S10:E7: The Senseless Murder of Zaria Carr (27) "Toxic Ending"

⚠️Content Warning: This episode discusses domestic violence, murder-suicide, and intimate partner violence. Listener discretion is advised.

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE, that’s 1-800-799-7233. You can also text START to 88788 or visit TheHotline.org

If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If you are experiencing emotional crisis or thoughts of self-harm, call or text 988 for the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline.

Twin City, Georgia— In this episode of Senseless True Crime, we discuss the heartbreaking murder-suicide of 27-year-old Zaria Carr and 36-year-old Shamarcus Carr — a case rooted in domestic violence, public conflict that played out online in front of a live audience on Facebook, and a relationship that eventually turned deadly.

What began as a toxic and volatile situation ended in the senseless loss of Zaria’s life and left behind devastated loved ones, unanswered questions, and a painful reminder of how dangerous intimate partner violence can become.

Listen to Season 10: Episode 7: “Toxic Ending” examines the warning signs, the escalation, and the tragic reality that love should never cost someone their safety, peace, or life.

Rest in Peace - Zaria Carr- our thoughts are with her loved ones and the two young children left behind. 🕊️🙏

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Transcript

SPEAKER_01 0:00

This podcast contains graphic details which may be disturbing to some listeners. Listener discretion is advised. I'm Chantel B and welcome back to the show. Now this week's case is absolutely horrifying in every sense of the word. This episode discusses domestic violence and murder suicide. But there are some cases that are hard to tell because they feel too public and too private at the same time. Or the pain was hidden behind closed doors. There is some information that should stay behind closed doors. And this case is one of them. This case centers on two people who were in a toxic relationship that progressed into a toxic marriage. But when the ending came, everybody wanted to know the same question. How did it get this far? Sometimes the harder question is how many people saw the warning signs before it got there? What begins as a domestic disturbance call in a quiet Georgia neighborhood quickly turn into a murder suicide investigation that leaves more questions than answers. Before Zarya Carr was found unconscious in her home, before police began searching for her husband Shamarka's car, before her car was located miles away, before two families were left planning funerals. Before two children were left without their mother and father. There was a woman online saying she needed help. There was a woman trying to explain the weight of what she had been carrying. There was a woman who seemed tired in the way women get tired when love starts to feel like survival. There was a public argument, not a handled privately, but a Facebook Live and an audience that saw a domestic dispute unfolding in real time and people could hear the anger, the accusations, the humiliation, and the unraveling. But what makes this case so painful is that by the time it became a tragedy, it was more than a toxic relationship playing out on social media. It was a warning. And for Zarya Kar, that warning became her ending. This is the story of Zarya Khadijakar, a young mother, a social media TikTok creator known online as Duchess Dior. Zarya was also a woman whose final words online now read like a cry from someone who knew that danger was close. But this is also the story of the man who police say assaulted her, shot her, and then fled in her vehicle. And the most tragic part of this case is Shamarkiscar who died by suicide when law enforcement tried to stop him. This is not a love story. This is not a relationship drama. This is not content. This is what can happen when control, rage, public humiliation, public exposure, and violence collide. The last words of Zarya Kar are haunting. And you will hear some of that footage today. And the final moments of this couple's life were far more complicated than what first appeared. What investigators would later uncover was a pattern of allegations, conflict, and escalating tensions that played out not just in private, but in front of thousands watching online. When law enforcement pieced together the final timeline, they weren't just investigating a death. They had the task of reconstructing a relationship broadcast into public view where accusations of infidelity, threats, and control were openly displayed before the final moments off camera. But before we get into the gruesome details of this case, we must first honor the victim. Zaria Khadija Car was born in 1998. She was 27 years old. She was known publicly as a social media influencer under the name Duchess Dior. There is little to know publicly regarding her early life. Much of her background prior to her online identity remains unknown to the public. What we do know is that Zarya Carr was the mother of two children, and her and her husband, Shamarcus Carr, lived in Twin City, Georgia. Her role as a mother was a consistent part of her identity, both privately and within the content she often shared online. Zarya balanced her family life with her activities as a content creator. Now her content was centered around motherhood, lifestyle, and her relationship with her husband, Shamarcus. Zarya had accumulated more than 30,000 followers, and now her audience engaged with her content regularly. Her platform grew through consistent posting and personal updates. Her influence was built with visibility and direct engagement with her followers. This allowed her to maintain a stable online community because she presented aspects of their daily life in a way that connected with her audience and her openness contributed to the engagement that she received from her followers. Many of her followers viewed her as relatable and authentic in the way that she expressed her personal experiences. Shamarcus Carr was born in November 1988. His relationship with Zarya Carr was publicly acknowledged through her online content, and he was a part of the personal life that she occasionally shared with her audience. Shamarcus would often show up on some of the videos that she posted on social media. Now Shamarcus had a lengthy criminal history that began in early 2012. He was already connected to a mugshot from that period that shows him at age 23. But in that mugshot, he appears to have noticeably longer hair compared to his more recent photographs of him on social media. Now this early stage marked the beginning of a long pattern of repeated arrests and convictions that would follow him for years. Back on July 29th, 2012, at around 2 30 a.m., shots rang out at a club in Baxley where Shamarkis was attending. The sheriff's deputies and the Baxley police responded quickly to the scene after reports of gunfire. They discovered three individuals who had been shot, including Shamarkiscar. Now all three victims were then transported to a nearby hospital for treatment for their gunshot wounds. Following the hospital visit and the investigation, the police eventually arrested Shamarkiscar in connection with the incident. He was charged with two counts of aggravated assault, possession of a firearm, reckless conduct, and theft by receiving stolen property. He was also charged with discharging a firearm on or near a public road. Years later on January 10th, 2018, Shamarkus Car was again arrested. Now his criminal record continued to expand. And on September 13, 2020, he was arrested once again. This time he faced charges of possession with intent to distribute the marijuana and a possession with intent to distribute the math, which resulted in another conviction. Although the full sentencing details for each conviction are not clearly documented, his repeated serious charges suggest significant periods of incarceration. But it is widely presumable that Shamarkis spent a large portion of his years between 2012 and 2023 in and out of prison due to the nature of his arrest and his subsequent convictions. Some of those convictions were of domestic violence. On September 13, 2023, Shamarkis Carr was released from a halfway house. Now this release was tied to a prior conviction for aggravated assault. However, less than four months after returning home, he was arrested again. According to Georgia Law, this refers to a battery offense that involves a family or household member, and it can carry legal consequences. That includes protective orders. Now in this case, his wife was identified as the victim. His last recorded arrest occurred on February 2nd, 2025, when he was taken into custody and held in the Hancock County Jail. At this point in the timeline, Zarya Carr was unaware of the danger that would soon unfold in her life. On Saturday, june fourteenth, two thousand twenty five, Shamarcus Carr went live on Facebook. And in this Facebook live stream, Shamarkis tells his followers, who were all tuned in, that Zarya had allegedly contracted an STD. And he is telling the live audience how she contracted this STD. This exchange between Shamarkis and Zarya went on for more than two hours. And I am going to play the audio from that exchange. I do have to warn you, what you are about to hear is extremely graphic. Let's take a listen.

