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Quickie: Inside Mr. Hankey’s Toys: The Rise of Hyper-Realism, Size Kinks, and the Art of Stretch

Jordan Walker

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What drives someone to create pleasure products that push the boundaries of both size and artistry? In this captivating conversation, we meet Mike, the visionary behind Mr Hanky's Toys, who turned a garage experiment in 2015 into one of the most respected premium silicone toy manufacturers in the world.

From the moment Mike spotted a gap in the market for high-quality, US-made silicone toys that married exceptional craftsmanship with unprecedented size options, his journey has been about elevating an often-stigmatized industry through meticulous attention to detail. His pioneering live-casting techniques have set new standards for hyper-realism, creating products that blur the line between sculpture and function.

The psychology behind size play reveals itself as surprisingly nuanced. Far from being solely about physical sensation, the appeal spans power dynamics, fantasy fulfillment, and the deeply personal journey of pushing boundaries at your own pace. Mike's insights demolish stereotypes, showing how his increasingly diverse customer base – from long-term enthusiasts to curious beginners – approaches these experiences with thoughtfulness and intention.

Perhaps most refreshing is Mr Hanky's unwavering commitment to transparency and safety. In an industry where materials often remain mysterious, they openly publish their testing results and maintain rigorous quality controls. Their customer-first approach extends to personalized support that can span days of conversation before a purchase is made, creating the kind of loyalty that's kept customers returning since their earliest days.

Whether you're fascinated by entrepreneurship, product design innovation, or the psychology of pleasure, this conversation offers a rare glimpse behind the curtain of an industry that continues to evolve. What began as one product has expanded into a global phenomenon that's redefining what's possible when art meets intimate function.

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Speaker 1:

You know, those toys that you see online, the ones that are so big, so sculpted, so ridiculously real, that they feel like a blend of porn and sculpture.

Speaker 2:

Yeah, you know the ones.

Speaker 1:

Well, today we're talking to the man behind those things. Welcome to this Super Sex Quickie where we dive straight into the good stuff. I'm Jordan, and today I'm joined by Mike, the founder and CEO of Mr Hanky's Toys, the brand that's redefining what realism, size, play and high quality silicon really mean in the world of sex toys. We're talking garage startups, fantasy meets function, innovation, why size is about so much more than just the stretch, and how the sex toy industry still has a long way to go when it comes to safety, transparency and stigma. Now, if you've ever wondered what goes into making a dildo the size of your forearm, or why people are craving hyper-realism in their pleasure tools, this episode is for you. Let's get into it. All right, guys On the pod. Today we have Mike from Mr Hanky's Toys. Mike, how are you doing? Not bad. How are you? I'm very good, mate. I'm very good.

Speaker 1:

So your products are, without a doubt, one of the best in the world, from what I've seen, are, without a doubt, one of the best in the world. From what I've seen, the designs that are coming out of your shop, the material quality that are coming out of the shop, are just absolutely incredible. So I've been wanting to chat with you guys for so long, and I think we've been flirting around with each other for at least six to nine months. So here we are finally, and I'm super excited about this. But some questions that I have. How in hell does someone sit there and think to themselves you know what I'm going to start making super-sized, super-realistic dildos. I mean, where does that come from? Where did Mr Hankies come from?

Speaker 2:

Okay. So it all started out pretty modestly. We started out in my garage. It's how a lot of small businesses start out. That was back around 2015.

Speaker 2:

I noticed a real gap in the market for high quality US made silicone toys in, in particular, larger, hyper-realistic toys. I think at the time back then, the only option you had a square peg, which was really good. I have a lot of respect for them. They were probably the first toy maker out there to make big silicone toys made in the US. They've always made great products. Make big silicone toys made in the US. They've always made great products, especially larger silicone toys.

Speaker 2:

Back in 2015, other than them, the choices were pretty slim and the retail stores really didn't carry anything substantial at all. We saw the opportunity and we jumped in. We launched one toy it was the original Mr Hankey that we still sell today and that just grew slowly from there. We sold one and then we sold two and then we started selling many more.

