Partial Solar Eclipse in Aries March 2025: Break the rules, Do YOU

The Aries Solar Eclipse on March 29th is here to ignite a powerful new beginning—one that demands breaking free from outdated rules and expectations that no longer serve your authentic self. This episode is all about shedding the old ways of living by society’s standards and stepping into a raw, real, and unapologetically YOU version of life.

I dive into the fiery energy of Aries, how Uranus and Saturn are shaking up our sense of responsibility, and why it’s time to redefine productivity and success on your own terms. If you’ve been feeling restless, frustrated, or just fed up with forcing things to fit a mold that isn’t yours, this episode is for you.

I get real and raw about my own experiences—how I’ve been challenging the pressure to stay consistent with content, breaking the rules I’ve put on myself, and embracing the wild freedom of following my own natural rhythm. It’s messy, it’s intense, but it’s so worth it.

Tune in to learn how to:

✨ Break free from outdated rules and expectations

✨ Redefine productivity and success in your own unique way

✨ Trust your natural flow and follow what truly lights you up

✨ Surrender to your beingness and let go of forced control

If you’re ready to embrace your real power and live in alignment with your true essence, this episode is your invitation. Let’s break the mold together!

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Transcript

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The final partial eclipse in Aries is happening on March 29th, 2025 at 6:57 AM Eastern Daylight time, and this is the final eclipse closing out the Aries Libra Eclipse Acts cycles that we had the last two years. The nodes are no longer in Aries, in Libra, but this is still like closing out that chapter. It's like closing out a chapter and starting a new beginning into who you are gonna be this new version of you, this new identity. And here's a secret. You've never been this version of you before, but it is real. It is raw, it is authentic, and it is going to take you breaking the old rules, honestly, breaking a lot of rules. Society even put upon you breaking rules. You've picked up subconsciously breaking rules that you didn't even know you could fucking break. That is the new version of you that's wanting to emerge. So this eclipse that's happening. At the end of the month, March 29th is a new beginning and it's happening at nine degrees of Aries. So if I read the Sabian symbol, we're gonna round up to Aries 10. It's a teacher gives new symbolic forms to traditional images. This symbol represents innovation, transformation, and reinterpretation of established ideas, AKA established rules. It's about taking something old, familiar or traditional, and giving it a fresh, modern, and creative twist that resonates with the current moment for me, for example. I've been thinking about this a lot, how I feel this pressure, like I have to release a podcast episode every single Tuesday. I have to release all of this content and put all this content out so I stay relevant so I can be successful. And I just have to be a content machine, even when I don't wanna, even when I don't have inspiration, I just have to put content out there because that's the rules. That's how I have a business. That's how I've seen. I have felt so trapped by that and lately I've been getting pissed and I always know that when I get pissed about something, it's because it is a rule that does not belong for me and I needs to go. And I know that that's like my signal because if we think of Uranus and Aquarius in astrology, Uranus is the great disruptor. It's the great awakener. It's, it's the part of astrology that breaks the rules in order to create new structures, new things for humanity. So humanity can continue to grow and evolve. Well, one of the ways that Uranus breaks through is it creates this restlessness inside of itself, and part of it, it, the restlessness can come from anger. You know, it can come from, I'm so sick of having to live this way. I need to break free. I need to break free. I am done. Living this way, so many of us have been taught to live by other people's rules. Our parents' rules, society's rules, religious rules, whatever rules you're living by and they're likely suffocating you. You wanna know why so many of us feel miserable and out of alignment. It's because we've been trained by these rules to be out of alignment. It is not that you're stuck. It's not that anything's wrong with you, it's that you've been trying to fit yourself into this made up box. And the box is at its wit's end. The box is deteriorating at this point, the box is falling apart. You are trying to keep it together and you can't. The box is literally disintegrated, basically, and this box is Saturn and Pisces. Saturn is literally a box. It's the planet that creates our rules, our structures. It's the, it's it's authority. It's what we think it means to be an authority structure. It's the structures we think we need to create success. Right. Well, since Saturn was in Pisces, Pisces dissolves things. Saturn's about to leave Pisces. It's been dissolving old structures, dissolving old rules, and. Um, it's been doing that by showing us where we feel blocked by old rules. We're energetically drained'cause you're trying to fit into these old rules and what it means to be responsible and you're more and more drained and you feel more and more blocked. That's Saturn and Pisces. Conversely, it's trying to dissolve those rules to show you that they weren't real to begin with. You didn't need them to begin with. And actually we're dissolving old rules in order to build up new rules. Right now. When air, when Saturn moves into Aries, we're building newness. That's Aries building newness. A new version of you, a new version of the world. Now at this solar eclipse and airy Saturn, which we were just talking about in a and Uranus, which you were just talking about, Uranus, which breaks the rules in order to