SPEAKER_04 12:15

I called with the drama. I called with the drama.

SPEAKER_03 12:18

So my people ain't even asked.

SPEAKER_04 12:21

Oh y'all. And no my story. You know a couple months ago I went last. So my story is freezing. I came on there. You are so bad. Oh really. Oh no, wait a minute. Oh, a bunch of steaks.

SPEAKER_03 13:25

You got the buttons.

SPEAKER_04 13:26

I want better buttons of steak. Oh you out me. Okay. Yeah, so. This one's a long store, so if they can get their popcorn ready to goddamn get store. So goddamn food. So this is my fucking girl. That's not here. Oh baby. Oh, my tattoos for all. She free. So I fuck around. I got what? It cheap watching for free. First time cheating. I'll put it on by.

SPEAKER_03 14:25

Well, you want to be a pack?

SPEAKER_04 14:27

The motherfucker got down at the nerve to try to validate her cheating with me eating boxing girls and cheat while I'm in prison. I think it's a pin pile. I want the pin pile. What you mean? So she validated that while she running f yeah. Okay, so I come home. I'm mad at. I come home. I'm a pick. You know what I'm saying? Here it is. I done mad. So now when I beat her ass and I'm on the run, she comes out and tell me everything. You know, she hot. She tells me everything now. She's smoking. Police looking at looking for me and everything, right? This shit finna get I ain't let I ain't sparing shit. I'm telling everything. I'm I'm exposing myself. I don't give a fuck. I'm exposing myself with this. So here I come home. You know what I'm saying? You know. We come, we buy this damn little hand down here. Just catch a town. We spin it down the middle. We put it down the middle. We spin it down the middle. Hey, bro, I'm telling my story, okay?