Speaker 2:

Something that set us apart early was our live casting techniques. That gave us an edge on the accuracy and the hyper realism. Our cutting edge techniques birthed one of our most popular realistic designs to date. That's the Cutler X. Cutler was really popular and we were lucky to land him and we did an excellent job capturing his shape so that one really set us apart from everybody else, and since then we've done plenty more live castings. But slowly but surely we moved out of the garage, we got a dedicated workspace, we hired some very talented designers that have been with us for the entire time we've been around and since then we've just kept expanding. I don't know how many units we have now, but we've got something like five, six units that we are working out of and we're doing very well that is absolutely brilliant.

Speaker 2:

Today we're doing well. We're more widely known not mainstream yet, but we're catching on and we've always stayed true to our strengths, although we do offer some great fantasy toys. Probably our real passion is the hyper-realistic detail, especially in some of our realistics, which is really not easy to achieve. It involves specialized techniques. That and that's really where we shine, I think.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, they are absolutely incredible products, and you you can look at them on a picture on the internet and you're like, wow, that looks great. But it's not until you actually get them in your hands that you're like, oh my god, that is just next level, next level. I need to know, though, where the hell did the name come from?

Speaker 2:

I gotta be careful about that one. Um, well, we, well we, we. We made the first. I don't know how many toys, maybe three or four or so toys, maybe out of clay, before we got into different types of designing, but the original ones were made out of clay and I made them. Um, our designers didn't make them. Um, the first one we made, um it, there's a character, mr Hankey.

Speaker 2:

I looked at the toy, I looked at you know, I just it just popped in my head and you know, at that point, you know, our silicone formula was, you know, perfected after lots of experimentation and lots of loss as far as money goes. Now you can go on YouTube and figure it out easy, but back then it wasn't so easy. But the naming wasn't so much I put any thought into, since we only had one toy, mr Anki. The website just naturally became MrAnkisToyscom and we had one toy on there. But I mean, underneath the playful name, I mean there's a serious commitment to quality and safety. We test our materials rigorously and we openly publish those results in our FAQs. That's not something that many companies do. It's probably because many companies don't test their materials at all. So there's that interesting contrast. Uh, we're fun and approachable, but we're dead serious when it comes to quality, uh safety and details of our designs.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, absolutely and that that definitely comes through with the actual final product, but also on the way that you package it as well. It's um, you know the way. The website is very open, it's very honest, but it's there's lots and lots of detail, which I think that anybody who's within that size play community they're screaming for details and you're offering it, which is fantastic. But in talking about that, who, who is the audience? Who are the people that you're selling these toys to? Because a lot of people think that, you know, size play is just for absolutely extreme people. You know, but what are you seeing from your side of things?

Speaker 2:

Our customer base is very diverse. Historically, gay men have been a popular demographic for us, but we're seeing a significant growth among women, couples, kink enthusiasts and there's a whole spectrum Customers who want ultra premium products with realistic shapes, textures, fantasy options, even hybrids, where we kind of blend realistic with fantasy, and people just who care deeply about safe materials. They find us and they stay loyal. I mean, we have customers from 2015, when we started, that are still with us. But customer service is also a huge priority for us. We reply to 100% of the emails, no matter what it is, which is pretty rare nowadays. I mean, if I sent somebody an email, I don't expect to get a reply back for a little while, maybe a couple of days. So usually we reply within hours and we know that our customers really value that responsiveness.

Speaker 2:

We've recently introduced our extra small series, which caters to a broader, less niche audience, and that's even available on Amazon, so it's priced competitively with other small silicone toys out of China. We're already preparing to launch Series 4 soon, so we're excited about continuing to bring our designs to a multitude of people. So we're expanding. We still have our base customers and they're perfectly happy. We always offer them something to pick from, but we're also branching out and offering stuff to newbies or newer customers. General audience that's fantastic.

Speaker 1:

But what do you think it is that is motivating people to get into size play, because, yeah, it's one of these things that the general population is sitting there going all. If you're into these massive toys and there's got to be a hypersexuality, there's got to be a defect somewhere, but it's not. That is it.

