The Vibration Fit Podcast

Episode 10: The Deep End Awaits

• Jordan & Vanessa Buckingham

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In this heartfelt and empowering episode, Jordan and Vanessa share their recent milestone of becoming Reiki Master Certified—and the surprising inner dialogue that followed. Should they share it publicly? Would people judge them? What followed was a powerful reflection on authenticity, acceptance, and the quiet hunger so many people have for deeper, more spiritual conversations.

They explore what it means to live above the green line while navigating fears of rejection and the pressure to "stay shallow" in a world that often labels spirituality as too "woo-woo." From closet spirituality to unexpected support, business breakthroughs through energy healing, and the evolution of their personal consciousness, this episode is a call to stop dimming your light and be fully you.

Topics include:

  • Why we hide our spiritual sides (and what happens when we stop)
  • How to engage deeper, more meaningful conversations
  • What spiritual expansion actually looks and feels like over time
  • The power of community, connection, and “vibe tribe” friendships
  • How to gauge if spiritual ideas are above or below the green line

💜 If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s safe to show your spiritual self to the world… this one’s for you.

Jordan:

Welcome to the Vibration Fit podcast with Jordan and Vanessa Buckingham. I am Jordan and I'm Vanessa, and today we've got a really cool conversation to have about an experience we had this weekend. So why don't you talk a little bit about what's been going on?

Vanessa:

Yeah, so Jordan and I. Fun fact, we just became Reiki master certified. Woo yes, we are super excited about it.

Jordan:

I feel the lightning in the fingers. We got super excited about it.

Vanessa:

I feel the lightning in the fingers, we got the magic going on.

Jordan:

We are so ready.

Vanessa:

We've got all the love and light to send to everybody. You get love and light. You get love and light. We're like the Oprah of love and light.

Jordan:

Let's go.

Vanessa:

So, beyond that we're, we were super excited about getting this certification this past weekend thanks to lynn wells yes, thanks to our really incredible mentor and friend, lynn, wells she's awesome is she's been a reiki master for many years now yeah, and she took us through level one, two and three.

Vanessa:

Yeah. So this was a journey we started back in 2023, and we got our level one certification and then in 2024, we got our level two and we got our master certification this year, just last weekend. So one of the things that it made us think of after we got our certification. So Jordan and I took a picture of us with our certifications and we were just talking and I asked him do you think that I should post this picture of us with our master certifications on social, on our social platforms? And he was like, yeah, sure, why not? Yeah, totally.

Jordan:

Yeah, he was like yeah, sure.

Vanessa:

Why not? Yeah, totally yeah. But it just made us think, like the question, or the fact that it was even a question, whether or not we should post this thing that we are very excited about.

Jordan:

Totally.

Vanessa:

With us getting our master certification in Reiki, because the question came down to will people accept us for this new thing that we did? Right well, and I think it really comes down to what will these certain people in our lives think about this new certification like? What will they think of how that defines me kind of thing? Will I be accepted still?

Jordan:

yeah, totally like. Are you risking being labeled a certain way by your peers and people that are important to you? Yeah, because you engaged in some sort of spiritual healing.

Vanessa:

Right? Well, they think I'm too woo woo and not accept me. We in society, we're always looking to fit in, and that includes like dimming our light. I feel like a lot of times.

Jordan:

Yeah, I think a lot of times we're sort of conditioned to do that. Definitely, our nervous system is conditioned to give us chemicals in the body whenever we do things together and do teamwork. So that's kind of what serotonin is. Serotonin is like the hey, you guys operated as a team, good job chemical. You know what I mean. So like there are definitely things going on in the body even that are basically saying good, bad. Is that going to have us be allowed in the group where we have protection and safety and collaboration, or is this going to get us kicked out of the group? Yeah, you know what I mean. Like we still have some of that stuff going on like in our nervous system.

Vanessa:

Definitely so. So we asked ourselves that question should we post this new thing, this new accomplishment? That, to us, was super exciting, and Jordan told me yeah, why not? Let's, let's do it.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

Put it out there. So I did. I made a post on Facebook and Instagram about this new certification that we got, that we were now Reiki master certified, and we were just amazed by the response that we got from people, the support that we got from people that we thought would never be interested in this sort of thing.