SPEAKER_03 15:45

See, see, she don't want me to tell the story because you want to see like she just did everything that she doesn't spin the button.

SPEAKER_04 16:01

What do you say about what she's about? We're gonna use this and go for that. Okay, okay. So what you want to kill for?

SPEAKER_03 16:17

Would you oh come on?

SPEAKER_04 16:21

So here's a chemical. Okay, so how did you try to do it? I'm gonna tell me. I'm gonna tell me what's your sauce, she's gonna lie for you. Again, so long story short, the bitch I you know, when I came home, we slid out on the trailer, but they didn't you I didn't have no moment a half with her. So of course her name's gonna go on the property. You know what I'm saying? But they told her my name can go on the land. You feel me? My name can my name can go on the land, but they already ran the damn uh finances with her income. Okay, cool. I'm really thinking we locked in, you feel me? I done gave up a bit. I'm thinking we're gonna lock uh locked in and you know what I'm saying. I done did okay, cool, which I know better. I know y'all say that's a dumbass nigga. Yeah, I knew better. So cool. I'm thinking if we married, I ain't got damn. I ain't I can't lose. So now boom. Here it is now. I done fucked around sign my life away. Oh no, damn that last thing. Okay, this is how she okay. So this motherfucker got there put the shit like, oh this uh, this uh now remind you now everything like that when I'm paying bill doing everything I supposed to do, but now that she I don't know what the fuck she got going on or whatever, but the bitch really got me fucked up. You know what I'm saying? She really got me fucked up to the to the point where I ain't losing shit because I mean the same gang she running on me, she gets the same shit with her other baby in it. And she had me so spent that I'm thinking that this nigga real goddamn some real bullshit.

SPEAKER_01 18:02

The argument did not stop there. Shamarcus continues his Facebook Live rant. This goes on for more than two hours before the fatal incident happened. Let's take a listen.

SPEAKER_04 18:19

You know what I'm saying? I fuck with my goddamn part, the goddamn male. Male gave me somewhere to stay. You know what I'm saying? God damn, try to get me right. You know what I'm saying? But I for some reason for the last two, three years, I can't shape for nothing. I can't get right for shit. You know what I'm saying? So I've been in denial, I've been in denial for so long. I've been denying like damn. You know what I'm saying? She I gotta goddamn get right. Okay, so boom, here it is. All this happening, the US Marshals looking for now this shit because my probation had the folks got down thinking I can beat her when she can't walk, see, and all like she my P my Provence officer telling me this shit. So here it is. They tell me that's why they had the marshes there, because I'm already about the film. So they had the marshals after me and she, you know what I'm saying? So they never they never they never kissed me or whatever. She go back up there months later, you know what I'm saying? We're gonna call that, you know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying? I come back, we try to work it out. So here it is. When I come back, we sit in here in the same area, right here. I'm sitting right here cooking as usual. She said right here with you. You sit right here with Snow Cup, uh, her friend Snow cut in at the time. Okay, we could have talked and she got them um tell Snow. Another nigga from Chelsea wanted to talk to her. Remind you this another nigga. This another nigga for one. She the nigga was on her Snapchat, so he related bitches to her when she related to him. The shit boiled down. This bitch get caught by her nigga talking to him, supposedly. The nigga called me telling me, Oh, bro, I'm gonna tell you now she it really, it really uh my girl talking to her, you know what I'm saying? They just give that to throw y'all in the scene like that. So when he said the shit, it made sense because it's like why the fuck would you come and make sure I know that he wants to talk to her? You don't come back and tell me everything else. We gotta fucking do what everything's a pop years ago, uh months later. She's trying to tell me she tried to tell me, Oh, she didn't talk to so boom. I get locked up. I get locked up. So I get locked up again because where I come home from the other shit because my probation Steve was trying to buy labor, but she had them when we got the charges dropped, so I never got fingerprinted. That's how I got out. They ain't charged me for nothing. So probation had been enough for like a week, you know what I'm saying? Trying to get the shit dropped, right? So they finally get the shit dropped. I get out when I get out. We got secure, we got a camera. Let me show you how the camera. We got cameras around the house. So she's standing out here in the yard. She on the phone with a nigga. I can hear her because she got on a speakerphone. Nigga talking about, oh, I want to get drunk. Here it is, she asked this nigga, oh, so which car you want to like she flex it? Oh, which car do you want me to drive? You want me to try to challenge him? You know what I'm saying? All that shit, but she catering to a nigga, you know what I'm saying? So I hear all this shit. So I ask her, I'm fresh out too. First thing up. So I asked about it. Oh, that was my friend. I can't have friends. Any of y'all that's gonna let no if y'all don't come in, say anything, all the any other shit, she got to do the most.