Speaker 2:

No, it's a good question. Honestly, this play taps into a whole mix of things, both physically and psychological. For some people it's about the power dynamic. There's something incredibly intense about surrendering to or conquering to something that's massive. I can play into fantasies of dominance, submission, just testing the limits. There's a huge fantasy and escapism element. You think. Monster dildos, giant cocks these things go way beyond everyday sex and dive into the surreal. It's like porn meets mythology. So customers often tell us realistic toys create a deeper, more immersive connection, and that's exactly why we're doubling down on our LifeCast products for that reason.

Speaker 2:

Then you've got the physical side. Some folks crave the stretch of fullness that only comes with size. That's a very real, very intense sensation that just hits differently. Plus, there's the achievement factor too. People take pride in training their bodies, going bigger, pushing boundaries. It becomes a challenge and a kink journey on its own. While our base customers typically prefer larger toys, we found a sweet spot in sizes that appeals broadly, that allows everyone to participate in the stretch kink. So you know, even if you're not into the giant stuff, most people can get into that sweet spots. Where it's still big but it's not giant, still considered large play. And that's not to say that we no longer cater to our customers who develop specialized skills throughout the years of training with our biggest toys. We're always there for them. We try to offer something for everybody a very wide range of sizes.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, that multifaceted approach to size play is what I think is so fascinating about it, and there is very, very limited research out there. I mean, there's a lot within the gay male community, but there is nothing within the heterosexual female community or the lesbian community. So that is really nice to see that you're actually seeing that come through, and quite often they are not just going to these massive extremes but they're hitting that sweet spot, like you said, and they're really sort of enjoying that larger than normal size. But you know, it's one of those things. But one of the questions that I've always thought about these toys is and especially your fantasy range is there are some incredible shapes out there. They're almost like ornamental. I think about the crocodile one that you have. The detail in. That is absolutely incredible. But how do you balance that level of detail, that level of fantasy, with actual usability, because that is an insanely hard thing to do Well.

Speaker 2:

We always ask ourselves can this toy be both visually impressive and actually usable? That's not an easy thing to do. Firmness, color options, functionality all those are critical. It doesn't matter how amazing a toy looks, If it doesn't perform well during actual use, it's disappointing. So if a design seems like it could pose a problem, we correct it in the design phase. Still, we love offering a variety and stepping out of our comfort zone, sometimes with some experiments. People do appreciate diversity, and we provide a range of shapes and sizes that you just won't find anywhere else a range of shapes and sizes that you just won't find anywhere else.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, the shapes and sizes, they've sort of exploded, because I've been across your toys since probably about 2017, 2018. And I've seen this massive sort of progression and just like explosion of different shapes, sizes, textures. You know the amount of products that you've had on there, so that's really cool. But the other question I've got is how did it reviews and customer feedback and do you use like prototype testers? You know how do they inform the design?

Speaker 2:

we have regular models that we definitely that we've developed long-term relationships with. So you know we have regular models that'll use a lot of our larger toys, both male and female. We get feedback, definitely Our customers they'll give us. We get feedback all day long, go to our bed and we take all that to heart. So you know we pay close attention to our reviews, our comments, the feedback from customers and we put this all together and we do maintain a list of thoughts, feedback and ideas that we always refer to when we develop new products.

Speaker 2:

So a good example would be our upcoming toy, which we haven't named yet, but it has a big head. Don't have one behind me, but it's got a big head on it. We made that toy look realistic. The idea was to make it look very realistic but put a head on the toy that it really borders on what could be found naturally, like in real life, or, more likely, borders on fantasy with the size of the head. A toy like this with a big head has been on our request list for quite a while probably, you know, a couple of years or more and we got a list with. You know, if somebody submits an idea to our customer service. They forward it to me and then we put it on our list and every time we go into the design process and we get into designing a new toy, we go down our list line by line and we say what are we due for? What should we start thinking about? Where's there a gap that we can fill?

