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that."},{"startTime":1240.56,"endTime":1244.775,"body":"But mostly it's going to come down to some"},{"startTime":1240.56,"endTime":1244.775,"body":"variation of the fact"},{"startTime":1244.8,"endTime":1246.16,"body":"that you're very kind."},{"startTime":1244.8,"endTime":1246.16,"body":"Okay."},{"startTime":1246.56,"endTime":1247.655,"body":"Yeah."},{"startTime":1246.56,"endTime":1247.655,"body":"(How boring."},{"startTime":1247.68,"endTime":1250.84,"body":") And if I have nothing to say, then"},{"startTime":1247.68,"endTime":1250.84,"body":"you'll always feel that space endlessly"},{"startTime":1250.865,"endTime":1253.56,"body":"talking about yourself,"},{"startTime":1250.865,"endTime":1253.56,"body":"you know, which is good."},{"startTime":1254.52,"endTime":1256.7,"body":"Thank you very much,"},{"startTime":1254.52,"endTime":1256.7,"body":"listener, for listening."},{"startTime":1257.2,"endTime":1258.88,"body":"Thank you very much for being 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