Have a People's First Approach ft Fabian L. Pillay | Ep 3

Leadership Lessons from South Africa to China: A Conversation with Fabian

In this episode, I welcome Fabian, a charismatic leader and high school teacher from South Africa who has spent four and a half years in China. We dive into his journey into leadership and his experiences with Toastmasters. Fabian shares his evolving definition of leadership, emphasizing a 'people-first' approach. We also compare educational systems and discuss the importance of addressing student mental health and competitiveness. Fabian reflects on his future goals and leaves us with the empowering message to 'fake it till you make it.'

00:00 Introduction and Special Guest Announcement
00:47 Meeting Fabian: From Law to Leadership
02:23 Defining Leadership in Toastmasters
05:49 Challenges in Leadership and Mentorship
08:47 The Importance of Mentorship Training
14:10 Educational Experiences in South Africa and China
24:36 Cultural Differences in Education
30:19 Addressing Mental Health in Education
36:26 Future Plans and Final Thoughts

Welcome to the Academy of Influence

I’m Kian—a music producer, coach, and lifelong communication enthusiast who believes the world’s most powerful currency isn’t money or talent—it’s influence.

This podcast is where I explore the power of communication and how it shapes the way we live, work, and connect. I sit down with friends from all walks of life to ask: What makes your world pop? Because I truly believe everyone has something worth sharing—and everyone has the desire to make an impact.

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