Speaker 1:

Interesting and I do wonder, with all of these sort of feedback and whatnot that's coming in there, are you guys seeing a growing demand for these larger size toys?

Speaker 2:

yeah, absolutely, and it's growing quickly. Realism, especially live cast and hyper realistic toys, is driving this demand. Although we've historically been under the radar, those interested in size play often know about us, but there's still a broader audience who hasn't yet discovered us, especially those new to using toys for size play. We think there's a huge opportunity here. There's a lot of people out there that really want to get into larger toys, but especially realistic, larger toys, and those are hard to find. We are the top person, top company at making large, realistic toys. So if you want to get out of your comfort zone, we're a good the. We are the top person, you know, top company at making large, realistic toys. So if you want to get out of your comfort zone, we're a good place to go.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, absolutely I'd second that one. I think there's two companies that I sort of recommend, and it's yourself and Square Peg, because, yeah, the quality is just not quite there with others, the customer service isn't quite there with others, and, and definitely, the shapes and sizes are definitely not there. But what's surprising you about this market?

Speaker 2:

now. The international demand remains strong, especially in wholesale. That's a little surprise right now, just with the climate. There's a big appetite globally for large, hyper-realistic toys. Additionally, we're seeing growing interest from beginners who prefer authentic, body-based shapes. Realistic toys often exceed real-life expectations because finding those experiences in real life isn't always practical. You're not going to find somebody that's, you know, this big. You know it's easy to say you're 9, 10, 11 inches, but in real life that's hard to find. We aim for that ideal sweet spot with our size and realism.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I think the statistics around that there's about 3% of guys that are larger than seven inches and then when it comes up to the 10, 11 inches, it's less than 1%. So you know, there are people out there that are craving those sensations, as you say, or even that psychological play of going with somebody who's a lot larger, but they just can't find it. But what about some trends? You've seen any different trends? Like there was that whole bad Dragon thing that started off a while back, but there that look like bad dragon um, they're almost indistinguishable at this point, um, and we're trying to stay with what you know.

Speaker 2:

We release fantasy toys, but they look different. They don't look like your typical fantasy toys that you find in a lot of places. But you know our customers for the most part, um, and this year we're focusing on. You know our customers want, increasingly want, ultra realistic models, so and that's year we're focusing on. You know our customers want, increasingly want, ultra realistic models, so and that's what we're really good at so they're especially looking for ones from popular adult performers. So we're actively collaborating with well-known models, some with millions of followers coming up here, because customers love pairing their toy use with their favorite performers. Content. Another important trend is customers are asking more questions about materials and safety, so we're ramping up educational content. Transparency around our testing procedures People genuinely want assurance that their toys are safe and we proudly offer that. That's a big one in the market right now, and we publish and we show our testing results and if anybody sends us an email and wants a document, we'll send it right back to them. Yeah, lovely.

Speaker 1:

Talking about material quality, I always tell people smell test. If you open up a toy and you can smell something, there's a problem With your toys. You don't get that. There's almost no scent at all because of the high quality silicon. But is there any other tests out there that people can do to sort of figure out is this 100% safe?

Speaker 2:

We send out our tests. We have our lab tests come through from our raw materials. So that's before the material's cured. We have those tests, but we also test it in its cured state. It depends what state you're in. Also, well, in the US it depends what state you're in, but California has some of the strictest, let's say, regulations, but there aren't necessarily regulations on adult toys, not that we'll try to meet those as best as we can.

Speaker 2:

We're going to look for any kind of contaminants or anything like that. Let's say, the supplier gives us a document, we're going to send that out and make sure that that matches up and we're not finding anything different. And a lot of times suppliers don't even have those documents. So there's a lot of people out there in the US and there's a lot of companies out there that look like they're from the US. There's a couple that come to my mind that very much look like they're from the US and they're not from the US and those materials are generally you don't know what they are.

