The Real Power of Saying "No" (Without Being a Dick) - Let's Get Real Radio Show

What's up LGR community? Great to have you here! This show we dive into how to deal with bosses when you're dealing with a new job (or any job). Especially when they say, "yeah....we're gonna need you to come in on Saturday" (from Office Space and Spanish's real life!)

💥 **Are You a People Pleaser? Here’s How to Break the Cycle!** 💥  

This segment from the January 11, 2025 live show,, Michael and Spanish dive into the tough topic of **people pleasing**—what it looks like, why we do it, and how it can derail our lives if left unchecked. 

From dealing with pushy bosses to struggling with boundaries, this episode gets real about the challenges men face when it comes to standing up for themselves.  

Spanish opens up about his new job and how he’s navigating a classic dilemma: sticking to your boundaries versus rocking the boat. Ever felt like saying “no” was scarier than just going along with the plan? You’re not alone. Michael shares his own journey of learning how to balance assertiveness with kindness, and how saying "no" the right way can actually earn you more respect.  

😅 Plus, we share stories of past failures, lessons learned, and even some laughs about guava farms (yeah, you read that right). If you’ve ever found yourself overcommitted, burned out, or just plain frustrated because you couldn’t say no, this episode is a must-watch!  

Hit play now and learn how to stop pleasing everyone else and start pleasing yourself. And don’t forget to **subscribe**—because your emotional growth deserves a permanent spot on your feed. 🚀  

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Takeaways - 
1. **Why People Pleasing Hurts Everyone**: The dangers of saying “yes” when you really mean “no.”  
2. **Assertiveness 101**: How to stand up for your boundaries without being rude.  
3. **Respect Through Boundaries**: Why saying no the right way can actually improve relationships.  
4. **Self-Awareness Wins**: Recognizing when your people-pleasing tendencies are causing self-sabotage.  
5. **Guava Pastries and Life Lessons**: Sometimes humor is the best teacher.  

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Timestamps  
- **00:00** – Intro: The Jenga game of juggling jobs and life.  
- **01:22** – Standing up to authority without rocking the boat.  
- **02:48** – The battle of boundaries vs. people pleasing.  
- **05:12** – Michael’s golden rule: No work on Saturdays.  
- **07:05** – When people pleasing becomes self-sabotage.  
- **09:01** – Gaining safety through setbacks: Losing it all to find yourself.  
- **09:58** – What it feels like to say “yes” when you mean “no.”  

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