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Daily English Pod
Daily English Pod is a space for learning English beyond grammar and textbooks.
During the week, you’ll learn practical vocabulary, expressions, idioms, and real-life English, the language people actually use in everyday conversations, emotions, and work.
On weekends, we slow down. Through ideas from psychology, philosophy, and real human experience, we explore language as a way to better understand life, emotions, identity, and growth.
This podcast is created by Jale, an English teacher with 13 years of teaching experience and a Master’s degree in Applied Linguistics from Canada, who teaches with patience, clarity, and care, and believes learning works best when students feel seen, respected, and safe to think aloud.
The goal is simple but meaningful: to help you understand English deeply, use it confidently, and connect it to your real life. English here is not just a skill. It’s a gentle companion for clearer thinking, honest expression, and deeper human connection.
Daily English Pod
Temporal self gap
Speaking club on Sunday, at 12 p.m. New York time and on Google Meet. Free and open to all of you. We're going to meet and practice our speaking!
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Hello and welcome to a weekend episode of Daily English — where we try to grow, in English and in life. Let me start with something uncomfortable — and honest.
Many of us are kind to others… but careless with our future self.
There’s a psychological reason for this. It’s called the temporal self gap.
The temporal self gap means this: Your brain does not fully experience “future you” as you.
Tomorrow’s you. Next year’s you. Five-years-from-now you.
They exist logically — but emotionally, they feel distant. Almost like another person.
So we protect today’s comfort… and send the cost forward.
Think about it.
You stay up late scrolling. You avoid an important task. You eat without thinking. You spend money you didn’t plan to spend. And silently, the mind says: “Future me will handle it.”
But future you is not stronger. Not more energetic. Not magically more organized.
It’s still you — just carrying the weight of today’s decisions.
Psychology shows something powerful:
When the future feels far away, we make worse choices. Not because we are weak. But because the brain is designed to care more about what feels immediate.
Comfort now feels real. Consequences later feel abstract. So we trade long-term peace
for short-term relief. Again and again. But here’s the part that changes everything:
You can shrink this gap. When you start emotionally connecting with your future self, your behavior changes.
You don’t need more discipline. So here’s a simple but powerful practice:
Before a small decision, pause and ask: “Is this helping the person I’m becoming… or hurting them?”
Five more minutes of focus? That’s kindness. Going to sleep earlier? Kindness.
Choosing progress over avoidance? Also kindness.
You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to stop treating your future self
like a stranger.
Because when you care about who you’re becoming, you start respecting your time, your energy, and your life.
And Let me leave you with this: Your future self is already waiting. What you do today decides how they will feel tomorrow.
Thank you for being here today. Don’t forget our Free Speaking club tomorrow, at 12 p.m. New York time. You can simply click on the link in the description and join us.