Feeling Pressure To Be "The Man". At 22. Will's Story - Let's Get Real Radio Show

What do you do when life feels heavy… and you’re only 22?

In this raw and real call, we hear from Will — a young guy who bought a house not for himself, but for his 72-year-old dad and teenage sister. At an age when most guys are figuring out adulting 101, Will is already carrying the weight of fatherhood, caregiving, and responsibility. And yet, like so many of us, he still wonders, *“Am I doing enough?”*

This segment from the April 5th Live Radio Show, hits hard in all the best ways. Michael and Spanish talk with Will about pressure, purpose, and why being *“not your dad”* might be exactly what makes you the man your family needs. Whether you’re in your 20s or your 50s, you’ll relate to that quiet voice in your head that says *you could be doing more* — and maybe you just need to hear it’s okay to give yourself some grace.

You’ll also hear why buying a house at 22 is a bigger win than you might think, how roles like “dad” and “provider” don’t come with a manual, and why listening to a “men’s support show” might be one of the best things you do all week. Shout out to Will for calling in and reminding all of us that *figuring it out* is what being a man is all about.

👊 If you’ve ever felt like you’re not doing enough… this one’s for you. Hit play, drop a comment, and if this show speaks to you, hit that **subscribe** button. We’re here every week — real talk, real dudes, real growth.

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 🔑 Key Takeaways:
- You don’t have to have it all figured out at 22 — or 52.
- Taking care of your family is noble, but don’t forget to take care of yourself.
- Being a man doesn’t mean being perfect — it means showing up.
- Giving yourself grace is not weakness — it’s wisdom.
- You're not alone — real support is out there (and you're listening to it).

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 Timestamps:
00:00 – Will calls in: “Life’s been good, but I feel like I could be doing more”  
00:36 – Why he bought a house at 22 to help his dad retire  
01:30 – Stepping into unfamiliar roles: caretaker and big brother  
02:10 – Michael’s advice: “You’re not your dad — and that’s okay”  
02:37 – Wisdom from 30 years ahead: “You’ve got time to figure it out”  
03:28 – Will opens up: “This show has helped me more than I expected”  

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