SPEAKER_03 21:28

So we don't have time. So you ever didn't both take what you mean?

SPEAKER_04 21:34

So here it is, boom. I get out. I asked her about it. She telling me, oh, that's my friend. I can't have friends. Can I have friends? Oh, you you easy, you a four, but you don't fuck. Multiple niggas. Here it is. She talked about it, she's talking about it years ago. Bitch, I'm in prison, so of course I don't know. So here it is, you gonna tell me, you gonna tell me, you gonna tell me you're gonna tell me now, so here it is. You gonna tell me Oh shit. I did this, I fucked up, I did this, I did all that. But mind you, now I think that's a nigga called up, oh I did this, I did that in the beginning when I went in. I went broke because I got fucked up. I gotta get me the lawyer, all that shit. And I was fresh up. I went back in two weeks. I went back to prison in two weeks. You know what I'm saying? So now months later, I came into a goddamn uh settlement. Months later while I'm in prison in December that next year. So boom, now here, you know, I'm straight now. I'm feeling like she's riding, I'm taking care of looking out for giving her money. You know what I'm saying? I think somebody looked at it. I had like a hundred reps in my account, and she had access to all that more than that. Okay, if it was more than that, oh okay, so what? So she had access to all that boom. So here it is, she coming around. We in prison. I'm in prison, I'm in hell with her. She well, the only thing gonna say about it because you know the prison got the relationship in here. Only way we gonna fix this, the only way this shit gonna work, you get mad. Here my dumb ass go. You feel me? I don't matter, boom. He doing all this, he doing that. But when it but when it but when it really comes down to it, you see that she can't she can't keep between the leg, but this is the thing about it. Here it is. She keeps saying, Oh, I fuck up with you while we're married. Here it is now. She done told me about the niggas supposedly before we got married. Okay. Okay, cool. I done I was on the run and shit. I shit, I did my thing, I shit, I fucked up real good. Shit, shit, my guns be my guns. You know, you did your thing. Okay. I come back. That's when the shit shit happened with the corner shit. So I get out of jail. When I get out of the jail, I see the shit on the damn uh on the camera. So I'm like, damn, so who this is? So she's talking about, oh, it's one of my homeboys from uh Augusta. He just got out the fed, this and third. I was saying you got a homeboy as soon as I got there go to the cabinet. Okay, boom. After I get caught with that girl, she goes to the she go to the she go to the doctor. She get on the table. I'm finna get tessy. Oh, I'm gonna get testy because you fucking out, you doing this, you doing that. So she said the the doctor said, Okay, we're gonna test it, we're gonna do that. Come back, baby. We come back. So the doctor tells her. We she get a result. She got her. So I'm taking my head. I'm taking them back. You gotta have a break, you know what I'm saying? You know, you know, this time we got a bit of shit, so boom, so then all that shit had around the blue. So I'm thinking, I'm thinking that this bitch got, you know, they played a mistake or whatever. Cool. So what that was. I think it was last month. So I'm in the watching the game or something. What the fuck I'm doing in the room. She comes in the bag. I look she got bugs and shit. Look like it, look like it, look like it, look like it, goddamn see why she don't want me to get on the live. That's why, that's why she's trying to talk over top of me. So it looked like this shit look like this shit look like uh like some bumps, baby, but like an egg bike. How you bust how you how you bust the box? So time go by. She goes back to her, she go no, not time by she go to her mother, she goes to her daughter, she goes to her daughter, she goes to her doctor, and the lady looked at the shit. She's talking about I need to get I don't know what this is. The letter looked down and say, Well, I looked at your chart and it said that you testified for HSV1 or what H H S P one or whatever. So I can tell I can tell you I can tell you what I'm saying. I told y'all before she when she was pregnant, she went up there to the doctor.

SPEAKER_03 26:19

They tested her and she went to stage girl.