Jordan:

Yeah, so not only did people not react negatively, but a lot more people reacted positively than we anticipated.

Vanessa:

Right and surprised us. Yeah, definitely Like people that we thought would kind of reject us for this way of thinking or for going down the spiritual or enlightened path. They were really excited for us and they were even saying, like well, you can practice on me, kind of thing.

Vanessa:

And it just really surprised us. So it made us think how many times in our life are we having conversations with people and we're not entering the deep end with them, even though they're willing and even excited to go to the deep end with somebody, to connect with them? But yet we're stuck talking about these very shallow topics in the shallow end, about the weather, about negative subjects. A lot of times I even find myself just talking about these negative things with people because I feel like that's where they're at.

Jordan:

Right.

Vanessa:

But really they're capable of going to the deep end and they're interested and they want to, they have the desire to. They just don't know that you would go there with them.

Jordan:

Totally, and I feel like a lot of times people are doing this in private.

Vanessa:

Yeah.

Jordan:

So they're like closet spiritual.

Vanessa:

Yeah.

Jordan:

It's like I'll be, practicing my Reiki and my healing modalities at home, but I'm not going to talk to my like drinking buddies about it. You know, like like card playing, like get around the table with my friends in the community. People Like I'll be doing that on my own time so that I don't open some can of worms with them and make them think I'm weird.

Vanessa:

Right, yeah we're. We're afraid of being rejected. But, how many conversations are we missing out on just because we think that they're not like that or they won't accept us for being that way?

Jordan:

Yeah, and I think that's one of the things that I'm really starting to become aware of as we do more and more public vibrational awareness talk. Right, Is there really a lot more of us out there than even I was giving credit to?

Jordan:

you know, and I can definitely say that one of the things that I've done just to open myself to people like that, you know, is I have started using these terminologies in my normal everyday conversation with just about anybody. I run into the server at the restaurant, whoever checks me out at the grocery store, you know somebody you might run into at the parking lot, whatever.

Vanessa:

Right.

Jordan:

Just saying things that, like, are spiritual and open and cool. So maybe using the word vibration, yeah, talking about vibration, talking like being like namaste, you know, like just weird little things like that, and you'll see how people sort of light up like ooh, he said one of my secret words, yeah totally and say, like out of every 10 people you have an interaction with say you are your authentic, full self and you talk about these principles that we talk about on this podcast and you let the full.

Vanessa:

You come out, say eight out of those 10 people aren't ready to go there and so they don't really contribute to the conversation. But they also don't say you're an idiot or you're crazy or anything like that. They just listen. But say two out of those 10 people do go there with you and you all of a sudden establish this really deep connection with them.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

Isn't it worth it?

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

To have those two really deep, meaningful conversations and connections that then lead to other connections. Because, we've done that ourselves. We've experienced that where we're ourselves and we're our full like woo woo selves. And then we get connected with other awesome woo woo people who connect us to other people. And then we get connected with other awesome woo-woo people who connect us to other people.

Jordan:

Totally.

Vanessa:

And then, like, all of these, things culminate from it, and it's just super fun.

Jordan:

Yeah, totally. I feel like just about anyone that you ask hey, do you have any like woo-woo friends, you know? Or like, do you have any weird woo-woo friends? Everyone has someone that they have some affinity for. Like, oh, I like that person.

Vanessa:

Yeah, they're a little crazy, they're a little crazy.

Jordan:

They've got a bag of lotions and potions that they walk around with and they sprinkle holy water on us. You know what I mean. Like whatever.

Vanessa:

They have these magical necklaces, or they have the pendulums, or they have yeah, whatever it is, yeah, they're always wearing a dress that looks like something you would see out of the hubble space telescope.

Jordan:

Yeah, you know, like some sort of a galactic like something going on with all cool stuff and it works for them, yeah so I feel like a lot of people have somebody like that in their life and they have a positive affinity toward them.

Vanessa:

Right.

Jordan:

I think it's kind of cool that people like that sort of give those people permission potentially to express more of that side of themselves with them, right.

