063: The Struggle Between Work and Family Time // The Challenges of Reinventing Yourself While Employed

Hey everyone, welcome to the Next Third Best podcast! In today’s episode, I sit down with my good friend Kevin Gates as we discuss something near and dear to both of our hearts—reinventing yourself. Whether you’re in your 30s, 40s, or beyond, it’s never too late to make a change. In this conversation, we dive deep into how men can continue to evolve, not just for themselves but also to create a more meaningful life for their families. Kevin, with his success in physical medicine and his desire to do something that incorporates his whole family, shares his powerful story of balancing his career with the values that matter most.

We talk about the challenges of being a provider, the desire to work alongside your family, and the importance of developing an intentional lifestyle that brings you closer to your loved ones. We touch on the tension between career, personal growth, and being present for your children. It’s inspiring and humbling to hear Kevin’s thoughts on how to nurture both your professional and family life without compromising one for the other. This conversation is not just for dads—it's for anyone looking to make a lasting impact on their family and the future.

The big takeaway here is that you don’t have to wait until the "perfect" moment to reinvent yourself. As Kevin shares, it’s about starting small while you’re already in the game. You don’t have to burn the boats or leave everything behind. With a little bit of planning and intentionality, you can build a life where your family and career work together to create a lasting legacy. So, whether you're dreaming of a family business or just want to be more present with your kids, this episode is packed with tips and encouragement for men at any stage of life!

Timestamps with Titles:
00:00 - Introduction to Reinventing Yourself

00:45 - Kevin’s Success in Medicine and His Desire for Family Involvement

02:00 - Honoring Trust and Embracing New Opportunities

05:25 - The Importance of Family Life and Roles

06:30 - The Struggle Between Work and Family Time

08:00 - The Challenges of Reinventing Yourself While Employed

09:40 - The Resilience of Family

12:00 - Navigating the Tension of Family Businesses

14:30 - Finding Balance: Lessons from Family Retail Businesses

16:50 - Making the Dream of a Health and Wellness Hub a Reality

19:40 - Incorporating Intentionality into Your Life

Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:

- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.

Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!

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