes out like I read, epic fantasy novels and I'm

Sarah 3:39

Hey girl.

Chris 3:40

book club. Hey girl. Hey girl. No, it just doesn't, it doesn't. It doesn't sound right. It sounds like I'm on the sidelines at a soccer game trying to fit in with the other moms. that's what it comes out like

Sarah 3:55

Yeah. Just, continue to, tell stories within it though, because I think it adds something to it, but don't actually do it like in a real life situation.

Chris 4:03

my psychiatrist was like, she gave me like a little open-eyed kind of look when I said girl, she was like, oh, that's okay. All right.

Sarah 4:13

interesting. just so everybody knows, this is how this, episode is gonna go. The entire episode is going to be like this. So if you are annoyed at how we're all over the place already, you should just stop the episode and move on to the next one.

Chris 4:28

Buckle up

Sarah 4:29

There's your

Chris 4:29

friends. so anyway, I get to, and, she files away the, Suburban, soccer mom, girl in her file folder. I can hear it happening. And then she's and we should probably talk about your anxiety. And I was like, my what now?'cause you have to, I don't know if you do it, but when I sit down, they give me a paper to fill out. And oddly enough for this appointment, I was a little bit distracted, so I'm just whizzing through it. I'm like, yes. I do feel overwhelmed. Yes. I do have racing thoughts. I have a DHD. yes. She's it's a little different from the last time and we should probably talk about how much that's telling me about your anxiety. And I was like, I have to be outta here in 15 minutes because I have to do a meeting in your parking lot. And she was like, oh. She's sit down, have a seat. we're gonna have a little bit of a discussion. And I was like, I wish my sister were here because, she would like to, eves drop on this discussion. I would bet.'cause I have been doing the same shit to her for a month now. so the, she was, she's like, how much are you sleeping? I'm like, I remember sleeping. It seemed nice when it was happening. so she, she was like, I know you seem uncomfortable talking about the anxiety, so how about we just ease into it. I'm gonna give you some medication that, it might help like tone it down a little bit. she's also she's, she also took my blood pressure and I was like, I don't know if you should trust that one, because I am really like, I was in a hurry to get here. She was like, that's what your blood pressure, is. It's, a response to all of that.

Sarah 6:00

Yeah, it seems right.

Chris 6:01

It's fun that I think I know more. I was like, I wouldn't pay attention to these things that I'm telling you. I wouldn't pay attention to the machine that just told you I am an anxious mess. I wouldn't, let me tell you I'm fine.

Sarah 6:15

Yeah,

Chris 6:16

she was like,

Sarah 6:16

because yeah, if you keep saying it, you will be fine. I think that's what you have going on, because that's what you keep telling me. Actually, no, we keep determining that you're not fine, but then you keep coming back to I'm fine.

Chris 6:30

I'm fine.

Sarah 6:31

I'll say one more time.

Chris 6:32

I'm

Sarah 6:33

You're not fine. you might be fine. I feel like your relationship with work is not fine.

Chris 6:38

this is probably accurate, but also something that I'm aware of and working on.

Sarah 6:45

be

Chris 6:46

I'm aware of it.

Sarah 6:47

okay. I was gonna say you went a little too far with the working on aware of it. I think is where we've gotten to working on. cause It is, it's, 7:24 PM and I just had to instruct you to close whatever application it is that allowing work to bother you. And I like the fact that you picked up your cell phone just now and you were gonna look at it. Oh,

Chris 7:11

fuck you piss off, fuck off. It is my emotional support. Rubik's Cube.

Sarah 7:18

I'm so proud of you. I'm so proud of you. anyway.

Chris 7:22

Anyway. Yes. I am, I'm aware of the problem and I think that's probably one of the first steps.'cause now the problem is starting to, it's an unacceptable problem for me. So it'll eventually get to the point where I'm so aware of the problem that I can't do anything but fix the problem.

Sarah 7:38

Yeah. And I was actually just reading about that in the new book that we're gonna start, how you typically wait until shit hits the fan, before you do anything about it. And we're gonna learn how to start being a little more proactive about it.

Chris 7:52

I think that's fair. I think that's

Sarah 7:54

And I was, even before reading that, I feel like I, at this point, I would've said, do you think that's a really good idea? Like you literally just said, it's gonna happen. So do you think it's a great idea just to sit back and wait until shit implodes and then do something about it? I feel

Chris 8:09

here's the

Sarah 8:10

if you see the car coming at you and you have the time to hit the brakes or swerve, I feel like you should do one of those.

Chris 8:18

yeah. Yeah. I think the trick is that I'm finally realizing. you're gonna this one?'cause it is a place that we can start from for moving forward. I think there's a part of me that really likes having the problem. there's a part of me that really enjoys this, that really likes the adrenaline, that likes the stand up, like that, likes all of this for some super bizarre reason. And I think until I can talk through like that piece of bullshit that I will continue complaining about it. like the alcoholic who is I really should stop drinking, but you know what I really doing, going out to bars and having a good time on. Yeah. I really like

Sarah 9:00

I think it. has to go back to, I love that I've become your psychiatrist or

Chris 9:04

Me too. I should just, I can't wait to play this for my girl, Emily.

Sarah 9:08

yeah, because I think it goes back to your need, to be good at what you do and to be needed.

Chris 9:14

yeah.

Sarah 9:15

and that's something that hypes you up and that you dig, but. It's not good for you, so.

Chris 9:23

yes.

Sarah 9:23

Yes. Yes. okay. now that we've figured it out,

Chris 9:26

right now that's done right, there's, is there, the problem is it's not like being an alcoholic, like there are certain rewards for this behavior that are pleasant. Do you

Sarah 9:40

for alcoholics, I bet there are big rewards because you don't, because you drink a few drinks like a bottle of vodka, and you're like, woo, I don't feel anything anymore. I feel like that's a reward.