Vanessa:

You know what I mean.

Jordan:

Which is kind of cool. It's like whenever you're around that person, then you can talk about that woo-woo stuff. Right but other people, you would say, oh, I'm not going to go to the woo-woo whenever I'm around that person, but around this person I definitely will.

Vanessa:

Yeah, around these people, I know that I'm safe. But around mass consciousness, around all of the people that I see on a daily basis as I'm going through life, I'm just going to stay muted so that I don't have the opportunity of being rejected.

Jordan:

Yeah, it's like being rejected?

Vanessa:

from who? People you're never going to see again, most likely.

Jordan:

Yeah, people that you're always going to stay in the shallow with.

Vanessa:

Yeah.

Jordan:

It's like you're not missing out on much.

Vanessa:

No.

Jordan:

It'd be like whenever you're three years old and you can only go to a certain level in the pool, like maybe you're on the steps, you know, like you don't want to stay on the steps your whole life.

Vanessa:

Yeah, that's not fun.

Jordan:

That's not fun.

Vanessa:

You don't want to keep your floaty on forever, Right?

Jordan:

You want to yeah, you want to be able to go and have deep, meaningful relationships with human beings and have this full, cool life experience, so I feel like that is one of the big things that I've gotten out of this is wow there are more of us than I thought.

Vanessa:

Yeah, yeah, definitely, and I want this to be a beacon of light beckoning people to be more authentically themselves, including ourselves. This is us capturing our own clarity around what we've been experiencing, and for us, in this moment, it's be fully you, because at one point, even vibration fit was questionable to us.

Jordan:

Oh, absolutely Like we're going to build a business around spirituality. Yeah, like, who are we to do that?

Vanessa:

Like is everybody we know going to reject us?

Jordan:

That was a big fear for a long time. Yeah, and a lot of times with spiritual teachers. You also see that they'll have had some sort of an enlightening experience or something special about them. Or there's some sort of a channel, or there's some sort of a something, something special about them. Or there's some sort of a channel, or there's some sort of a something. I have some super special secret ability that other people don't have. That now qualifies me to discuss these topics with you, and I'm certainly not that person.

Vanessa:

Yeah, we are yeah, we're a couple, we're an American couple yeah three children who own a small business.

Jordan:

Yeah, like we actually say that pretty frequently is like I'm just a dude. I'm just a guy with a wonderful wife and a wonderful family living the American dream. But I truly do believe that vibrational fitness is the fastest path to actualization of a fun and emotionally satisfying life. I truly have it bedrocked in me with principles that say this is the fastest path to achieving what you want, experiencing what you want and living above the green line, enjoying your life and keeping the right things at the forefront. So I think that's another thing that I would also say on the same subject is just because you engage in some level of spirituality doesn't mean that you have to engage in every piece of spirituality that's out there.

Vanessa:

Right.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

There's many different levels of spirituality and to me, I I always just gauge it by how it makes me feel Totally so you can feel if a piece of information or a way of doing something is above or below the green line to you. So if something doesn't feel right to me and it feels like somebody is coming from below the green line with a spiritual lens, so, for example, like the whole idea of the earth being broken and us needing to save it that's a dialogue that I've heard from a lot of spiritual people.

Jordan:

Right.

Vanessa:

And they try to spin it in a way where they're helping earth, where they're helping people through their spirituality and their connection to source where they're helping people through their spirituality and their connection to source, but they still are seeing the world as broken, and that just doesn't resonate with me. To me, that's a thought and an idea that is below the green line.

Jordan:

I totally agree. All these sad, unconscious people need to be brought to the light so that everyone can kumbaya, hold hands and experience life in this joy-filled, happy dance and then, once that happens, we'll have a really healthy Earth. And anybody that threatens that should just burn. It's like whoa.

Vanessa:

You took that to a whole other level. It's like I smell the contradiction here and it doesn't smell good.

Jordan:

It's not good here it gets a little weird. So, like she said, if someone goes to throw something out and, like you said, it's through the lens of spirituality but it has a lean that doesn't feel good to you, you don't have to engage it just because it was brought forth in the lens of spirituality. To engage it just because it was brought forth in the lens of spirituality. And I think that actually happens a lot where you might express an openness to like one form or modality of spirituality, like Reiki energy, for example.

