Neighborhood Art Supply
Neighborhood Art Supply is a podcast focused on interviews and stories from some of the most creative people in the world. Each episode is presented with one specific intention- bring value to the listener that may help them in their creative journey with stories, perspectives, knowledge and tools from industry titans. The main purpose of Neighborhood Art Supply is to bring inspiration and clarity to creative individuals to aid in their process and craft. Neighborhood Art Supply is hosted by Chris Alba, a music industry veteran, agency owner, and creative director.
Neighborhood Art Supply
Live For Yourself. The Courage To Be Disliked
Explore the powerful concept of gaining the courage to be disliked to truly unlock your creative potential. This episode delves into why artists often struggle with seeking approval and offers actionable steps to build a 'fortress' around your creative life. Learn how to detach your self-worth from others' opinions, embrace a process-focused mindset, and form a supportive community. Featuring insights from the book 'The Courage to Be Disliked' by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake, this guide will help you establish a solid foundation for creative confidence and fulfillment.
00:00 Introduction: The Root of Unhappiness
01:31 Evolutionary Need for Approval
03:02 The Unwinnable Game of Seeking Approval
04:43 Shifting from Approval to Contribution
05:49 Building the Fortress: Foundations
09:01 Constructing the Fortress Walls
11:07 The Watch Tower: Observing and Deflecting Negativity
14:37 The Drawbridge: Controlling Access to Your Creative Space
16:29 Building Your Fortress Army
18:07 Finding Your Allies and Building Your Tribe
19:25 Conclusion: Embracing the Courage to Be Disliked
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