Chris 9:51

Life rewards. I'm not gonna hit rock. I'm not gonna hit rock bottom working too much. no one is gonna, no one is gonna come along and be like, Hey, just so you know, everyone hates you.

Sarah 10:03

Yeah. But that might

Chris 10:03

wait a minute. Yeah. Okay. now I

Sarah 10:07

everybody might not hate you, but, what are you neglecting to get to the praise that you're looking for at work?

Chris 10:14

No, I gotcha. I gotcha. I see it. I see it now. I see the destructive path and that it is not the same as an alcoholic and yet not so very different

Sarah 10:23

No, because, I think it hurts relationships.

Chris 10:26

yeah. Yeah. It doesn't pay as well. that's the

Sarah 10:29

yeah. Yeah.

Chris 10:30

Yeah. The

Sarah 10:30

if we found somebody, if I could get paid for being an alcoholic,

Chris 10:35

wait. we'd never see you.

Sarah 10:38

talk about fucking purpose.

Chris 10:39

That girl hit rock bottom so many

Sarah 10:41

headfirst.

Chris 10:42

Wow. She actually hit rock bottom, rented a hole, digger, and then dug down. She has a jackhammer in her hand right now. She is recreating rock bottom all the time.

Sarah 10:52

Oh, that's not fair. Eh? Whatever.

Chris 10:56

but it is funny.

Sarah 10:57

Eh,

Chris 10:57

Yes. these are, these are things that will eventually need to be,

Sarah 11:02

see. and I'm gonna stop you again, because you say eventually

Chris 11:06

There's just one little thing, there's just one little reward that I want. Now I want to finish this particular piece of work that we're working on that will be done by Friday. If we can get to that point, then I will be willing. There's one big party left for the alcoholic. Like I know that you guys are planning an intervention and I know that's why you invited me over to mom's house and on my way I am gonna hit every bar just so when I get to the intervention, I'm pretty well loaded up for that ride to rehab.

Sarah 11:36

it better be the last intervention.

Chris 11:38

So that's all I'm saying. That's all I'm saying is I

Sarah 11:40

there's a point, there's a point that the family gets to that they just leave you.

Chris 11:44

You, you guys love me.

Sarah 11:46

We do. And we're not gonna leave you. We would never leave you. I feel like our, what is it, the analogy to the alcoholic has now turned terribly bad and now it hurts my heart because I wouldn't leave you as an alcoholic either.

Chris 11:58

I know

Sarah 11:59

beat you up and shit. But

Chris 12:01

I would be sad for

Sarah 12:02

we'd have some good fights.

Chris 12:04

get in the car, we're going to rehab. I don't

Sarah 12:07

headlocks, it would be great. yeah. Okay. so have your party on Friday

Chris 12:11

Yeah. Yeah. Yes.

Sarah 12:14

um, for everybody who's listening, it's Wednesday, so I feel like we can give you two more days.

Chris 12:19

right? I feel like I, I'm gonna stop and see my dealer,

Sarah 12:23

as you're not driving, that's fine.

Chris 12:24

how I gotta drive to the therapy place.

Sarah 12:26

Oh,

Chris 12:27

Now we're mixing up the analogies. Yeah. I'll be fine. Yes. I do recognize that this is an, this is unsupportable and, not good for me. And regardless of how many people are going to pat me on the back, it will never be enough to fill whatever kind of thing I'm trying to fill with that sort of praise. Like it'll never be enough. To, to, convince me that I'm a worthwhile human being if I can't convince myself of that fact without that praise.

Sarah 12:58

Amen. Preach.

Chris 13:00

yeah, we're working on it here. We're working on it here. So let's talk about, while we

Sarah 13:05

I'm gonna, hold on, I'm gonna stop real quick'cause I have my email up here, my personal email, and it looks like you sent me an invite around seven o'clock for August 6th.

Chris 13:15

Oh, yeah. eventually, yeah, Becca, you should have one too. So we're gonna record something apparently on August 6th.

Sarah 13:22

what? I thought it was a rec record. I thought it was an invite for this recording,

Chris 13:26

It was supposed to be,

Sarah 13:27

I just go into the studio thing, like I don't even need an invite anymore. I've learned that we're year in. granted, I just learned that two recordings ago, but that's what I thought it was, and I opened it up and I was like, August 6th.

Chris 13:40

I was here all by myself and I thought maybe you guys couldn't get in. So I sent you an invitation for not

Sarah 13:46

August 6th at 4:00 PM Not even the right time.

Chris 13:49

shut up. the best

Sarah 13:51

I was like, I'm thinking shit. she could barely commit three hours ago to this time, and she's trying to send me a fucking meeting invite for August 6th. The

Chris 14:04

That's, I know. I'll be free. I know I'll be free.

Sarah 14:07

This fucking girl.

Chris 14:08

This bitch. God damnit. Hey girl, you got the time wrong.

Sarah 14:13

Hey girl. Hey girl. Hey. Wrong time, wrong day, wrong. Everything

Chris 14:19

Stopping being wrong.

Sarah 14:20

okay?

Chris 14:22

Alright, so let's go right from me being wrong into, and us having the, that discussion about, how my mental health is, potentially getting, problematic. and let's talk about how you sent me this video and it hit some sort of nerve inside of me and the video was about how we're all pro mental health and we're all pro, take care of yourself and we're all about all of this until,

Sarah 14:52

Mental health matters. Hashtag or the hashtag gives first. Whatever.

