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Working on Amazing
Working on Amazing is all about rebuilding an amazing life after divorce or a bad breakup. This is a podcast for women who feel like they are starting over midlife. Coming out of a long term relationship can feel overwhelming and finding your footing in the new normal takes time. This podcast offers a mix of hope and encouragement along with some practical advice on rebuilding a truly amazing life.
Working on Amazing
The 90/10 Rule
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When life turns upside down — through divorce, loss, job changes, or unexpected transitions — it can feel like everything is happening to us. In today’s episode, we unpack Stephen Covey’s powerful 90/10 Rule: 10% of life is what happens to us, and 90% is how we respond.
This doesn’t mean minimizing pain or pretending hard things don’t hurt. It means recognizing that even in the middle of grief, uncertainty, or starting over, we still have agency. We still have choices. And those choices shape our healing, growth, and future.
This episode is about learning how to respond instead of react — and how reclaiming that 90% can change everything.