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Why Busy Leaders Can’t Find New Solutions

Kirsten Barfoot Season 2 Episode 2

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What if the very trait you’ve been praised for — staying endlessly busy — is the thing blocking your best ideas?

In this episode, we dismantle the belief that constant motion equals effective leadership. Because when your calendar is packed and your brain is sprinting, you don’t innovate — you default. You choose what’s proven. What’s familiar. What feels safe.

That can look like control.

But it quietly eliminates the unknown — and the unknown is where new solutions live.

We break down what happens inside overloaded systems. When attention is saturated, the mind narrows. It clings to certainty. It resists ambiguity. And survival-mode thinking disguises itself as competence.

Then we walk through a simple but powerful experiment. A senior leader removes just one recurring meeting — and doesn’t replace it. That small pocket of white space exposes a hidden process flaw and surfaces a solution the team had never seen.

The lesson is clear:

Subtraction is not a luxury.

It’s a leadership discipline.

When you remove noise, attention widens.

When attention widens, insight returns.

You’ll leave with practical ways to reclaim space:

  • Remove one standing meeting.
  • Cap low-value updates.
  • Delegate status reporting.
  • Protect short, input-free thinking blocks.

But more importantly, we address the deeper skill: building tolerance for stillness. Because many leaders fill space not out of necessity — but discomfort.

We shift the question from:

“What else can I add?”

To:

“What must I remove for clarity to emerge?”

If you’re ready to move beyond busy and lead with insight instead of motion, this episode gives you the structure to make room where real growth happens.

Follow the show, share it with a leader who confuses pace with progress, and ask yourself:

What will you remove this week to think better?

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Welcome to Season 2 of Journey to Iconic Podcast. I’m Kirsten, your thinking partner in high-stakes leadership moments. This season is about the moments that determine authority, clarity, and impact, when pressure hits, decisions matter, and influence can quietly slip away. Across twelve episodes, we’ll break down why leaders react the way they do under pressure, where authority leaks, and how to reclaim clarity and momentum, all without relying on force, perfection, or being liked.

Thanks for listening to this episode of Journey to Iconic Podcast.  Remember: authority isn’t about being liked or moving fast, it’s about clarity, presence, and choosing how you respond under pressure. Take one insight from today, test it in your next high-stakes moment, and notice how it shifts the room. 