SPEAKER_04 26:26

Uh oh. And they got there within the goddamn thing and looked at her goddamn shit and said what hell I see on your truck where it said you just bought four. Oh here it is. Oh shit, here it is. Nah, bitch, I gotta do it on the phone. You got the shit down there. Oh now you got what it purpose, but now I'm asking you like damn, what's really going on? Like, what the fuck? Like, oh, you gave it to me, you know that's the first thing. Oh, you gave it to me. Oh, you burnt me, you did it, you did that. That's the first thing she said. Now then when the lady the lady in Augusta did her paperwork, she didn't even do no chance on the shit again because she told me she said, I can look at it and tell you right now what it is. You know, that that yeah, that's that's that's what that's gotta be your ear in that outbreak. They gave us a big ass goddamn pill that she got sent to a goddamn not a regular goddamn pharmacy. She cut that shit together. I got those. So when the lady got there, call her back. Oh my god, when the lady called her back about the shit, what she emailed her and told her, and you also have uh a bacteria down the whatever. I don't even know what the fuck the bacteria, but she said, I sent enough for you and a refill for your partner. But you got no this motherfucker get mad and got that don't be wanting to give me my medicine, got the burning off and all that shit. You know what I'm saying? So boom, she gets mad a bitch inbox me, a bitch inbox me and tell me. Let me tell you how she said this shit. I probably do.

SPEAKER_03 27:54

I probably do nine times out of ten times out of ten. Oh my dead nine times out of ten.

SPEAKER_04 28:03

We have herpes. Nine times out of ten, we have herpes. The devil keep trying to keep me from uh delivering this message, but I'm gonna deliver somebody today. Somebody gonna get delivered today.

SPEAKER_01 28:16

When Shamarcus makes these claims, Zarya then gets on her phone and she goes live on Facebook. Zarya is talking to her followers regarding Shamarcus' claims, and she addresses cheating allegations. Now there's one name that comes up in this case. When Zarya brings up someone by the name of Uti, this sets Shamarkis off. And you can hear him in this live stream saying, You will die behind this. Then Zarya repeats what he says, but she asks, Why do I have to die behind this? And then the social media live stream goes blank. Let's take a listen.

SPEAKER_04 29:08

You better go on with your live. I need to take a booty. That's what you're done. I got to die by that. You got a I got the dye by telling me. Give me a phone. That is crazy, y'all. I didn't want to die by this time.

SPEAKER_03 29:29

Y'all don't know that tea right now.

SPEAKER_04 29:30

Give my phone.

SPEAKER_03 29:31

Martin got cloud. Well, he at he right here, he getting mad because he don't like the truth coming out.

SPEAKER_01 29:36

At around 9 30 p.m., law enforcement officers were dispatched to the 100th block of Fifth Avenue in Twin City following a report of a domestic disturbance. The nature of the call prompted an urgent response, with officers treating the situation as a potentially dangerous situation. Officers from the Twin City Police Department and the Sheriff's Office and also EMS all responded to the scene. When they arrived, they found Zarya Carr inside the resident, said she was unconscious and in critical condition. The scene immediately shifted from a disturbance call to a life-threatening emergency. While EMTs attempted to assess and provide aid, Zarya Carr was later pronounced dead at the scene. The confirmation of her death marked the beginning of a major criminal investigation, with authorities securing the area beginning their initial investigation. Zarya Car died from a single gunshot wound to the head. What officers discovered was that Zarya's 2021 Dodge Challenger was missing from the residence. Now the absence of her vehicle raised immediate concern that the person who was involved in the incident fled to the scene. But at the same time, her husband Shamarka's car was also not present at the residence. Law enforcement quickly issued an alert for the missing vehicle, treating this as a key piece of evidence in the case. The search had expanded beyond Twin City. The police were on the hunt to track down the vehicle and to determine the connection to the incident. Less than two hours after Zarya was pronounced dead, her 2021 Dodge Challenger was located in Wayne County. Now the recovery of the vehicle became one of the earliest significant breakthroughs in the investigation. Now this provided police with a clearer direction. They worked to determine what happened inside the home. When deputies attempted to approach the Dodge Challenger, they discovered Shamarkiscar inside the vehicle and he was unresponsive at the scene. Shamarkis was then transported to a nearby hospital, but he later died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. With both Zarya and Shamarkiscar deceased, the case was officially opened as a dual death homicide. Law enforcement agencies began working to reconstruct the events leading up to the incident, focusing on the timeline between the domestic disturbance and the discovery of the vehicle. As their investigation progressed, officers began examining the nature of the couple's relationship. Now evidence and statements reviewed during the early stages of the case suggested that their relationship was tumultuous, marked by repeated conflict, domestic violence, and an ongoing dispute. When investigators reviewed both the couple's social media activity, the Facebook live session that involved Zarya and Shamarkis. Now during the live broadcast, Shamarkis Carr made accusations that Zarya was unfaithful, while also claiming that she had placed a spell on him that negatively affected his finances. But in the same live broadcast, he also admitted that he had previously been unfaithful to her. During the live exchange, both Zarya and Shamarkis accused each other of cheating. The discussion reportedly escalated, with tensions increasing as the argument progressed in real time before both of their followers got to watch. Shemarkis stated that the behavior displayed was the kind that could result in someone being beat while he was seen holding a knife. He also made a statement saying, quote, if I get off this live, you ain't gonna make it out the door. This would indicate a further escalation in the conflict. When investigators later reviewed this footage as part of their effort to try to understand the final moments leading up to the incident and the dynamics of the relationship between Zarya and Shamarkiscar. Let's take a listen.

