How to have Extraordinary Relationships

The Cost Of Religious Shame (and breaking free) with Jessica Pratezina | S5 E4

Lucy Cavendish

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Jessica Pratezina is a coach and speaker who helps people reconnect with their confidence, identity, and sense of freedom. After leaving a strict religious upbringing, she embarked on a deeply personal journey of self-discovery—reclaiming her voice, her autonomy, and her relationship with her own sexuality.

Today, Jessica works with clients to break free from limiting beliefs, challenge ingrained narratives, and step into a more authentic, empowered version of themselves—with honesty, warmth, and a refreshing sense of realness.

Key points of the episode:

  • What is was like growing up in a "high demand religious group"
  • How traditional Christian groups would not have accepted them as "Christian"
  • ....and how they thought they had the "only" truth.
  • The stress of being "different"
  • "Benevolent sexism"- and purity culture - and how it hides behind virtue.
  • Her lucky move into Christianity, and why she left it - and her job.
  • The kind of relationships that are fun and desirable to her now.
  • Her dating experiences.

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