Super Sex
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Welcome to Supersex—the podcast where you get to dive into all things sex and relationships without it ever getting boring!
Ever wondered how talking about sex could actually be fun? Well, here’s where you find out. We’ve got a queer guy and a straight dude ready to dish out the tea, share the cringey moments, and keep it as real (and hilarious) as it gets.
Every episode is packed with the good stuff—the latest research, wild stories, and a ton of laughs, so you get to learn about sex and relationships without feeling like you're in a classroom.
Curious about what’s new in sexual health? Need advice on navigating the dating jungle? Or maybe you just wanna hear about someone else’s relationship fails to feel better about your own? We got you!
From first dates to kink, we're breaking down the science and making it all relatable to you so you can implement the good stuff into your sex life and get rid of the bad.
Expect personal stories, guest experts, and, of course, a bunch of jokes. Get ready to laugh, learn, and maybe even rethink a few things about love and intimacy.
So tune in, because you deserve to have fun while figuring out this whole sex and relationship thing!
Super Sex
Sexplained: Why Do I Fantasise About My Wholesome Wife Being a Total Slut?
Ever wondered why you fantasise about your loving partner in ways that make you feel guilty? You're not alone, and you're not broken.
This eye-opening episode explores a listener's confession about desiring to see his wholesome, loving wife as sexually uninhibited—a psychological phenomenon more common than most realise. We break down the Madonna-whore complex, explaining how our culture artificially separates women into categories of either purity or sexuality, creating unnecessary guilt when these worlds collide in our fantasies.
What's fascinating is how these fantasies often aren't about degradation at all, but rather about witnessing someone we deeply respect embrace their sexual power and sovereignty. The contrast between everyday roles and erotic imagination creates a psychological electricity that's perfectly normal, even healthy. Your brain isn't betraying your relationship—it might actually be working exactly as designed.
Most importantly, we provide a practical roadmap for communicating about these desires with your partner, focusing on vulnerability, gradual introduction, and mutual respect. Whether your partner enthusiastically joins your fantasy world or prefers to keep things as they are, we offer strategies for honouring both your desires and your relationship boundaries.
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Alright, folks, buckle up, because we've got a juicy one today, and I mean juicy. A listener wrote in with a question that, honestly, more men than you think of are going to relate to. He says hey, jordan, this might sound a little bit weird, but I've got this burning desire to see my wife as a total slut, like properly. I love her to bits. She's the center of my universe, an amazing mother, caring partner, but I keep fantasizing about her being wild. I mean showing off in bars, hooking up in bathrooms, getting gangbanged and cream-piped. I feel weird because our relationship is so wholesome, but this part of me wants something totally different. What's going on? Why am I like this and how the hell do I bring it up with her? Well, first of all, pal, thank you, because that level of honesty takes guts. And second, no, you're not weird. In fact, you're tapping into something a lot of people feel but are too scared to admit, so let's explain it. So here's the thing.
Speaker 1:What you're describing is actually a well-documented erotic theme. It's often called hot wife fantasy, cuckold fantasy or slut play. It's often called hot wife fantasy, cuckold fantasy or slut fight, and while the names sound intense, it's not actually about humiliation or betrayal. For most people, what it is about is about contrast. It's about watching someone you love and admire take on a completely different role and being turned on by that transformation. It's the paradox of wanting your partner to be both saint and sinner. And you're not alone in this. In fact, psychologists have a term for this the Madonna-whore split. It's this cultural narrative that says a woman can either be adored or desired, but not both. You, well, you're trying to merge those two worlds. You love her deeply and you want to see her wild, free and sexually powerful. That doesn't mean that you're broken. It might actually mean that your erotic brain is working really, really well. Now, of course, you feel conflicted. We live in a culture that tells men to put women on a pedestal or pull them into pornographic movies, but never both. And while you've built a relationship on mutual love, parenting and emotional safety, it can feel almost disloyal to admit that you've got some filthy little fantasies lurking in the back of your brain. But here's the truth. Fantasy is not betrayal. Your fantasy isn't about degrading her. It's about giving her power In your head. She's not being used, she's choosing, she's desirable, she's fearless, she is sexually sovereign. That is hot and it's deeply psychological.
Speaker 1:Fantasies like this often emerge when we crave intensity, novelty, taboo or surrender. And the deeper you'll bond with someone, the safer it feels to imagine that level of erotic risk with them. So should you tell her the short answer? Maybe, but not the way it's playing in your head right now. You don't start with hey babe, what do you think about being gangbanged in a bar toilet? That's a bit like dropping a live grenade and hoping it turns into a scented candle. Instead, you start small, invite her into the fantasy gently. You might say something like hey, there's something I've been thinking about a lot, something that turns me on and it's kind of vulnerable to share because it's not something we've ever talked about. But I want to open up because I trust you and I feel like we're strong enough to talk about anything. This way you let her feel that it's about connection, not about recruiting her for a porno. You can even add something like it's not something I expect or even need to happen in real life, but talking about it, playing with just the idea, that could be really exciting for me. See, you start with the fantasy, not reality. Let it be. Play Now if she is into it. Go slow If she gets curious or even doesn't shut it down right away.
Speaker 1:You've got options. You can maybe talk about it in bed, describe the fantasy out loud. Maybe she pretends in dirty talk you guys flirt with the idea together. You could even watch a little porn together with a similar theme, or you can even dip your toes into some erotica or audio stories together. The goal here isn't the gangbang or the cream pie. The goal is connection through erotic honesty. You are not trying to turn her into someone else. You are inviting her into your imagination and that is a deeply intimate thing.
Speaker 1:Now, if, and only if, she ever wanted to explore something real world, like ethical non-monogamy or exhibitionism. That would require some serious conversations, some serious boundary setting, safety protocols and possibly the help of a sex positive therapist or coach. But that's a whole different level. You're nowhere near that yet. But what if she's not into it? Well then, you can still bring that fantasy into your own sexual experience.
Speaker 1:Fantasize during your solo time, write it out, use it to fuel your desire without acting on it. Remember, your fantasy can be 100% valid and valuable, even if it stays inside your head. Now I'm going to leave you with this. This isn't about disrespecting your head. Now I'm going to leave you with this. This isn't about disrespecting your wife. It's about integrating all the complex, delicious parts of yourself as a man who wants to love and lust, to honor and desire to be real about the wildness that lives inside. You don't need to force anything. Just start a conversation with her and with yourself, because that erotic truth, when held with love and care, that's not dangerous, it's liberating. And that's a wrap on this episode of Sixplained, where we make the awkward stuff feel easy, the taboo stuff feel normal and the complicated stuff make actual sense.
Speaker 1:Now, if you are hungry for more, come find me on Instagram and YouTube. Just search Super Sex Podcast or Jordan Walker Sexology Adults. If you're looking to level up your love life, head over to jordanwalkerrsccom for tips, tricks and ways that we can work together. And if you're a parent thinking God, I hope my kid gets better sex ed than I ever did go straight to youwon'tlearnthisatschoolcom. I've got workshops, resources and the one-on-one support to help raise emotionally intelligent, sexually savvy young humans. So stay curious, stay kind and remember that great sex is learned. It's not lucky. Catch you next time on Sexplained.
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