SPEAKER_02 35:14

Security camera footage shows a vehicle leaving this house just minutes before authorities arrived. The food mart that I'm at currently, they say that vehicle was a Dodge Challenger. That's the same vehicle the GBI says Shamarcus Ross shot and killed himself in. An hour and a half after his wife, Zaria, had been found dead in their home. This security camera footage from Singh Food Mart across the street from the home shows a dark-colored Dodge Challenger leaving around 9 27 p.m. Authorities dispatched there three minutes after that. Nearly an hour and a half later, and over 60 miles away, Wayne County Sheriff's Office found Shamarcus' vehicle. The GBI saying he shot himself as authorities tried to pull him over, later dying from his injuries. Zaria was 27, Shamarcus was 36. Both lived in Twin City. Wayne County Sheriff Chuck Mosley confirming to me that Shamarcus's death was a suicide. While they investigated further, the GBI medical examiner is working on an autopsy for Zaria. In Twin City, AJ Sisson. WJCL 22 News.

SPEAKER_01 36:19

Shamarcus Carr's death remain under investigation by the Wayne County Sheriff's Office as authorities work to officially determine the circumstances surrounding his final moments. But at the same time, the Georgia Bureau of Investigation's Medical Examiner's Office was assigned to complete a full autopsy on Zaryakar to establish the official cause of death. But as evident that continued to be processed, what investigators did was compile a witness statement, digital records and forensic findings to build a clearer timeline of events. The case was treated as an active case with both the deaths being reviewed together to understand how the situation escalated to this tragic point. On June 25th, 2025, the Georgia Bureau of Investigations released an official update in the case. And in that update, what investigators stated was that the findings showed that Zarya Carr had been physically assaulted prior to being shot and killed by her husband, Shamarcus. Now this development confirmed that the incident involved prior violence before the fatal shooting occurred. Following these findings, the police continued gathering additional evidence to complete the full case file. And once all those findings were compiled, the case was prepared to be forwarded to the district attorney's office for final review and for any potential legal determinations related to the case. But as the news of tragedy became public, it prompted an outpouring of grief from Zarya Kar's followers, friends, and loved ones. The case also sparked widespread discussion about recognizing warning signs of domestic abuse. Many conversations focus on the importance of identifying patterns of controlling behavior and escalating conflict and relationships, and especially those visible in public or online spaces. But in addition to this tragedy, renewed broader conversations about the risk of abusive relationships and how social media can sometimes document or reveal warning signs that might otherwise go unnoticed. The case was widely referenced in discussions about digital footprints and relationship dynamics that play out in public view. It was not only Zarya Carr and Shamar Marcus's death, but they left behind two young children without both parents following this incident. Members of the public expressed deep concern for the children's future and shared condolences across social media platforms. However, officials did not publicly disclose details regarding the children's long-term care in order to protect their privacy. This case has sparked difficult conversations nationwide regarding intimate partner violence, online transparency, and the reality that not everything shown publicly actually reflects the full danger happening behind closed doors. But it also raises questions about how early intervention awareness and support systems might change outcomes in situations like this. The public fallout over this case was that you have two people who are married and who are airing out their personal conflicts on social media. The case went viral and people started focusing on the video, the final argument, the last post, the relationship drama. People wanted to know what did she say? What did he say? Who cheated? Who embarrassed who? Who had the STD? But none of that would ever become the bigger truth. When people say toxic love, it can almost sound romantic, like passion, like intensity, like two people who just love too hard. Toxic love is not love that is too deep. Toxic love is love mixed with harm. Toxic love is love mixed with humiliation, love mixed with threats, love mixed with fear, love mixed with emotional exhaustion, and at some point we have to stop calling that love. This case has several elements that I want to talk about. But first, I want to talk about how someone can be in danger and people will still watch and people will still record. And I think we have become too comfortable with watching people unravel online. We've become too comfortable consuming crisis. We