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Next Third Best Third
Today is the first day of the rest of your life! Our mission is to ignite hope, vision and passion so your life will impact the world around you. Conquer Life's Stages with Passion, Love, and Adventure.
Forge your path through life's Thirds with strength at "Next Third Best Third." Join a brotherhood of men refusing to settle. Discover confidence, authentic connections, and unbreakable camaraderie tailored for your prime. Redefine success, embracing change with true masculinity. Navigate the later stages of life as a conquest. Your prime awaits, conquer it with us.
David Fenwick, founder of Next Third Best Third, is an author, life coach, and inspirational speaker. He has a journey that includes pastoring, church planting and entrepreneurship. David's mission is to inspire others to dream, discover their true identity, live with intention, and impact their spheres of influence.
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Next Third Best Third
079: Guest Ben Serpell - Fatherhood Stages: How to Guide Your Kids Through Every Phase, From Toddler to Adulthood
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Website: https://www.lovingonpurpose.com/
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In this episode of Next Third Best Third, I’m joined by my good friend Ben Serpell to dive into the ever-changing role of fathers. From the moment you become a dad, you’re thrust into the role of a “cop”—setting rules and boundaries to ensure peace. But as your kids grow, so must your approach. Ben shares his own journey from the cop stage to becoming a coach for his teens and, eventually, a consultant to his young adult children. This evolution not only reflects the growth of your kids but the deepening of your relationship with them. It’s not always easy, but it’s worth it.
We discuss how the challenges of fatherhood shift as your children grow, the importance of setting healthy boundaries early on, and the power of choosing connection over control. Ben opens up about the emotional journey of letting go, especially when your kids reach the point where they no longer need your advice but still value your input. As fathers, we can sometimes feel like failures, but we must remember that our humility and willingness to evolve play a crucial role in building trust and keeping those vital connections alive.
Whether you're parenting toddlers or navigating the tricky teen years, or even guiding adult children, this conversation offers insight into how you can continuously adapt to become the father your kids need at every stage of their lives. Join us as we explore fatherhood in all its complexities, offering practical advice and heartening stories to inspire fathers everywhere.
Chapters:
00:00 - Introduction: Fatherhood Journey
00:32 - Cop Stage: Setting Boundaries Early On
01:43 - Transitioning to the Coach Role: Guiding Teens
04:41 - The Consultant Stage: Giving Advice Only When Asked
07:06 - The Power of Offering Choices to Empower Kids
10:12 - The Importance of Emotional Connection and Trust
12:50 - Moving from Control to Collaboration: Letting Kids Lead
15:22 - How Fear Influences Parenting and How to Overcome It
18:45 - Fatherhood and Rejection: Handling Disconnection with Daughters
23:57 - Parenting with Humility: The Key to Building Strong Relationships
Welcome to Next Third Best Third! Join us for the inaugural episode of the Next Third Best Third podcast! Host David Fenwick, founder, author, and life coach, introduces the mission to inspire men over 40 to thrive in the next stage of life. Discover how to conquer life's challenges across physical, mental, relational, spiritual, and emotional dimensions. In this episode, David shares insights on:
- Physical Health: Strategies for maintaining fitness and vitality as you age.
- Mental Resilience: Techniques to stay mentally sharp and manage stress.
- Relational Growth: Building and nurturing meaningful relationships.
- Spiritual Fulfillment: Finding purpose and deeper spiritual connections.
- Emotional Well-being: Managing emotions and fostering a positive outlook.
Don't miss out on this journey towards making the next third of your life the best third!
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