Chris 14:56

something and until it, it impacts something. So until I'm so like overwhelmed with shit that I can't respond to your text message. So you're like, Ugh, what a bitch. Or until I say I wanna make plans with you, and then I have to cancel them because I have this crippling anxiety that won't let me leave the house. And I think that it is important for us to remember that in our support of mental health, that sometimes it's messy. Like sometimes people who have mental health issues do things that are pretty shitty and pretty fucked up. And you need to separate out the mental health issue from the person and understand that, if I'm gonna be brave enough to say, Hey, I gotta go to the psychiatrist during this meeting, then I don't think you get to be surprised when I also then say three days later I need to take a half a day off. that, this shouldn't surprise anybody. Like this shouldn't, be weird and it shouldn't be like, can we really trust her with stuff now? Like it's a pretty critical time in this project. And she went ahead and fucked off for the entire four hours of the afternoon yesterday. it's important that we keep that message alive too, that yeah, sometimes this gets messy and sometimes it's, hard to deal with. And just like other health issues, sometimes it gets in the way of who we are and who we want to be. And we don't intend that to be insulting. And somebody who, is missing an arm isn't gonna be able to go mountain climbing with you. So when you invite

Sarah 16:29

there's someone

Chris 16:29

when you

Sarah 16:30

some overachiever out there.

Chris 16:32

granted, all abilities, all times. There are some people who have crippling, social anxiety that aren't gonna wanna go to that super crowded concert with you. And it's not. It's not anything to do with you, and it's not anything to do with their, disability. It's just that's just too much for them. And there are some people with crippling social anxiety who will go, but

Sarah 16:56

Most, at least in my own experience, I don't want to be that way.

Chris 17:00

I

Sarah 17:01

I'm not like, Hey, you know what would be awesome is if all my friends got to go to this really fun concert or this really awesome band that I totally love and I couldn't because I couldn't handle being around that many people.

Chris 17:12

Oh, you know what I, Exactly. Exactly.

Sarah 17:16

We don't want to be so sad that we can't talk to you

Chris 17:19

I don't.

Sarah 17:20

phone.

Chris 17:21

I don't wanna be so overwhelmed with everything else in my life that looking at your text makes me sad. because, and it doesn't make me sad because I'm not happy to hear from you. It makes me sad because I don't have the ability right now to process that, put it into my life, even though it feels like I have nothing else going on. these are re, these are realities. And sometimes it's not, I think maybe this is it to finish up this topic, like beating a dead horse here. and to segue into what Mel Robbins is pedaling. and I then I'll be done. I'll be

Sarah 17:52

not allowed to talk about Mel Robbins. Go ahead.

Chris 17:54

That's it. sometimes it's messy. I.

Sarah 17:57

Yeah. And it can't just be until it's something that matters and it matters all the time. And if we're gonna help each other, we have to, be a little patient with each other. And just like I said a little while ago, if you were an alcoholic, I wouldn't leave you, I won't leave you because of your mental health either.

Chris 18:16

I know I'm working on it. Not as actively as I should, but I'm working on it.

Sarah 18:21

Here's something that you might want to leave me for though. I've noticed this in the past, if you were recordings and maybe in the past like few weeks and pictures I see of myself, I feel like I have a lazy eye. Or a lazy eyelid or this eye seems to be smaller than this eye. Do you see what I speak of?

Chris 18:42

I think it's your eyelashes

Sarah 18:44

I don't, but look at this is a different shape. Like when did this happen? I don't

Chris 18:50

everybody's eyes are like that. Look

Sarah 18:51

but to this extreme, like I feel like I'm completely lopsided.

Chris 18:56

Now that you pointed out, it might be a little bit more than I,

Sarah 18:59

It's like quasimoto status and I don't even have a sty.

Chris 19:03

are you having a stroke?

Sarah 19:05

That's, I, that's what I noticed it in a picture a few weeks ago and I was like, Jesus, what the fuck is happening to my eye? And then I just now was like, wait a second. That eye's doing that thing again. I don't know if it's doing something or if that's just the way it always is.

Chris 19:20

you know what can fix it? Botox, I'm sure of it.

Sarah 19:24

Me

Chris 19:24

or you make an appointment with an actual doctor.

Sarah 19:27

Nah,

Chris 19:28

Ah,

Sarah 19:29

nah,

Chris 19:30

Becca. Becca. I'm just gonna note that 20 minutes ago, I think we've marked where, where she was like, oh, it's important you don't miss any of your employment. So

Sarah 19:39

it's important that I don't miss My, doctor. my my Botox doctor appointments.

Chris 19:44

Not Botox. Go to the real doctor, dummy,

Sarah 19:47

Oh, yeah. I have those appointments all the time.

Chris 19:50

go to the eye doctor or go to the brain

Sarah 19:53

I'm going, let's see, the eye doctor's in June, I just checked because I need some new glasses.

Chris 19:58

that is 1, 2, 3. That's three months away. Do

Sarah 20:01

Yeah. I'm one of those people who, who plans those in advance?

Chris 20:06

oh, I just show up. do you remember my college friend who ended up with a brain tumor after being at the eye doctor?

Sarah 20:12

No. alright. so that's enough about my eyeball. I will, I'll consult with someone about it tomorrow. I don't know, I have to take my car to get my tires looked at tomorrow. Maybe they'll know what's wrong

Chris 20:22

Ask the mechanic, he'll know,

Sarah 20:24

Hey, so while we're at it, can you tell me why this, anyway.

Chris 20:29

Hey, thanks for rotating my tires. Can you look at my face?

Sarah 20:32

Yeah. So that's, that'll be fun. I can't wait to do that. We have that. And then, the air conditioning guy or the heating guy, I think whatever the furnace people are. Yeah. The HVAC people are coming. And I get anxious when that guy comes to the house because he wants to like talk and hang out.

Chris 20:51

you work at home. Of course you're there for him to talk and hang out.

Sarah 20:54

And I'm like, dude, I don't, no, nope. And then I play the dumb wife. I'm like, you're have to call my husband. You're gonna have to call my

Chris 21:04

for you.

Sarah 21:05

You're gonna have to call my husband.

Chris 21:07

That's one reason to get married. Becca. Just FYI.

Sarah 21:11

Yeah. To blame someone else or send the annoying people to the other person.

Chris 21:16

A hundred percent.

Sarah 21:18

okay, so let's, let's talk about Friday.

Chris 21:20

Yay. Oh, we had so much fun. Oh, you guys missed it.

