E12: Love, Medicine, and Sacrifice - A Spouse’s Perspective(w/Chris Herring)

In this conversation, Chris Herring shares his journey with host Saba Fatima MD as a spouse of a medical resident, discussing the joys and challenges of their relationship, the impact of residency on their family life, and the importance of communication and support. He emphasizes the need for understanding and community among medical families, as well as advocating for changes in residency programs to better support their partners. Chris also reflects on the lessons learned throughout their journey and offers advice for others navigating similar paths.

Chris Herring is a B2B software marketing executive, real estate investor, travel enthusiast, and community builder. He's married to an OBGYN chief resident, and together, he and his wife are the Co-Founders of Other Side Med - a community specifically focused on supporting families in medicine. 

keywords
#joy, medical #relationships, #residency challenges, #isolation, #parenthood, mental health, work-life balance, community, support, communication

takeaways
Understanding the challenges of a medical career is crucial for partners.
Residency can be isolating, and communication is key to overcoming it.
Parenthood adds complexity to the lives of medical families.
Mental health awareness is essential in the demanding world of medicine.
Balancing work and family requires intentional effort and support.
Resentment can arise in relationships, but understanding each other's struggles helps.
Creating a community for medical families can alleviate feelings of isolation.
It's important to advocate for changes in residency programs to support families.
Maintaining one's identity and interests is vital for personal well-being.


Chapters
00:00
Introduction to the Unique Journey of Physician Partnerships
04:04
Chris Herring's Personal Journey as a Physician Spouse
06:54
Navigating the Challenges of Residency
09:50
The Impact of Parenthood on a Physician's Spouse
12:42
Balancing Personal Identity and Support
15:21
Managing Resentment and Communication in Relationships
18:33
The Struggles of Single Parenting in Medicine
21:18
Career Challenges and Support Systems
24:16
Advocating for Better Support in Residency Programs
25:10
Building Community in Residency Programs
26:32
Finding Support Through Shared Experiences
28:01
Creating a Unique Platform for Med Spouses
30:28
Navigating the Challenges of 24-Hour Shifts
33:01
Addressing Parental Preference and Bonding
34:25
Lessons Learned from the Journey
35:59
Looking Ahead: New Beginnings
37:36
Advocating for Change in Residency Programs
39:40
Reflections on a Career in Medicine
41:07
Advice for Partners of Physicians
45:53
Winter Sundays

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