Next Third Best Third

055: Why Most Men Waste Their Prime Years (And How to Stop)

David Fenwick Season 2

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In this inspiring episode, David Fenwick sits down with Eddie Tate, a 54-year-old husband, father of five, writer, pastor, business leader, and founder of Forged Men. Together, they explore what it means to live intentionally and invest in your future self—especially in the “next third” of life.

Eddie shares how a 12-year-old dream of writing was buried for nearly 40 years before reawakening in midlife, sparking a flood of creative work: fantasy novels, devotionals, courses, and curriculums. He discusses the deep purpose that comes when you stop coasting and choose to cultivate your spiritual, emotional, and physical pillars with intention.

They talk about the power of pruning, both self-imposed and through life’s hardships, and how failure isn’t final—it’s formative. Eddie shares vulnerably about being diagnosed with pre-diabetes and reclaiming his health, as well as building multi-generational legacy at home and in ministry.

The conversation ends with a bold call to men: stop shrinking back, and start sharpening one another. There’s more inside you waiting to be revealed—and it’s never too late to become who you were always meant to be.

connect with Eddie: https://www.instagram.com/eddie_tait/

00:00 – Investing in Your Future Self with Eddie Tate  
02:03 – Living With Intentionality in the Second Half of Life  
04:06 – Awakening a Childhood Dream at Age 50  
07:04 – Seeds, Roots, and the Purpose of Timing  
09:45 – Redefining Success in Midlife  
13:10 – Living Full: Family, Ministry, and Mission  
17:20 – Rejecting Excuses: Health, Diabetes, and Discipline  
22:08 – Physical Transformation as a Catalyst for Growth  
29:10 – The Power of Pruning to Reveal True Identity  
36:03 – Iron Sharpens Iron: Why Men Need Each Other  

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

Website: (https://www.nextthirdbestthird.com/)