build new things for humanity. Saturn, which builds, creates the rules so that we can have structure and society and actually gets somewhere there. They're talking to each other at this eclipse by exact degree. They're having a direct conversation. Uranus is wanting to awaken you to your true self-worth, which is in your beingness, which is in the present moment. If you are speeding past and just continuing to work the way you've always worked, this eclipse could feel harder for you because this eclipse requires you to slow down. You have to slow down to the pace of nature to recognize where you're bypassing your true energy and you're just working, working, working to stay in alignment with society's rules. And it's a false sense of energy. It's a false, it's a superficial sense of control that's giving you energy. It's not real, and it's why you keep getting these bursts of energy and then burning out and then trying to control more and trying to force and it's not working. Uranus and Taurus has been awakening you to the fact that you can move at the pace of nature, and that in fact when you slow down and get in touch with what you truly value, and you get in touch with your beingness and you surrender, and you don't need to keep forcing yourself to live in these rules that your natural values arise. So I've been getting pissed about the idea of having to put a podcast episode out every Tuesday. And so the last few weeks I've been a little bit more inconsistent. I didn't, two weeks ago, I put out two last week. I didn't put one out this past week. Now this one's gonna be coming out, but it's because I don't have that consistent inspiration. And when I think about nature, like not every summer is the same. Not every winter is the same. It doesn't snow. It doesn't have the first snow every November 21st. So why do we expect that? I need to have a podcast episode every single Tuesday? Why do you need to show up at a job every single Monday and work every single Monday through Friday, Friday, nine to five? That's an old Saturn structure. Why do you need to do that? Are you happy? Why are you doing it? The illusion is falling away. Pisces North Node and Pisces. Our, the illusion is falling away and our real values are being illuminated because Venus is with Neptune. Venus is our values. It is our relationships. It is our relationship to balance. It is our relationship to nature. It is our relationship to everything is Venus. It's our love, pleasure, values, all the things. With it being with Neptune and the North node at this eclipse, we are dissolving our old values. Our old sense of self-worth, if you used to think following these rules are what made you worthy and made you valuable? Like for me, I thought what made me valuable was having consistent content every single Tuesday. Well, it's been proven to me that I don't need to have consistent content to keep making money. I still sign another one-on-one client. Um, I'm still making more than enough to make all my bills paid for several months ahead of where I am right now. So why do I need. To force myself to do something I don't fucking wanna do, only to put content out that's not gonna land the same. Why we're learning that your life force, your energy, your passion, the things you have energy for are way fucking more important than the rules and the stupid monotonous day-to-day things you do. The south nodes in Virgo, Virgo, iss about the day to day we're shedding the old day to day, shedding the old monotony, shedding the old. This is just what I do. It's just the rules I follow. It's just the rules I follow. No, you will never know how much power you have and how much you're truly worthy until you drop the rules. You go to your beingness and you trust your beingness. Um, I just listened to a voice note from one of my one-on-one clients. She has been having some of the most biggest breakthroughs, and you wanna know where the biggest breakthroughs have been coming from. From her being present and not controlling, enforcing life, and actually multiple, my clients have been going through this because this has been one of my biggest breakthroughs too. Life is way more simple, way more simple than you've led to believe up until this point. Everyone talks about masculine and feminine energy. They overcomplicate that shit. It's really not complicated. I'm gonna make it really simple for you right now. Maybe this is the Uranus and Taurus breakthrough to break the rules you need. If you really wanna find success, the masculine energy is your intention. You holding your intention? My intention is to serve people and help people with astrology. My intention is continue to transform myself every single day because it's fun for me because I have so much passion for'cause. It's the only thing I want in my life. It's not'cause I think there's something wrong with me. It's because I love depth. I love learning new lessons. I love seeing how juicy life can get and how much juicier I can make it. And it's, it's what makes living life feel so fun for me every moment of the day.'cause it's magic and mystery. I love it. Now I lost my train of thought. What am I even talking about? So my intention every single day is that my intention is to understand myself more deeply, understand a life more deeply, and to create magic in life. And to follow that feeling is to follow that feeling of magic, to follow that feeling of flow. I set the container every single day. And then I, I, I, I just do what feels good next. That's it. Um, the, the other day, for example, one of my one-on-one clients, she's a little different than my other one-on-one clients'cause I'm teaching her how to read birth charts'cause that's what she really wants to know how to do. And I've never just taught someone one-on-one how to read astrology, and so all, I didn't really know what I, how I wanted to teach it to her. I didn't even know what I wanted to do one day. But every day, my intention every day is I have these client sessions. I wanna show up the best way