have become too comfortable treating domestic conflict like entertainment. And the truth is by the time a woman is publicly pleading, publicly arguing, publicly trying to be hurt, she may already be in a level of danger that most people don't even understand. Zarya's case forces us to ask, when does watching become participating? When does sharing become exploitation? When does I saw it online change to I should have called someone for help? And what do we do when a woman's cry for help is posted for viewers to see in plain sight? Zarya did not just disappear quietly. She left words. She said, Why do I have to die about this? And while the both of them were antagonizing each other, no one deserved to lose their life in this situation. And I say this with everything in me. If you know someone who is in this kind of dynamic, or if you are in this dynamic yourself, make a decision to walk away, call for help before it is too late. At the moment you grab your phone and you press record and you post all of your business on social media and your arguments and your fallouts may be the moment that it could be too late. Zarya Car and Shamarka should both be here raising their two children, but escalating tensions, social media presence, proving something to a social media. Audience, and what did it get them? You have a 27-year-old woman who is not here to raise her children, and then you have a father who took his own life because he realized he had gone too far. When I personally saw these videos, I was disgusted. And it hurt me to my heart to see two people who claim to love each other, who took a vow to love each other, press record and go back and forth on social media. And if you look at that video and you look at the comments, people are laughing and they're sending laughing emojis, and there was nothing funny about this situation. Someone should have called. Someone should have called for help. Toxic love is not love. And I don't care how much you love that person. If it gets to this point, someone has to have the wherewithal to say, I can't do this. This is not healthy for us. It's not healthy for the children. This is not a healthy environment. Now I can't speak to what was personally going on in their marriage with talks of infidelity, spells, and STDs, but what I clearly see is two people who have reached their limit. Zarya did not understand the danger she was in. And it's really sad that her husband, with their two children inside that home, drew a firearm and shot her dead. And then fled that home, leaving those children in that home with their dead mother. Fleeing in her vehicle. And when the vehicle is found, he has taken his own life. What a tragedy. There's nothing funny about what happened that day. There's nothing funny about it. Because when we look at the people that it impacts, you have two children who will grow up with neither a mother or a father. There will be no trial, no victim impact statements. All that is left is grief from two families and two children who have to carry the weight of what happened in that house. Those are the people who are left behind. Those are the lives that have been destroyed. When those children are adults, this case will still be engraved in their memory for the rest of their lives. Generations have been changed. Families have been changed. Holidays will never be the same. Birthdays will never be the same. Because the two most important people in these children's lives are gone. And that is the final verdict. My heart breaks for these children and the families. This should have never happened. I wish it would have never been broadcast for the world to see. Domestic violence is a huge issue. And it's not an issue of the past. It is a present-day epidemic that still happens. It happens to women and it happens to men. And we cannot stay silent when we see things like this. When you see fighting and people pull out their phone, call for help. People are quick to record, but never quick to call for help. My heart goes out to Zarya Kar's family and to Shamarkis' family, whose lives have forever been changed. Zarya Kar, may your sweet and beautiful soul forever rest in peace. If you or someone you love is experiencing domestic violence, or if you feel unsafe in your relationship, please know that help is available. You do not have to wait until things become physical to reach out. Contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline 247-365 at 1-800-799-SAIN. That is 1-800-799-7233. You can text the word start 288-788. Or you may also visit the hotline.org. Your safety matters. Your fear is valid, and support is available when you're ready. Thank you guys for tuning in to another episode of Senseless True Crime. We appreciate every listen, every message, and every story you send our way. You can reach the show anytime at senseless true crime at gmail.com. And don't forget to follow us on Instagram and Facebook at senseless true crime podcasts. And until next time, stay safe, stay informed, and please take care of yourselves.