Jordan:

Reiki healing you know, light healing things like that, and somebody might be like, huh, I'm kind of open to that. And then you'll see somebody come out of the woodwork and be like, well, how about this shamanistic thing? I've got this doll in my purse. And all of a sudden there's like some voodoo, shamanistic, like wild stuff. I'm not connecting those two things, I'm just saying like this person all of a sudden pulls all this like wild stuff out of their bag.

Jordan:

It's like I went down to this south american country where I spent three months in the forest. You know what I mean and what happened. And then you've got like this soccer mom that's like hanging out with their kids, just like trying to have a good day that you know has a friend that's into reiki. But now all of a sudden it's like whoa, you know, you kind of opened a can of worms there that I'm not necessarily into. So the big point is you don't have to close the whole can Right.

Vanessa:

You can still be open to Reiki and healing energy, and you know chakras and light healing practices or whatever it is for you and auras and, like you know cool stuff.

Jordan:

You can be open to that and, you know, not really into some of the other stuff that you might run into. So it really is your own personal practice. I think that's the fun thing of spirituality in general and that's one of my things when it comes to vibration fit and vibrational fitness is just really bringing forward the practical aspects of spirituality. Right, and you know, if you're the physical extension of non-physical energy equipped with an emotional guidance system that can help you figure out what type of life experience is going to be emotionally satisfying for you and awesome, you know that's a cool thing. That's going to help you get closer to a life. That's fun.

Jordan:

Yeah, you know and manifesting and actualizing things that feel good.

Vanessa:

Totally, and I feel like the exact right thing presents itself at the exact right time. So, for example, 10 years ago I was a completely different Vanessa. Like I was not as spiritually evolved as I am now. I wasn't spiritually evolved at all. I was an unconscious creator going through life, saying things like oh, these things always happen to me, but they were about negative things. Right, saying things like oh, these things always happen to me, but they were about negative things Like.

Jordan:

now we say all the time like, oh, like everything always works out for us perfectly.

Vanessa:

So, like my entire understanding of the world, of universal principles, my awareness of how things work, everything has shifted. And so the exact right thing has presented itself at the exact right timing for us, and 10 years ago I would not have been open to Reiki, to learning anything like that. So even the things that present themselves that feel like the next right thing, you'll know it when they come and you don't have to take on things that don't feel good to you.

Vanessa:

So, just going back to, does this feel like it's above the green line or below the green line for me? And just staying true to your own alignment, and what feels good for you now might be different than what feels good to you next year or two years from now, or 10 years from now, like we're always expanding.

Jordan:

Yeah, I really like that lens too, and I was there 10 years ago when we met. Yeah, and I actually think about that in terms of this conversation. What if I had not opened that side of myself to you early on?

Vanessa:

Right.

Jordan:

What if I hadn't basically said hey, I'm a spiritual person, and these are the types of things I listened to my two in my car, when I'm on road trips to Austin, texas or New York or wherever, when we first started dating.

Vanessa:

I remember you listening to Abraham Hicks and I was kind of turned off to the fact that Abraham was, or that Esther was, a channel of Abraham.

Jordan:

Yeah, it was just unfamiliar to you. Yeah, it was very unfamiliar to me.

Vanessa:

I had never even heard about that kind of thing before and it was kind of scary to me.

Jordan:

Yeah, is Abraham a ghost? Yeah, Like what's going on here.

Vanessa:

Jordan's listening to these Abraham meditations to fall asleep and I'm over there with my eyes wide open like terrified yeah, Is Abraham. What exactly is a channel Like? Is Abraham here right now?

Jordan:

What's this ghost going to do to me when I fall asleep?

Vanessa:

Yeah it's this very unfamiliar thing at first, whereas now we listen to Abraham meditations all the time. Our kids ask for the Abraham meditations. They love taking naps to them, falling asleep to them. Yeah, our three-year-old daughter will literally request the Abraham meditation. They love taking naps to them, falling asleep to them.