Speaker 2:

It's not like it used to be in the you know nineties and stuff, where you do the smell test and you know, okay, that smells like a rubber tire. That's no good. Nowadays it's a little different. You might pull something out or pull on it and it stretches and you think it says silicone on it and you think you know what it is. But unless you send it out um or you can get test results, you really don't know what that material is. You know, yeah, so absolutely.

Speaker 1:

Now with the, I'll just have this question come to my mind. You do a variety of sort of um hardness ratings, so you've got that 50, 75, 100, um, what are you finding that's selling for people? Are they going for more of those sort of squishy material or they're going for the harder, or is it pretty much even across the board?

Speaker 2:

I'd say our. So this gets a little complicated. Um, because we have our in-house formulas and then we have what we call our formulas that we put online. So originally it was, you know, we thought of okay, how do we describe the hardness of this material? So we thought, okay, if you say this is 75%, our meaning is, this is 75% of what you might expect a fully erect penis to be. You know, it's about 75% of that. So it's not like you're squeezing around it and choking it, Like it's about 75%. It's comfortably soft. Now then we get into our 40%. That's like 40% of an erect penis, but 75% sells the best overall. That's what our retailers anybody that sells retail for us. They all sell 75%.

Speaker 2:

But we want to make the options available because some people want their toys absolutely rock hard, as hard as they can get. So we'll go up to an extra firm. We got a medium firm, then our 75%, which is most popular. But then if you're looking for something softer, which is very popular, then you get into our 40%. So 75% and our 40% are the most popular by far. Don't like to call a certain hardness usable when it gets to a certain too soft. We do get some people that still obviously want their toys super squishy, but that really all depends. If they're buying a toy that's this big and it's squishy as jello, it's going to compress and go out.

Speaker 1:

75% and 40% would be our most popular by far that's interesting because I suppose then people are starting to play around with the material quality and well, not the quality but the material type in order to get different sensations. I suppose if it's compressing and squishing out, then that's going to give a very different sensation, and if it's rock hard, especially if you're using it anally, right it's going to have no give, you know.

Speaker 2:

So your body's going to have to give more than the toy is going to have to give. So that's, that's up to the user. Do they want their, their body to to kind of give way to the toy, or do they want the toy to kind of form around their body? It's, it's really up to the user. It's all user preference and I suppose 75 and 40 are kind of in between those ranges where they'll still flex. But you know it's not yeah.

Speaker 1:

I suppose that's why people are going for that, because it is that sweet spot between their body having to open and stretch out and the toy sort of giving just a little bit of cushion as well. So that's yeah. Yeah, that's really interesting. Now, what have you learned from your customers emotionally, though? Because the one thing that I've learned from sort of being around this community is that there is a lot of passion and a lot of emotion from size play enthusiasts. So what are you seeing from that?

Speaker 2:

um, well, our customers take their toy experiences, uh, extremely seriously. Um, for many, playing with our toys is their primary way of relieving stress. It's probably often better than traditional therapies. They have high expectations. They have diverse needs. They care very deeply about their play sessions, whether that involves realistic or fantasy experiences. That's why we focus so heavily on customer service and customizations. It's about trust and intimacy. It's about ensuring that our customers feel like each toy is unique, uniquely theirs. Our customer service is for them. We want somebody to pick the design they want. Then they want to pick the size they want, the firmness they want, and if they have any questions, they just get with our customer service team and we'll talk to them all day long. We'll talk to them. We have some customers we talk to for days before they place an order, before they're finally comfortable, but once they're comfortable, they stay with us.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, I can imagine that, because I got a call the other day and it was basically from somebody who ordered ordered one of your toys for the for the first time, and they were like, oh, there seems to be a very small defect. What do I do? Like you've been talking these, this brand, up so much, like what do I do? And I'm like get in touch with them, customer service, and they're like, oh, but I don't know, it's in the states, so we're here in australia and I'm like, listen, just get in touch with the customer service. I got a message back about 45 minutes later to say that yeah, they're going to send me out a brand new one and I was just like, wow, that's really cool.