Sarah 21:24

Yeah. And

Chris 21:25

not all of

Sarah 21:25

miss it. and were there, thank you so much for coming out. We had a blast. I love that bar. So I'm, I don't know if Charlie will ever listen to podcasts, but, I do love that bar. I wish it wasn't, 30 minutes away from me,

Chris 21:39

me too.

Sarah 21:40

but, the bar is nice. I did a, we did a green tea shot, which is The, first time I've ever done one of those. and that bartender was cute.

Chris 21:49

Yeah. He was,

Sarah 21:51

And,

Chris 21:53

really young,

Sarah 21:53

yeah,

Chris 21:54

letting anyone bartend these days. Like all the bartenders are really young.

Sarah 21:59

like 30. Fuck somebody. Somebody said something today on a meeting about being 50, and I was like,

Chris 22:06

Bitch,

Sarah 22:07

I am literally now only three years away from that. Fuck.

Chris 22:14

Yeah. Yeah. It's terrible to be three years away from 51 4.

Sarah 22:23

Okay. yes. So thank you for everybody. It was a wonderful weekend. I had, Friday we got to celebrate, the Mental Funny Bone and us doing this for a year and we're figuring it out. and, the Walkers showed up. Bobby and Lori showed up, and then on Sunday, Bobby took a picture of, the podcast. He was listening to it in the car, so that was awesome. They just showed up'cause they're great friends. And, Bobby had never listened to the podcast, so we chatted and, now he's listening to it. I did tell him to listen to the Jigs Butthole episode and the Pope episode. Those are my two favorites.

Chris 23:01

one.

Sarah 23:02

I think those are The, two that I did my most crying because of laughing.

Chris 23:06

we'd like to hear from you guys. if you could hit us up at gastro girls, at gmail.com and tell us what your favorite episode was. I'm interested in that.

Sarah 23:14

Yeah, I'd like to, know

Chris 23:15

would like to know

Sarah 23:16

I would like to know too. And while we're on

Chris 23:18

And, why is it your favorite episode? Is it because I'm funnier than Sarah?

Sarah 23:22

Never. No.

Chris 23:23

No. Huh.

Sarah 23:25

it just because we talked about jigs, hiss butthole and just because saying jigs, his butthole is funny, or we talked about the, or we talked about the thing that carries the pope around

Chris 23:35

The pops rickshaw.

Sarah 23:36

I have to tell you, nothing delights me more than listening to our own podcast in the car and crying as I'm laughing.

Chris 23:42

We should do it. thank you guys for listening. We do really appreciate it. but if you didn't, we would just listen to these over and over again.

Sarah 23:50

we'd have a bazillion downloads'cause it would just be us downloading it over and

Chris 23:54

Oh, crying.

Sarah 23:55

over again. yeah, and I rewind it and listen to things again'cause they're so funny.

Chris 24:01

I hilarious. this podcast is hilarious. All right.

Sarah 24:04

Yeah. So tell us, tell us what episodes you like and, along those same lines, we would also like to ask you for some input. we have spent a year talking about ourselves and doing good things for our mental wellbeing, which is fine and we'll continue to do that. We're not gonna stop doing that. But, we would also like you guys to shoot us an email and let us know things that you wanna talk about and we can start venturing into, different material.

Chris 24:32

Yes, I think that would be fun. anyway. Gaster girls, G-A-S-T-E-R girls, GIRL s@gg.com.

Sarah 24:45

Well done. Well done. I

Chris 24:46

Thank you.

Sarah 24:47

so then I guess we'll take that and go into, material or No, you have a gastro story.

Chris 24:53

I wanted to talk just very briefly about our adventures at Olin Mills.

Sarah 24:59

Yes. Yes. I believe that Becca. does not know what Olin Mills is.

Chris 25:04

Becca, I am so sorry for you and your generation of children.

Sarah 25:09

I'm, while you're doing this, I'm going to go on the Facebook and try to find the Olin Mills picture that you posted, Christine, and send it to Becca. So go ahead and

Chris 25:18

see if you could find not only the one where I am holding you as a baby like

Sarah 25:24

but the one where you're in the background, shadowed in the

Chris 25:27

where I am shadowed like Olin Mills. Becca, back in the day was, a way that you could tell your children without saying it out loud, which one you loved more.

Sarah 25:37

100%.

Chris 25:38

would do, Olin Mills was a photography studio and you would take your children there. And they would pose them in weird and bizarre ways with weird and bizarre backgrounds. I'm sure you have seen these pictures on the internet, like there would be a meadow and in front of this picture of a meadow is a fake fence. And then there would be like a dad with a mullet and a goth mom and three weird kids, in these pictures. So there was a, there was an only mills in Southland Shopping Center, so

Sarah 26:08

Behind the, old country buffet, or what was that? Is that what that was called?

Chris 26:13

yes, I think before it was the old country buffet,

Sarah 26:16

may have been the Oland Mills.

Chris 26:17

but it was like tucked in the back. So your mom had to drag you outta the car and try to get you from the parking lot to the studio without getting dirty. And for me it was impossible. I would pick up dirt faster than Roomba. it, I just, and she would braid my hair and do it all nice. And by the time I got inside, there'd be like four hairs all over. and then Sarah would turn up like a little beautiful, blonde afro to angel.

Sarah 26:41

when did she ever do anybody's hair? I now feel like I, have to find my school pictures because there was never, the hair in every one of my school pictures is hideous.

Chris 26:55

there were braids. I, she sat, I'll show you the school picture. The school pictures were bad, Becca.'cause we were outta her control for a long period of time before they took the pictures. I feel like ever gased her story, I'm just telling it directly to Becca these days.

Sarah 27:09

Yeah, it's fine.