Why Constant Motion Feels Safe

Survival Mode And Narrow Thinking

The Cost Of No White Space

A Leader Removes One Meeting

Subtraction As A Discipline

Tolerating Uncertainty For Growth

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Hello, hello, and welcome to this episode where we're going to talk about why being constantly busy doesn't actually make you a better leader and why it can quietly stop your team, your strategy, and even your own thinking from moving forward. I want you to walk away understanding where your growth really comes from and how to create the space for it to happen. Growth collapses not because leaders lack ideas but because constant actions keeps them locked inside the knowing. So today I'd like to explore that and go deeper in that. So you know that feeling when your calendar is packed, your boxes, inboxes overflowing, and your brain is running a hundred miles an hour. You're moving fast, checking off tasks, responding to emails, jumping from one meeting to a next, and it feels like progress, right? We have built a system around badges of honor on the busiest for the busiest person. And here's the subtle truth: most leaders equate constant motion with effectiveness. We believe that being busy means we're in control and that more action equals greater results. But here's the spine you need to remember today. Growth doesn't collapse because you lack ideas, it collapses because constant actions keeps you locked inside the knowing. So when we are locked inside that moving from one thing to another, we are in that locked space where we are not open, we do not have, we have not created enough space for us to even access additional information. So remember from last episode, we talked about uh creating that space. If we're challenged in a particular meeting or interaction, we need to actually notice where that moment can be created. And it's the same in essence as what we're discussing in this one that we need to create space in our calendar for us to be open to additional information, creative solutions, curiosity. So think about it. When your system is full, when you're overloaded, your system defaults to survival. Your mind is tuned to certainty, to what is safe and what is familiar. Remember, we talked about the 50 bits of information that we can access versus the 11 million bits that is available. Big difference. So you start to solve problems the way you always have. You will avoid the unknown. And this is science, this is a scientific fact. So you will avoid the unknown because, again, it goes into that safety mechanism. We will do what is safe, we will do what is known. And the ironic part is that that feels like competence and that feels like being a good leader because we are safe. But in reality, you're shutting out the very thing that leads to breakthrough solutions. So, what does this look like in practice? You're gonna start adding things into your calendar instead of subtracting. Every new email, task, or project becomes another thing to cram into your ready full schedule. You will fill every gap with activity. There's gonna be no white space, no pause, your day will be packed from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m. And you will equate movement with progress. If you're moving fast, you must be effective, right? And here's the mechanism behind it: your system is under tension, survival orientation kicks in, you're programmed to stick with the known, the familiar. The risk feels dangerous, uncertainty will feel unsafe, and instead of creating, innovating, and exploring the unknown, you will default to what has always worked before. So, so what does that cost you as a leader? So it's gonna cost access to the new ideas. That pool of possibility now is very limited. So you're making decisions from the past and not from what is possible. Let that sink in. We are operating from a past known experience rather than being able to take a leap into the unknown and being certain in the ability or the possibility of what can transpire. So the innovation will disappear, and then you will be busy, and your busyness will not move the needle. And when the mental congestion builds, this is when urgency replaces the clarity and the risk aversion masquerades as responsibility. So let's use an example here. We have a senior leader I worked with was juggling multiple recurring meetings and daily operational tasks. They were trying to find a better workflow for critical process, but every time they tried to think creatively, something else pulled them back. Emails, calendar, conflicts, meeting, urgent requests. You know, it's that constant needing to put out fires. So we experimented. They removed one recurring meeting from their week, just one, and they didn't replace it with another task, they simply created space in the calendar. White space. And here's what happened: a new solution started appearing. They noticed a problem no one else had seen. The team proposed an idea that had never surfaced before, and it all started with a tiny space in the schedule. A moment to pause and let their mind breathe. So reflect on that. If you're constantly in motion, you're not giving your brain the space to access the unknown. And you're solving only from what you know, and what you know is limited. What you know is limited. As leaders, we instead of adding more things on our list to do, we get to limit, start taking things off our list, delegate it, give it to the give it to another a person to run with something, an idea. Is not in cramming our calendars but actually releasing the endless tasks. So survival does seek the certainty and not the growth because it's unsafe. Action saturation will narrow your information bandwidth, and no space equals no contact with the unknown, and that's exactly where the creative and the high-impact solutions live. So ask yourself when was the last time you truly paused? Not a five-minute break filled with email or scrolling, but a deliberate pause to think, to reflect, and to let ideas surface. Because that's where the breakthroughs happen. That's where the solutions that weren't physical invisible in the frenzy of action, that's when they appear. So here's what you can start doing today: subtraction as your new leadership discipline. Remove one thing from your calendar, make space, don't rush to fill it. That gap is where the growth starts. You're giving space for curiosity, you're giving space for allowing those opportunities, those possibilities to evolve. Reorient your mindset so instead of asking what else can I do, ask what can I remove for clarity to emerge and allow your system to settle. Growth requires tolerance, yes. Tolerance for uncertainty. So growth requires tolerance for uncertainty. It is the uncertainty that generates the solutions that haven't been used, utilized yet. So let the ideas come and don't force them and don't judge them. Don't be so quick to judge them being right or wrong. When a solution presents itself, it will do better, it will be better and more innovative and more sustainable than anything that can come from busyness. And it's about allowing them to have space to form, and sometimes these can get deeper and deeper when we interact and engage with others at that same time, too. So trust that clarity and insight need space to emerge. You can't force them into the you can't force them when you're in the middle of constant motion. So remember, growth collapses not because leaders lack ideas, but because constant action keeps them locked inside the no one. And so that's the insight to carry with you today.