Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries
Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries
Hosted by Camilla, a seasoned parenting coach with over two decades of experience, "Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries" is your go-to podcast for navigating the challenges and joys of raising children aged 2-12.
Drawing from her own journey raising four children and extensive work with parents, Camilla offers practical advice and compassionate guidance. Each episode is crafted to provide actionable insights in a warm, non-judgmental tone, to learn practical, evidence-based tools and tips to raise amazing kids.
Episodes address topics like morning routines, sibling conflicts, toddler tantrums, school refusal, and more.
Tune in for supportive conversations, expert interviews, and tips to nurture confident, resilient children.
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Raising Kids with Love and Boundaries
Why Scolding, Shaming, or Punishment Fails to Improve Behaviour
Have you ever wondered why traditional tactics like scolding, shaming, or punishment are ineffective in improving your child’s behaviour?
In this Episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill emphasises the importance of nurturing emotional intelligence and setting compassionate boundaries.
Camilla delves into how these punitive methods can harm self-esteem, create fear rather than respect, and weaken the parent-child connection.
Instead, she advocates for guiding children with empathy, understanding, and encouragement to foster intrinsic motivation and better behavioural outcomes.
The episode also offers practical advice on addressing children's behaviour, discussing the impact of their actions, and promoting positive practices like apologies and making amends.
Camilla emphasises that every step towards positive parenting makes a significant impact.
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00:00 Introduction: The Struggles of Parenting
00:23 The Impact of Scolding and Shaming
01:18 Developing Emotional Intelligence in Children
01:47 The Negative Effects of Punishment
02:21 Three Reasons to Avoid Scolding and Shaming
02:54 Reason 1: Damaging Self-Esteem
04:13 Reason 2: Creating Fear, Not Respect
05:10 Learning from Mistakes
05:41 Reason 3 The Importance of Connection in Parenting
06:15 Understanding Child Impulsivity
06:48 Effective Discipline Strategies
07:59 Shifting from Punishment to Teaching
08:36 Handling Specific Situations with Empathy
09:36 Encouraging Responsibility and Making Amends
10:11 Support and Resources for Positive Parenting
10:36 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
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Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?
Wish your child came with a manual, as you're just not sure what's the best approach?
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