It's Not That Deep

If He Wanted To, He Would (Stop Making Excuses) EP 9

Lumma Season 1 Episode 9

In this episode, we’re breaking down one of the most uncomfortable truths in dating: when someone genuinely wants you, their actions will always reflect it. No confusion. No mixed signals. No constant guessing.

We talk about how being overly available, predictable, or afraid to walk away often leads to women being taken for granted—and why “nice,” accommodating behavior is frequently rewarded with the bare minimum. This isn’t about blaming women; it’s about recognizing patterns, unlearning excuses we’ve been conditioned to accept, and understanding how low standards invite low effort.