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Gentle steps & finding fun again!

Tears, laughter, stories and connection for women 50+

Tears, laughter, stories and connection for women 50+
Gentle steps & finding fun again!
Mar 03, 2026
Belinda Stark

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Ever felt like your world shrank to the size of a to-do list you couldn’t touch? I open up about depression, burnout, and the strange ways they show up—like a cardboard taste in your mouth, a face that forgets how to brighten, and days where getting dressed feels like a marathon. No gloss, no neat bow, just a real account of what helped: meds tuned with care, talk therapy that steadies the mind, and micro-wins that stack slowly into something like hope.

We walk through practical tools that actually feel doable when energy is low—expressive journalling to organise tangled thoughts, voice notes on a quiet walk, and the permission to be radically gentle. I share why CBT still anchors me, how support that feels like mothering can change a day, and what it looks like to ask for one small thing instead of everything. There’s honesty about the messy trial-and-error of medication and the non-linear shape of recovery, because healing rarely arrives in straight lines.

Then there’s the colour returning: revisiting childhood joys, picking up chunky yarn and knitting a bright scarf, trying painting and starting again with a coat of white when it flops, moving the body with kindness instead of pressure. Community plays a big part too. I reignited a warm corner on social media called Sparkle Sisterhood for women 50+, sharing local favourites, books, comfy outfits, and the kind of everyday humour that makes fitted sheets and grocery runs feel like shared stories rather than solo battles. By the end, we land on connection, craft, and a cheeky 80s wink—proof that lightness belongs even on heavy days.

If this resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs gentle company, and leave a review so more women can find their way back to a little sparkle.