Chris 27:10

just to explain to her like, the life of Olin Mills. Yeah, like we, we had my mom would put, I had piggy tails, like one on each side. And back in the day they had these, they had these, giant chunks of yarn and you would just tie a giant chunk of yarn in a bow around a child's piggy tails. And you would call that dressed up. And that's how we would get our pictures taken. So cute. So cute. yeah. But for this one session, I had to be like maybe nine, eight or nine, and Sarah's maybe three or four. And she is, she looks like

Sarah 27:42

That's just

Chris 27:42

not that one. Not that

Sarah 27:44

that, this is the example of what my hair looked like in every elementary school picture. This is one of the worst,

Chris 27:53

true. Why

Sarah 27:55

it was always pulled up like that. And you know what, now I've learned, that's why this is receding.

Chris 28:00

Because your mom

Sarah 28:01

That started, that shit started in kindergarten. Go ahead. I can't find the olden mills one yet, but I found that one

Chris 28:08

So Sarah's eight-ish. No, I'm eight-ish and Sarah's three or four. And she is a adorable little blonde, afro blue-eyed baby, like adorable. She looks like

Sarah 28:20

Afro,

Chris 28:21

the hair makes her look like she is wearing a halo all the time. All the time. And she is. She appears to just be so quiet, mostly'cause she's shy and afraid of doing things. But there's the one where I'm choking her. I'm grabbing onto the back of that shirt. Look at my hair, Becca.

Sarah 28:40

Yeah. It's terrible.

Chris 28:42

My mom did her best and that's what it turned to From the car to the Olin Mills. Is Olin Mills written on that picture? Please tell me It

Sarah 28:50

oh, I found it. Yeah. Olin Mills is on this one.

Chris 28:54

look at this shit, Becca. Look at it. Look at it. Oh no, it went away. yeah, she's got, so I'll just describe the picture. we are both wearing blouses more appropriate for a 40-year-old attorney. my mom has pulled my hair back because, it's so unruly. You can clearly see I'm going to need a significant amount of orthodontic care in the near term.

Sarah 29:15

And your eyes are crooked.

Chris 29:17

one tooth, one tooth is, directly straight out. And, she, Sarah's got like poofy sleeves and her

Sarah 29:24

love that

Chris 29:25

nice. It is so real. It is so real. And she's got like little barrettes in her little blonde afro. Looks amazingly done. And she's got her chin, her hand up to her chin and she's just looking like I'm the prettiest girl that ever existed. And what my mother chose to do is have her in the foreground and then in the background, unlike a shadow, you can only see half of my head.

Sarah 29:51

Yeah. It was the good half though, and it was the front. I feel like It maybe it wasn't, maybe they should have gone

Chris 29:57

one of the sides. and then you would go back, like you wouldn't see them then. Like they didn't have proofs. You would have to go back.

Sarah 30:05

yeah, that

Chris 30:06

one, I'm wearing a terrycloth dress. That dress is made of terrycloth. If Becca, I feel, I also feel sorry for you'cause you've never worn anything made of terrycloth.

Sarah 30:15

Yeah. Yeah.

Chris 30:16

so sad. But that's what my mom picked for me. Sarah's wearing a little communion dress. She looks like a little princess. I'm choking her in that picture. Like I'm pulling as hard as I can on the back of that smiling.

Sarah 30:27

I was resilient.

Chris 30:29

good thing. so yeah. And then you, and you would go and your mom could pick the picture where you're in the front or

Sarah 30:36

This is the picture Olivia will talk about later in life. Hey, remember that picture where mom made us all wear penguin outfits with fucking turtlenecks?

Chris 30:45

do you think it was the mom? Do you think it was the mom? I'll tell you right

Sarah 30:49

I'm sorry, everybody. You're just gonna have to go to YouTube.

Chris 30:52

you gotta look at it on YouTube. It's so funny. yeah. And your mom could pick the one where you're in front, Becca, or she could pick the one where your brother Max is in front. I. That's how they tell you which one they love more.

Sarah 31:05

Yeah.

Chris 31:05

I don't know why I'm so obsessed with getting praise from people that aren't my parents. I don't know

Sarah 31:11

do I. That's weird.

Chris 31:13

Emily, if you could just listen to this episode, this will save us a lot of time on Friday,

Sarah 31:18

Really strange.

Chris 31:20

thank you. I'll send her a note. so that is my experience at Olin Mills. They, I would get, you would get so excited for it'cause it like you were like the center of attention and the guy would take your pa Oh, so fun. Olin Mills day was so fun and you could almost guarantee that someone would feed you outside of the home.

Sarah 31:39

yeah. Yeah. We can go to Mickey

Chris 31:41

Nita would be busy. So we would leave there, which is right by the fast food. We would drive home and we'd wait for Jumbo to get home and then we would have to convince him to spend the$8 it was gonna cost to take us all out to eat at McDonald's.

Sarah 31:56

that shit was expensive.

Chris 31:57

Eight bucks. Family of four, Sarah would only eat chili from

Sarah 32:02

dude was probably making 15,000 a year.

Chris 32:06

Eight bucks.

Sarah 32:06

Legit.

Chris 32:07

So there you go. That is it. That is our Olin Mills. That is my Olin Mills story. I thought about it over the weekend and I was like, this, I can't believe that we couldn't come up with better hairstyles for the children. I guess there's no YouTube to go to. Nita

Sarah 32:23

Nobody was instructing you. I can just, I have made up the memory of standing in the bathroom, our small little bathroom at Simo and mommy trying to fix my hair and me, I know unbelievably not standing still or listening to anything she's saying and her just taking the brush and hitting me over the head with it and saying, fine. You wanna look like that's what you'll look like. Just get out of here. I can see it. I can, that's what I have made up, but I'm not sure I made that up. I'm pretty sure that happened.

Chris 32:59

I don't know. I don't know. I had sticks in my hair a lot, and my hair was long.

Sarah 33:03

Yeah. you always had long hair. I always had short hair.

Chris 33:06

it was supposed to be in like a braid or tied up, or it was supposed to be off my face, tomboy style. in order to get it there, you had to brush it and I, it had sticks in it, so Nita would try to get the brush through. It was wavy, straight, and it would just not brush very well. yeah, I think we both got lumped in the head with the hairbrush a couple of times.

