Ep. 47-When Socks Feel Like Sandpaper: Navigating Sensory Kids with Ivan Hardcastle

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Woman Lessons
Ep. 47-When Socks Feel Like Sandpaper: Navigating Sensory Kids with Ivan Hardcastle
Jun 26, 2025 Season 1 Episode 47
Traci Peterson

If your child melts down over a tag on their shirt, loud noises, or unexpected change—this one’s for you. In this episode, neurodivergent expert Ivan Hardcastle joins Traci to unpack the real root behind sensory-driven behaviors and how parents can stop labeling them as "bad" or "difficult."

From understanding what sensory processing actually is, to learning how it affects emotional regulation and daily interactions, this conversation offers deep empathy and practical wisdom for the overwhelmed mom.

Ivan breaks down how modern parenting expectations, cultural pressure, and post-pandemic life have amplified sensory overload—and what to do about it. You’ll hear:

  • What your child’s behavior is really trying to tell you
  • How to stay calm when your child’s emotions feel too big
  • Simple strategies to support sensory kids without burnout
  • Why simplifying your environment might be the key to peace
  • How parenting styles impact emotional development

Whether your child is neurodivergent or just sensitive to the world, this episode will leave you feeling seen, equipped, and empowered.


00:00
Introduction to Parenting Challenges

02:52
Understanding Sensory Processing

05:56
The Connection Between Sensory Processing and Behavior

09:05
The Role of Parents in Sensory Processing

11:56
Navigating Emotional Responses

14:49
Cultural Perspectives on Busyness

17:59
Simplifying Life Post-COVID

30:18
Exploring Behavioral Changes in Children

33:01
Parenting Approaches and Emotional Responses

36:55
The Impact of Parenting Styles

46:59
Practical Strategies for Overwhelmed Parents

51:19
Transformative Parenting Coaching

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