Next Third Best Third

061: Why Most People Miss Their Purpose (and How to Step Into Yours)

David Fenwick

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When it comes to walking out our purpose, nothing matters more than knowing who we truly are. In this episode of Next Third, Best Third, I sit down with my friend Bethany Hicks to dive deep into the power of identity. We unpack how lies, labels, and false beliefs create boxes that keep us from stepping into the life God intended—and how freedom begins with seeing ourselves the way heaven sees us.

Bethany shares powerful stories—from Moses wrestling with his calling to her own daughter breaking free from the “lie of shy.” I also open up about lies I carried for years and how they shaped my choices, relationships, and future until I learned to throw them off. Together, we talk about why identity isn’t just about self-perception—it’s the key that either releases or restricts our destiny.

If you’ve ever wondered why you feel stuck, unseen, or limited by the opinions of others (or even your own thoughts), this episode is for you. We’ll walk you through how to recognize false identities, how to hear who God says you are, and how to step into freedom. Your next third really can be your best third—and it starts with identity.

Timestamps:
00:00 – Welcome & the Five Pillars of Life
01:00 – Why Identity Shapes Destiny
02:06 – Internal vs. External Boxes of False Identity
02:56 – Moses’ Struggle with Identity
04:39 – Identity Releases Destiny
05:06 – The “Lie of Shy” and Raising Kids in Truth
07:30 – How Childhood Lies Follow Us into Adulthood
09:05 – Abuse, Comparison, and False Identities
10:42 – Identity Confusion in Our Culture Today
12:09 – How the Enemy Tries to Silence Your Voice

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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