I possibly can for them. I wanna be of service to myself and them. And I set the intention well. I just wanted to take baths all day, and so I just started taking baths all day. I did a little embodiment workshop. I took a bath. While I was in the bath, I started. Singing a song in my head, karma by Taylor Swift. And then I thought that song is Pisces. And then I started thinking about my client I'm teaching astrology to, and I thought, oh my God, I could show her this song'cause she's a Pisces Rising. And she'll then understand Pisces even more because this song is like everything that that archetype is, and it will bring the feeling more than the logic. And then. What ended up happening was I was like, oh my God. And then I had this song for this other part of her chart and then this song for this other part. And I ended up in like really quick, made a playlist for her birth chart based on her Sun Moon rising in North node and south node. And I was like, this, this is gonna teach her astrology. We're gonna play these songs and we're gonna feel it, and we're gonna think it. And I would've never come up with that idea being like, what am I gonna teach her idea? Sit down and plan it out. I would've never, ever. Anyways, we have her session. It is so impactful. She messages me the next day and says, wow, that really unlocks something in me. I really get the archetypes now. It's all coming together. And she had a giant breakthrough around actually exactly what I'm talking about now. Setting the intention with masculine energy and allowing the feminine to flow and not controlling it, not needing to make it a certain way, not needing a certain outcome, but just setting the intention and allowing the energy to flow. I just gave you an example from my real life how I did that, and then I gave a session to my client, taught her astrology in a way I would've never thought about if I didn't set the intention in the beginning of my day, and then flowed and was in my beingness with this client. Um. She is. She also, so the where, where she has seen this workout in her life is she likes to have people over her house and. This is really what ultimately she wants to do for her business anyway. She wants to have like, like a wellness center people come to and it's just like an all day spa thing and it's fun. Well, she's already kind of doing this just naturally at her house'cause it's fun for her. She's following the fun, she's following her intention, so she has this intention for people to come over her house and to heal and connect and to laugh. She doesn't wanna set a time limit and they come over. That's the intention. And they'll naturally just play in the pool all day and they'll naturally do reiki and then they'll naturally like indulgence in plant medicine and then maybe they'll naturally do a little ceremony. None of it is structured or like forced or planned. It literally is the intention. Was there. And they follow the pleasure. The life force pleasure is life force in astrology, and life creates more life. The north node is in Pisces. We are learning. The energy you move from creates more of that energy. If you work frantic and really hard and need to control everything, you attract more things to work frantically hard and to control. If you set an intention though with a solid intention, and you move forward and you flow through it with trust and presence and following the next thing that feels good. It works out way better and you have way be better results than if you didn't do that. I am not saying that all structure has to throw out the window. If you're a person who likes structure, I'm saying that your structure is just an intention. That's it. How you feel and how present you are and how much you flow within that intention is, is. Where all the magic happens. It's where all your power is, and it's where you connect to your authentic self, and it's what the North node and Pisces requires. It requires you connecting to slowness and energy for your next step. And maybe that would be you not posting like me a podcast in two weeks and not needing to be consistently every single Tuesday. Back to the Sabian symbol from the beginning of this podcast, I said a teacher gives. New symbolic forms to traditional images. This symbol represents innovation, transformation, and reinterpretation of established ideas. It's about taking something old, familiar or traditional, and giving it a fresh, modern, and creative twist that resonates with the current moment. With the current moment, ev, this is a new beginning that requires you to connect to the current moment that is Uranus and Taurus sex tailing Saturn at this eclipse. Now this is gonna be uncomfortable for many people and I'll tell you why. Chiron in Aries, this is the collective wound around self is in a challenging aspect, a square to Mars and cancer. Now Mars and cancer is us taking actions from certain emotions in order to find emotional stability and fulfillment. What used to provide me emotional stability and fulfillment is knowing I was gonna put a podcast episode out every single Tuesday because it was a, it was something I was being responsible. I was holding myself to it. It was this superficial sense of security because I would have to post one, even if no part of me wanted to post one, but it would feel secure because I did it. I checked it off the box. Virgo Virgos a very box checky. Pisces wants you to flow. That's where we're moving towards. It's a false sense of security to check off boxes. And that's where a lot of people are right now. That's where we've been trained to be, to be box checkers instead of livers. We're not, we're not living anymore. We're just box checking. And so the challenge of this eclipse is you healing a wound around, can I really trust myself? Can I really trust what I feel? Can I really give myself enough space? Can I really? Can I give myself that emotional security so deep first that it doesn't matter what I do. Can I, can I hold the intensity of what it feels like to