Jordan:

Yeah, our three-year-old daughter will literally request an Abraham meditation.

Vanessa:

Yeah, like she's. They're completely familiar with it and they love it. And I listened to Abraham every morning. While I'm getting ready, almost every morning, I turn on an Abraham meditation. I just go to YouTube and click the first video that comes up, believing that that's the right thing I need to hear that day.

Jordan:

Yeah, totally.

Vanessa:

So it's just seeing the progress that we've made spiritually and knowing that there's always more, and to me that's exciting. Like right now we're into Reiki. Who knows what like in 10 years from now? What are Jordan and Vanessa talking about?

Jordan:

Yeah, totally yeah. It's 100% an interesting conversation because, like this weekend, whenever we got Reiki certified, we also had a Reiki gathering.

Vanessa:

Yeah, Reiki share yeah.

Jordan:

So different people get together that are open to Reiki healing and we all like basically practice running energy through people.

Vanessa:

Yeah, exactly.

Jordan:

So you're all just kind of doing Reiki. Well, what ends up happening is different people that have also been exposed to other modalities come to these things and we have some really great friends now Walter and Nels I love them. And Walter will come in wearing like bear claws around his neck and like these really cool like pendants, and then he has a bag of like these items that he's used throughout the years within his spiritual practice and healings Right, and he's had experience with these that were positive. He also has this set of crystal bowls that will like explode your mind.

Jordan:

So he's like a sound bath kind of guy, but not just a sound bath guy like he'll have bowls that are, like he has one that was cured with platinum. So when you see it, it's just like this shiny, beautiful, craziest song bowl you've ever seen.

Vanessa:

It makes you feel the. It makes you feel all of these emotions as you hear the music from the sound bowl oh, he plays totally, so like all of a sudden I'm like why am I crying?

Jordan:

yeah, but like, think about yourself 10 years ago, right, if I was just like, hey, we just started dating, this is cool, let's go over to this reiki share thing. That sounds kind of neat. And then you roll in and you meet someone like walter you know, yeah, it's like nope, it's like nope, nope nope, this feels very weird.

Jordan:

I'm gonna stand over here, where the bear claw guy can be over there and where I'm safe, yeah, and then like so someone will be on the table and you're running reiki energy through them and then he might be inspired to go grab his bowl and he'll grab this giant bowl out and he'll come over on top of them and be like, and then you literally like feel the pulsing energy of this thing, just like exploding sound waves through the room and it's like whoa, that's really cool. But you know it's a little bit different than traditional Reiki practice. But it's what he has done through sound healing and sound baths and other things, other modalities that he's learned.

Vanessa:

Right.

Jordan:

So now someone like Walter to me is kind of fun to watch Like. I told you the other day, like I don't close my eyes whenever I'm running energy around, walter, because I never know what he's going to do. I never know what he's going to pull out of what he's gonna pull out of his bag, like his Mary Poppins bag yeah, he literally has like a Mary Poppins bag of like spirituality, which is like so cool.

Vanessa:

But so fun to watch.

Jordan:

Yes, and such a joy being around people like that totally which is what we've been talking about and that's sort of the point is that you know as you progress there are going to be things that you're more open to cool with, like they have experience with. It's not a modality that you've personally practiced, necessarily, but and not something that you might fully understand, but knowing that the intention inside of these people is good and knowing that their only intention is just to help this person feel better.

Jordan:

And if they've got a Mary Poppins bag full of cool stuff that's going to help them do that and that person is cool with them using some of it. Then they'll pull it out and I've actually seen Walter do that a good amount where he'll pull out the sound bowl and then he'll talk to the person who's on the table and he'll say, do you mind if I place this on your legs or on your hip or on your heart, chakra? And the person will be like, oh no, that's great. And he'll be like, okay, cool. And then you just feel this, but he kind of gets permission in advance to do the practice. You know what I mean.

Jordan:

Just to make sure that the person feels comfortable with it.

Vanessa:

And we participate in these monthly Reiki shares and it's incredible hearing the feedback from the people that allow us to run the energy through them like the breakthroughs that they have vibrationally totally in the meantime, so like from the month prior where they had the energy. Now we're meeting again, like the next month, and they'll say, like the healings that they had, whether they're emotional or physical totally it.