Sarah 33:24

Yeah. And I was, mommy got real into Orphan Annie.

Chris 33:28

Oh yes. I don't know why. I don't know why this is a hair. This is a hairstyle. She was like, these children look adorable. We will get them super tight perms and we will cut

Sarah 33:42

and

Chris 33:42

all over.

Sarah 33:43

you can see like at least like your hair always has some sort of volume or a little bit of something to it. My hair, it's so straight that it's absurd. So the amount of perming that had to happen to get the Orphan Annie hairstyle, oh, you know what? I want our listeners to share their, Olin Mills pictures with us too.

Chris 34:06

Oh, please. Oh, please do that. Oh, please send them to gastro girls@gmail.com.

Sarah 34:10

if they're not only males, like just send us fucked up school pictures. make us know that we're not alone.

Chris 34:16

the only ones. Like

Sarah 34:17

That's all we're asking a lot from our listeners. I can't wait to be sad like in a couple months, in a few weeks when we don't get anything

Chris 34:27

gonna be like, come on guys. The hell.

Sarah 34:30

but the fuck.

Chris 34:31

why do you wanna disappoint us? We're on the edge already as it is. All right. Let's talk about this book.

Sarah 34:37

Okay, before we do that, I have one thing. let's see, we had, two more supporters show up on Buy Me a Coffee, and that's Andrew, my friend Andrea. Thank you for your support and, Lori, why can't I say her fucking last name? Lori Black.

Chris 34:55

Lori Black who got married to someone. Thank you, Lori.

Sarah 34:58

Oh, for the love. So yeah. That's awesome. And I was really happy that mommy and daddy got to see people, from our past on Friday too, and I thought that was pretty

Chris 35:08

was really fun.

Sarah 35:09

that they got to catch up with people. And I'm pretty sure they were excited about it too. So

Chris 35:14

It was adorable. Like all of Friday was adorable.

Sarah 35:17

it was, we had a really good time and we made nanny dance.

Chris 35:21

Oh my God.

Sarah 35:22

wowed on The dance floor.

Chris 35:23

Can we give a shout out to the band? Whose name I don't remember.

Sarah 35:26

Old school. Old school.

Chris 35:29

Oh my goodness. I was sweating,

Sarah 35:31

Poison. put Poison. Never trusted a big but to smile. Yeah. They busted out the good shit after you last left, Becca?

Chris 35:39

Sorry, Becca.

Sarah 35:41

Yep.

Chris 35:41

I like big butts and I cannot lie.

Sarah 35:44

did they play that one? I don't even remember that one.

Chris 35:47

we were walking out, like we were on our way out and I was like, wait, it's my theme song.

Sarah 35:53

Yeah, they did. They did my two favorite. They did, they did ice, baby and Poison by Beliv. Devo. So I was very happy with that. I think there was a gentleman on the dance floor that was trying to dance with your mother. our mother. Yeah. It was weird. I'm not sure. I vaguely remember. Anyway, okay, so again, thank you everybody for coming out on Friday. We had a ton of fun. Yay.

Chris 36:15

yet. All

Sarah 36:15

Can't wait to do it again next year. Okay.

Chris 36:18

about the switch. I'll be quiet, I promise.

Sarah 36:21

so the, let Them book, we're gonna let them put it back on the shelf. We love it. It's a great book. It really is. I know that it's very popular and please continue to read it. Finish it. It's great advice. We are deciding to shut it though and move on to another book, and that is simply because we have, we're feeling as though we're just repeating a lot of stuff. So we have another book we wanna get into. The next book is A Little More Sy, which I know man Nerd's, sister loves, and it is called Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself, which sounds like a stab to the heart man. how to lose your Mind and create a new one. So pick it up, read along with us. We're not starting it today. I did read the introduction and there were a few things that, gave me anxiety, the mention of physics several times,

Chris 37:15

No, it's awesome. It was the only thing that kept me turning the page. I'm like, tell me more. Tell me more about the quantum structure of my body.

Sarah 37:23

There's gonna be so much, that I'm gonna have to ask questions about, but so much that I think is really cool and like talking about studies and that's really the kind of shit that we wanna get into and talk about. And, I also think that this one is gonna be as far as us following along and doing what the book is about and following the lessons, I feel like this one's gonna be a bit more challenging

Chris 37:47

Yeah,

Sarah 37:47

in a good way.

Chris 37:48

I think. you're right. I mean there's, I did although I like the science part, I enjoy that. there's a lot of stuff in here that is gonna take a little bit of me being like, okay, it's based in science.'cause I feel like he's gonna have to convince me that there's a study that actually says that. I feel like we're getting into you remember when we were reading Dan Harris's book and he's talking about, he's talking about Eckert Toll and Eckert Toll is like blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. and immediately I was like, I'm not listening to a good thing Eckert Toll says. so I think this guy might be like, same Sameish. but

Sarah 38:22

what I was getting as I was reading the introduction. I felt like this was one where I was reading the introduction and there was some sciencey stuff that I was like, cool, and then I turned the page and there'd be some shit that I was like, I'm not sure I buy that.

Chris 38:34

I don't think you can cure cancer just by thinking about it,

Sarah 38:37

Yeah. So there's definitely there. This'll be interesting. It will be very interesting'cause I think there's a lot of stuff in here that we, agree with and think is cool, and there's some stuff that we're probably gonna need a little bit of convincing about. So I I like that. Part of it that will be a little more challenge. And then the third part of it is all about the meditation practices and how to do, it's a book of three parts. So the first two is just like the background and all of the stuff we need to know to get into part three. Which part three is the how to,

Chris 39:15

Meditation never tells me I'm doing it right though. there's very little reward immediately when you're doing meditation. Like at least if I'm running on a treadmill, I'm getting like a little bit of endorphins, right? Like me meditating and sitting there and talking to myself about it. I understand that if I keep doing it, the cumulative effect will be that I can potentially change the chemistry in my brain and

Sarah 39:36

ding, ding.