break this pattern? It feels like I wanna die to break this pattern. It feels like I could lose my whole house to break this pattern. That's that square. Can I trust myself? Am I good enough? Am I worthy? Oh, this doesn't feel good. I've never done this before. What if everyone leaves me? What if I lose my job? What if I lose my house? Like, that's what could be coming through to you.'cause this is new. A new way of being that you've never done before. It's scary. It's the unknown and it's where all of the rewards are.'cause here's the thing, as much as Mars and cancer is squaring Chiron, this achiness around, can you trust yourself? Can you really give your trust what you feel and give yourself what you need? You know, like even on my last podcast episode, I talked about how if I really gave myself what I need, I probably would talk to way less people. So. Actually, I'll give, just give this one random story example before I keep moving on. But, um, I talked about how I've been talk, practicing, talking less and creating more awkward silences purposefully when I'm talking to people. I went to the dog now that I've been practicing that for a couple weeks. I went to the dog park the other day. I ran into someone I used to work with, an old version of me, well, two weeks ago, version of me would've. I felt like they needed to keep the conversation going or be extra nice and be like, how are you? Because I've been seeing the benefits of me talking to the extent I want and then shutting up and being like, bye person. I just said, hi. They said, how are you? I said, I'm good. I didn't feel the need to ask how he was, and I was like, cool. Nice to see you. Bye. Old's version of me would be freaking out and think, oh my God, did you think I was an asshole? Was I an asshole? Oh my God, I didn't care. I actually wasn't the first time in my life, I didn't care. I was like, I don't care. My piece is more important than this, than having a conversation with you. Your piece is more important than the random rules you have for yourself. Surrender enough to allow the universe to show you what's really in alignment with you because Mars and cancer is trining Saturn and Pisces, which is showing me that when you dissolve these old rules around yourself and what used to give you this false sense of security, and you give yourself true security from the inside first. And you don't act you, you hold onto those uncomfortable feelings that you're wanting to take anxious action from, and you hold them and you feel them and you nurture them, and you give them love and peace and say, I'm gonna be with you until we're back into peace. I'm gonna be with you until the inspiration strikes. I'm gonna do the thing that I really wanna do, which is maybe walk away from this person I haven't seen in six years and not have a full conversation. Or maybe the thing I really wanna do is not post a podcast every Tuesday. Maybe the thing I really wanna do is. Um, I don't know, like literally take baths all day. That's what I've been doing. Take, I took two baths the other day because they just can't stop right now. The north nodes and Pisces and Pisces is water and I just fucking love my baths right now. Maybe that would be very supportive to you for this eclipse and while the North nodes and Pisces taking a salt bath a day, it has been for me. But you are being supported to dissolve your own rules and to sink into the unknown and to sink into peace and to sink into the present moment and to sink into the next thing that gives you energy so that innovative way of living your life can come through. You can get that creative twist list that resonates with you for what you really need. And when you do that, what you'll see is that you never had to work so hard. All you had to do was have the intention of what you wanted to create and then lean into the next thing that felt good, lean into the next thing that felt good, and you didn't have to have a result. Can we play more? Can you play more with this eclipse? Can you become a more playful person? A person who. It doesn't need to do things to get something, but can create a structure for themselves and trust that if, even if they don't get something done within that timeframe, that was all they needed to get done. Can you set an intention and wait for where you wanna move next to come to you, even if you move nowhere all day and be okay with that and know that that's what was meant to be. Can you set an intention and have a conversation with someone and speak your truth and not need them to get it, but hold your truth and be able to walk away without needing to overexplain yourself and drain your energy even more. This is about being in your truth, holding your truth, and being able to be present with life without needing life to give you something in return.'cause what you'll find is when you don't need to force life to give you something in return.'cause we're all doing things to get something. What if you lived for the pleasure of the present moment? What if you lived not to get something, but because you have it all right now? And the more you enjoy it all right now, the more naturally drops into your lap without you even trying.'cause you finally detached and let go.'cause it wasn't, it was never about the thing you were getting. It was all about how you were supposed to feel. Right here, right now, that's what I have to say for this eclipse. I am sending a lot of love. This is a big eclipse of reflecting on your self-worth and your beingness. And my pray is that you recognize that your beingness is way more valuable than these old rules and these old actions you took. And I, I pray that you are brave enough. I know you're brave enough, but I pray that as soon as possible, you have the courage and bravery enough to implement this into your life, to surrender, to let go, to sit with those uncomfortable feelings until you see that life really does support you when you find peace on the inside first. Ah, I love you guys. I'll see you on the next episode.