Speaker 2:

That's our expectation. I mean, I tell our customer service team I know a lot of people don't like Amazon, but we take the Amazon approach. If your product doesn't work, return it. But we take the Amazon approach If, if your, if your product doesn't work, return it. And you know that's not stated on our site. But go to our customer service team and we're going to take care of you. That's just the way it is.

Speaker 2:

We don't want to lose a customer over something trivial because they have, you know, a little defect on the bottom of their toy or a little bubble. There's a lot of air bubbles with silicone and a lot of different things. So if anybody has a problem even if probably the most biggest problem is people say I bought the toy and it's too big and that's you know. So you know we'll work with those customers. You know we'll say, hey, you know how long have they been buying our toys? We look back do they have a history? Are they a first-time customer? Do they know, kind of, what our size range is? If it's a first-time customer, second time, you know, second order, we'll do it. We'll say, hey, you don't, you didn't. I know you didn't understand how large our toys can be. You know we're understanding. Just we'll send you a replacement. What do you need when customer service is A1, and I insist on that. That's just the way it is.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, it's brilliant because in today's market you don't really get that too often. I mean, you go out and buy a $100,000 car and you still struggle to get that.

Speaker 2:

I just dealt with that at the car dealer the other day as soon as we left we bought a day as soon as we left. We bought a car as soon as we left. We came back and they didn't know us anymore.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, oh it's wild. It's wild Now talk to me about this idea of big versus extreme, because there is this sort of technical term, technical sort of difference within the size play, you know. So people are sitting there saying, oh, it's big or it's extreme, and it's, they're very different things.

Speaker 2:

So talk to me a little bit about that um, in my opinion and then probably everybody has their own opinions but big generally refers to physical size, um, while extreme is more about mindset or the intensity of the experience. So, while big toys usually require special skills developed over time, extreme experiences don't necessarily involve large toys. It's more about pushing personal boundaries and intensity levels, no matter the size. So you know, the larger the session, the longer the session, the harder the session. You know, whatever it can be considered more extreme. But when you're going for big stuff, it's, I would say, generally, um, you're going for size in that, yeah, in that space and that's a um, that's a thing that's really starting to hone in for me now.

Speaker 1:

And start dial down and you talk to a lot of different people within this community and they're like, oh, you know, I'm into extreme size play, and then they'll pull out a toy and you'll be like, oh okay, well, that's sort of average, but to them it's extreme. And that's just what this community is all about. It's about trying to find your own levels and your own boundaries and your own places where you can push and pull and it's yeah, it's.

Speaker 2:

It's sort of a beautiful mix between psychological and physical it's hard for us to tell now because we, we, I walk in every day to our shop and I see stuff that's this big all day long.

Speaker 1:

so you know, now, when I see a toy that's that big, I'm, you know, I'm kind of out of out, I guess sometimes with size I mean another sort of off-script question, but of those toys, how many like let's put a rough percentage on it are those really massive monster size that you sort of see in crazy memes and whatnot? How many of those are you selling?

Speaker 2:

So I'd call that like our 3XL, 4xl toys. You know that's probably I don't keep track of the numbers here. We'd have to pull numbers, but off the top of my head I'm guessing that's. You know, 20%. You're pretty specialized if you're getting into our 4XL stuff and we size our stuff larger. So if we say something's large to the normal person it's large, very large. The 4XL is extremely large, 3xl too. So you know probably about 20%. You know a lot of our base customers are still in that Well, I don't know, kind of that range. If you're into 4XL stuff toys you've probably heard of us it's pretty hard to find. It's a hard time. You have a hard time finding stuff that's 4XL anywhere. So your limitations are there if you're looking for big, big toys.

Speaker 1:

Yeah, and that's what I was sort of saying before, is that the people within the community they do their research, they look for their stuff. They're really in tune with who's doing the best stuff and why it's the best stuff, and then I suppose with the customization options they've got that ability to really sort of dial in exactly what they're looking for. Another question I had do you think that culture is catching up to size play or do you think it's still a periphery thing?