Chris 39:37

But there's a very, no one is there oh my gosh, Christine, you are so good at meditating. Look at

Sarah 39:43

this is the challenge. This is the challenge.

Chris 39:46

I understand.

Sarah 39:48

so yeah, so I think this one's gonna be a bit more challenging on all sorts of levels. Like my ability to say placebo and not place bo, like that's gonna be super challenging. asking you like about atoms and physics and

Chris 40:05

together.

Sarah 40:05

that's, it's gonna be tough. But I am very excited about it.

Chris 40:09

Listen, Becca's graduated in a couple weeks. she can look this stuff up for

Sarah 40:12

yeah, she could look it up as

Chris 40:14

You'll be fine, Becca. You're gonna be our science teacher now.

Sarah 40:17

Yeah.

Chris 40:18

to the end of your internship. you now teach us about atoms.

Sarah 40:21

there you go. An A-A-T-O-M-S not like

Chris 40:26

ad like a boy, Adam, we don't wanna know

Sarah 40:29

Hey.

Chris 40:29

you, do

Sarah 40:30

Side note. I thought of this thinking about Blink 180 2. It's 180 2, right? Not 180 4. It's 180 2.

Chris 40:38

Psalm 41 is what you're thinking

Sarah 40:39

Jesus. I can't stand the numbers. Don't I hate Matchbox 40. I don't know. It don't give me the numbers. You B 50, I don't know.

Chris 40:49

Shut up

Sarah 40:50

anyway, so Blink 180 2, the reason I'm reminded is because we said this is how fucked up my brain is. We said Adam, it's a DAM, and it reminded me of Adam's song, which is a Blink 180 2 song. And Becca, it is also one of my favorites. so anyway, there is a memoir coming out from the, lead singer of Blink 180 2 that I am.

Chris 41:18

Memoir.

Sarah 41:19

I interested. he had cancer and went through some really crazy shit. in addition to being in a rock and roll band in the nineties, is that what it's called? Rock and Roll Band? I feel like my

Chris 41:31

sure. They're p they're the punk. They're like the

Sarah 41:34

yeah, there we

Chris 41:35

not the beginning, but they're like an extension of the real punk. They existed in the seventies.

Sarah 41:40

And I saw him interviewed on Good Morning America

Chris 41:45

why do you watch the news? You

Sarah 41:47

because there's shit like this on it and I was fascinated and his hair was all fucking wacky and awesome and I loved it. And, anyway, so I feel like I'm gonna pick up that book and read that too.'cause

Chris 41:59

know, they're coming in concert this summer to Washington, Pennsylvania.

Sarah 42:03

are they.

Chris 42:04

Yeah. There's a music festival in Washington, Jimmy Eat World. Do you remember? They're from Mesa.

Sarah 42:10

Becca, are we gonna go? I feel like you should look this up and, we should make plans to go,

Chris 42:15

I have tickets.

Sarah 42:16

what the fuck?

Chris 42:18

It's, I didn't think anyone else would wanna go with me.

Sarah 42:21

What? All right, Becca, let's make plans. Fuck her. Me and you. We'll

Chris 42:28

on Saturday.

Sarah 42:29

It's multiple

Chris 42:29

on Saturday. Yeah,

Sarah 42:31

Sh. All right. what is the date? What's the date?

Chris 42:35

I don't have any idea. it's some festival. I'll send you. David sent me the link I probably just gave my, somebody was probably scamming me and I probably just gave my money to somebody in Indonesia who put together

Sarah 42:46

I'm thinking we're going off again.

Chris 42:48

all the bands I like and were like, Hey, there's a festival. It's right by you. What are the odds?

Sarah 42:53

the fire festival is happening again. Has, have you guys heard this? Yeah.

Chris 42:57

I think I bought tickets to it.

Sarah 42:59

Again,

Chris 42:59

gonna be in Washington, pa.

Sarah 43:01

and it's the same dude running it, like the same dude who was in jail. And from what I, this was in passing. I heard on the news that again, there are signs that it's not actually going to happen. Like it's literally the same thing is happening. How I don't, ladies and gentlemen, this is why we learn history. This is why we need to know that things have happened bad in the past, so we don't do them again. I know some people are opposed to it, but really it will, it saves us all in the long run. I really wanna talk to these stupid fucks that bought tickets to the second Fyre Festival. That won't not fucking happen.

Chris 43:46

it's the four Chord music festival. So that's real. It's real, it's in the paper.

Sarah 43:52

Oh, okay.

Chris 43:54

It's in the Pittsburgh Post Gazette. Do you remember the Pittsburgh Post

Sarah 43:57

Oh, that's a fancy one. Yeah. All right. Okay. Yeah, we're gonna have to make plans to go to that. So I've gone off on a thousand different things. yeah. So we're gonna start a new book next week, and chapter one is a bit long. I'm looking at them'cause I don't know if you could see, I've marked all the chapters off because I do better when I can visually see how many pages there are to read,

Chris 44:19

You're almost done. You're almost done. Reader, baby.

Sarah 44:23

I think maybe we talk about the first chapter next week.

Chris 44:26

Yes, I'm in. Oh, you know who else is gonna be at the Four Chord Music Festival?

Sarah 44:30

Who,

Chris 44:31

Stacey's mom. what's the name of that band? Bowling for? It's not Bowling for Soup. That's a different

Sarah 44:37

but, Ooh.

Chris 44:38

Or maybe it's Bowling for Soup. And I thought that they sang, Stacey's Mom.

Sarah 44:42

When you say, hold on, Alexa, who sang Stacey's song? Stacey's Mom, Michael Pollock and John Bellion Sang Stacey by Quinn. 92. No, that's wrong. Alexa. Who sang Stacey's mom?

Chris 44:56

it's bull it's not bowling for soup.

Sarah 44:59

was sunk by Fountains of Wayne. Fountains of Wayne.

