The Legacy of Love: Estate Planning Simplified for Mothers

Why Estate Planning Alone Won’t Save Your Family (or Your Legacy) From Chaos

Episode 6

Who helps clean up the “dumpster fires of death” when you’re gone?

Settling a loved one’s estate isn’t just emotionally draining, it’s a logistical marathon. In this eye-opening episode, Sara speaks with Rachel Donnelly, an after loss professional, about the hidden burdens executors face and the urgent need for better preparation and support in end-of-life planning.

In this episode, you will:

  • Learn how settling an estate can take over 400 hours and why most executors feel overwhelmed and underprepared
  • Discover the critical gaps in estate planning—from frozen accounts to locked digital assets—and how to avoid them
  • Gain practical tools and insights to help your family navigate loss with more clarity, support, and less chaos


Listen now to learn how you can ease the burden on your loved ones by planning ahead for the realities of trust or estate administration.

About Rachel:
Rachel Donnelly is the founder and CEO of AfterLight, a firm dedicated to helping families navigate the administrative side of loss with compassion and clarity. Inspired by her own experiences, Rachel created the Legacy Building Formula™, a 6-step program guiding clients through legacy preservation and estate administration.

She’s also the co-founder of Professionals of After Loss Services (PALS), where she helped launch the first training program for after-loss professionals.

Rachel lives in Atlanta with her husband, two children, and their pup, Rhett Butler. Her upcoming book, Late To Your Own Funeral, explores how to leave a legacy, not a logistical mess behind.

Connect with Rachel:
On Instagram @myafterlight
On Facebook
On LinkedIn
MyAfterLight.com
AfterLossPros.com

Episodes air weekly on Mondays and Wednesdays.

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Disclaimer

This podcast simplifies estate planning for women in the sandwich generation - those raising children while caring for aging parents. We cover living trusts, wills, power of attorney, supported decision making, and healthcare proxies to help you plan with clarity and peace of mind. Episodes explore inheritance, probate, fiduciary duties, and the role of a trustee, while addressing decision fatigue, overwhelm, and the emotional weight of caregiving. Rooted in mindfulness, values, and preparedness, we offer practical tools and heartfelt conversations about elder care, end-of-life planning, and leaving a legacy that lasts.

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