Speaker 2:

Um, slowly uh. Mainstream brands uh still treat size play as taboo and online platforms increasingly censor content uh involving certain toy sizes or types. Ironically, I think that can make the content even more desirable Still. We see a huge potential for normalization. People interested in this kind of play can easily find content online now, and plenty of options exist. We're committed to expanding visibility through educators, reviews, social media and platforms like this podcast.

Speaker 1:

All right. What is coming next for Hanky's Toys, though? What's on the horizon?

Speaker 2:

We're excited about. I would say what we call our next generation LifeCast models with very high profile names, new fantasy designs with realistic textures. Complete overhaul of our website is coming this year. That'll improve the user experience dramatically. That is far overdue. As your company grows, making your website better is challenging, so we are going to do a complete overhaul of our website. We expect that to launch sometime around September or so this year and hopefully that will give the users. There's a lot lacking with our current website. I want improvements every day, but they don't come quick. So we're working on it and we're going to get there. But this year we're going to have some models with very large followings, so I think there's going to be some people out there that are very happy, lovely.

Speaker 1:

All right, let's wrap it up. Imagine there is a person who's coming into size play. What would be your bit of advice to them?

Speaker 2:

Number one is take your time, don't rush it, start smaller, always use plenty of lube and, most importantly, enjoy the journey. Always read, especially on our site. Always read our specifications carefully. Reach out to us if you have any questions. Our customer support is always happy to help. But that's like I said earlier. That's the number one thing is you know, oh, I bought something that's too big. The number one thing is you know, oh, I bought something that's too big.

Speaker 2:

If you're just coming in, take a toy, I'm assuming you know the person coming into our site already owns a toy. Hopefully, If they do, they should measure that toy carefully. You know a cloth tape measure. Measure the length, measure the max width and compare it to the specifications on our website and make sure that they're not making too big of a jump in either length or width, because that's very important, because a person could be very disappointed if they go and they're very excited about this toy but they're not paying close attention to the specifications and they try to jump up too quick and they get it in the mail and they can't use it. Because you got to train your body and then you got something sitting there you can't use that you're looking at and you really want to use, but you can't. So we have it on our site. Don't let your eyes get greedier than your whole. That's our motto. So you're looking at it, you want it, it's big, but don't go too big. You know you're going to be happier if you just played it safe.

Speaker 1:

That's incredible advice, absolutely incredible advice. Mike, you have been absolutely wonderful. Thank you so much. Now, where can people find your toys? Where can they you? Where they can, can they interact with you guys?

Speaker 2:

well, our website, mr hanky's toyscarcom, mr hanky's toyscom, um, x, uh, we probably have the most followers on x, that's at hanky's toys. From our x you can get to our linkedin or link tree, sorry, and link tree and you can branch out and you can find us all over. We have videos. I think it's MrHankies2.com has tons of videos. Now it depends how far down the rabbit hole you want to go. Some of our social media gets pretty extreme, pretty quick. So if you play it on the safe side, depending what you're looking for, our website is pretty much PG1313, that's mr hanky's toyscom, and from there you can find links in our footers that'll lead you pretty much as far down the rabbit hole as you want to go with the extreme, uh, with the extreme toys and you can definitely go down a rabbit hole.

Speaker 2:

I certainly have yeah, lovely, thank you so much. All right, thank you very much, I appreciate it.

Speaker 1:

So, whether you're a size queen, a fantasy chaser or just someone who's toy curious, what Mike and the team at Mr Hankies are doing is more than just big. It's bold, it's body aware and it's built on a foundation of care for anatomies, for safety and for the complex emotional connections that we have with our pleasure. You see, size play isn't just about going larger. It's about reclaiming agency, exploring fantasy and pushing boundaries in a way that's grounded, smart and safe and, frankly, that's really damn hot. Now, if this episode turned you on mentally or physically, do me a favor, subscribe, leave a review or slide over to my socials and tell me what toy you're dreaming about next. You can also find more episodes, articles and sexy brain food over at jordanwalkerrsccom, and if you want to check out their hankies toys, follow the links in the show notes. Until next time, stretch safely, move generously and remember your pleasure is worth the premium.

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