Chris 45:02

It's bowling for soup. That's coming

Sarah 45:04

you could have literally told me, I will give you a billion dollars if you could tell me who's saying Stacey's mom. And there is nothing. There is no, I wouldn't have even no fountains of Wayne. I don't even know this. You could tell. Tell me Fountains of Wayne and I'd be like, you're full of shit.'cause I don't even,

Chris 45:23

Rebecca, the intern knew and she didn't even grow up. Then she was there Bowling for soup. Do you know what? Bowling for Soup sings

Sarah 45:30

No.

Chris 45:31

A, they sing this theme song to Phineas and Ferb.

Sarah 45:35

Oh, yay. Yeah, I like

Chris 45:36

So maybe they'll play that. And they also sing, 1985, like Bruce Springsteen, Madonna, way before Nirvana.

Sarah 45:46

I like, okay. Yeah, I

Chris 45:48

I'm singing on that episode. We're gonna release to other people.

Sarah 45:51

I am, I'm gonna have to, yeah, we're definitely gonna have to go to that.

Chris 45:55

I'm excited.

Sarah 45:56

I think of Fountains and Wayne, fountains of Wayne and I think of Calvin and Hobbes. The little kid from the Calvin. Is Calvin the kid, and Hobbes is the kitty.

Chris 46:08

is the, Hobbes is the tiger. He's not a kitty. He's a tiger

Sarah 46:12

so when you say fountains of Wayne, I don't know why I feel like they logo should be that little kid, like peeing in a puddle into a fountain.

Chris 46:20

into a fountain. yeah.

Sarah 46:22

Okay. And the last thing that we need to talk about today is, we have been, doing our releases on Thursdays. up until the last few. Okay. It's been a little bit dicey there the last few weeks. so we will be changing that. So if you are one of the ones that we've been disappointing on Thursdays, we are going to be dropping new episodes on Mondays. Now, I have decided that I do a lot of napping and TV watching on Sunday, so it's probably a good time for me to get shit done so we could get things released on Mondays.

Chris 46:55

Love it. I'm here for it.

Sarah 46:56

Okay.

Chris 46:57

Amen.

Sarah 46:58

I have,

Chris 46:58

make my life easier'cause then I can start forgetting about the episode on Thursday and when it gets to be Sunday, be like,

Sarah 47:04

then you could worry about it on Sunday,

Chris 47:06

oh no.

Sarah 47:08

that's way easier to worry about it, I feel like.

Chris 47:11

Yeah, it'll relieve a lot of anxiety. Maybe I won't need to take those meds. After all, I'll talk to the psychiatrist and see if that's really what's doing

Sarah 47:18

Yeah, you should. You should. It has nothing to

Chris 47:20

I'm fine.

Sarah 47:22

okay. is there anything else? I think we have covered all of the insanity. I said I think it'll be a short episode and here we are at 58

Chris 47:30

were wrong. We were wrong. But you guys got a good gastro story of the week. if you can imagine like a seventies Nita with a wig, dragging us through the parking lot at a Southland Shopping Center into the Oland Mills

Sarah 47:43

yeah.

Chris 47:44

asking questions about The Hobbit and probably trying to read while they were taking my picture.

Sarah 47:50

And I was probably biting you.

Chris 47:51

Obviously you were being some sort of menace.

Sarah 47:54

did mommy wear a wig?

Chris 47:56

Yeah, and I didn't know, but she kept it in the bathroom under the sink and I don't know.'cause you're little and I'm bored. I was digging through there and I thought it was a mouse and I pulled it out and I was like, what the hell is this?

Sarah 48:09

She did not wear a wig

Chris 48:11

You'll, you ask her. You ask her. Also, I forgot to show you guys,

Sarah 48:16

again. Let me see the new tatty. Oh, it's pretty,

Chris 48:19

Isn't she nice,

Sarah 48:21

I like it.

Chris 48:22

Becca? Isn't she pretty

Sarah 48:24

I like you very much. That's fun.'cause that's where I was gonna get my next one coming up this way.

Chris 48:30

great? I wanna, here's the thing, I have a ton of them, but I can't see most of them except for this one that looks like I got it in prison. and, I was like, I want one I can look at all the time.

Sarah 48:39

Yeah. I have these on my, I wanna get Yeah,

Chris 48:43

Oh, yeah, Becca. Yes. Working on the sleeve.

Sarah 48:47

All the arms and they're all black and I want more. I wish they were free.

Chris 48:53

Yeah, this was, this was a bit of an investment that I didn't realize when I made the appointment.

Sarah 48:57

Yeah.

Chris 48:57

Because the girl is good and she's Hey, my time is worth this much per hour. And I was like, that is a lot.

Sarah 49:04

Do we manufacture the ink in the US

Chris 49:08

I'm not sure.

Sarah 49:09

be something else that's gonna

Chris 49:11

It's probably gonna, don't think about it too much. Don't think about it too much. You're, you have a bit of privilege and you don't have to think about it, so don't,

Sarah 49:18

I know. makes me even more sad.

Chris 49:21

It does Me too, saying it out loud hurts. Me too.

Sarah 49:24

Yeah.

Chris 49:24

right. On that note, I got a new tattoo, so I'm gonna go and,

Sarah 49:28

Put some Vaseline on

Chris 49:29

to eat. Starving.

Sarah 49:31

Okay. Sounds good. All right. love you. Bye.

Chris 49:34

didn't you, is there a catchphrase you wanna put at the end of these

Sarah 49:37

I was try. We've tried a few and I just couldn't get anything. Like

Chris 49:41

we're not gonna make fetch happen. Huh?

Sarah 49:43

love, love you by seems to be the one that just it's good. I actually am going to put that above the door. Our door, it says, Love you. by.

Chris 49:53

I like that. That's cute.

Sarah 49:55

Okay. Love you. Bye.

Chris 49:56

All right, love you. Bye. It's the stop button.