Jordan:

It's incredible Breakthroughs. So like one thing that a lot of times you think of, whenever you think about like spiritual modalities and healings and stuff. A lot of times it's like physical body stuff, physical ailments, like discomforts in the body. But what about like business breakthroughs, emotional breakthroughs, where you have energetic blocks going on in your body and then people come lovingly, run light through you. It clears the block, opens the chakra back up and then all of a sudden you have this clarity, come in about your business. Like I know, I was just talking to Cindy, who is at one of our Reiki shares, and she was actually one of the people who ran energy on me at the last Reiki share and I was just remembering something that we talked about and I was like, oh my gosh, this past month, like we've hired new people into the business, we built these crazy machines, we've done all these different things. And I think a lot of that was actually spurred from a conversation that we had or something that you shared with me whenever I was on the table.

Vanessa:

A vibrational unlock.

Jordan:

Yeah, a vibrational unlock for me, and she was like yeah, I don't remember what I said.

Vanessa:

I was like yeah, I was just flowing, yeah.

Jordan:

I'm like totally, and I wouldn't expect you to, but you said this and for that one in particular, she said there is no lack of time and what was interesting about it is it's not just the words that she said. It's kind of like when you're in these cool energy situations you get like a download, like a vibrational download that goes way beyond the words themselves. So to me, how I took that was essentially I could scale my business more effortlessly in the direction of additional employees and stuff than maybe I was realizing, and there is no lack of time.

Jordan:

You're feeling this limitation on time, but there is no lack of time. There are strategies and systems and things you can put in place to be able to advance in that arena. So long and short is I had like business breakthroughs, business clarity form from what would have been a simple Reiki clearing.

Vanessa:

That's been one of the incredible things that the Reiki share has given us. Every month is just an incredible outlet to get together with these people who we know are like-minded, who we know, accept us for who we are, and it's been really awesome just seeing what happens, like the exchange of words, the exchange of energy, the unlocks, the breakthroughs and this is what we're trying to convey is possible in everyday life.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

It doesn't just have to be around this group of people that you feel like you can be yourself, like you can be yourself with everybody.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

And then you have the opportunity for these types of things in every conversation.

Jordan:

Totally, and you might find yourself just inspired, called to you know, speak openly about the way that you view the world to a perfect stranger and that person goes man, that was like really validating for me, Thank you.

Vanessa:

Right, yeah, you never know you never really know the butterfly effect of what you say or do, or the results of you staying in alignment and being authentically yourself. You never know the butterfly effect that that's going to have on other people.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

Maybe that gives them the unlock that they were looking for, or the business breakthrough, or the vibrational unlock to experience themselves more fully as who they truly are.

Jordan:

Yeah, totally. And I feel like if your intention is good, as you go about your day and you're just doing this and you just really are like namaste, sending light and love to all and just recognizing the light in other people and seeing it within you and within them, and you're just kind of like in this state of like love for humanity and all the world.

Jordan:

Then you just kind of float through life like a butterfly. It's like this feels really good, this is fun. So I feel like engaging that spiritual side more often, more publicly, is what I've made a commitment to do.

Vanessa:

Because, like you, said you never know who you're going to run into and who you're going to touch in a positive way as a result of living your life that way touch in a positive way as a result of living your life that way and, to me, one of the biggest blessings that I've seen as a result of really going further in my spirituality and going deeper in my desire to learn more about how things work and my desire to be the conscious creator of my own reality Like the real gift in all of this I've discovered is the way that I experience life, because I feel like the more expanded I become and the more I line up with that expansion, the deeper I can experience my moments.

Jordan:

Totally. And I've seen that Like we've been together for 10 years and I've just seen you sort of like blossom like this beautiful lotus flower, seen that Like we've been together for 10 years and I've just seen you sort of like blossom like this beautiful Lotus flower that just the the moment you think it's fully open, it comes out with a thousand more petals you know it's just like keeps going, it's like wow.

Jordan:

And then you get to watch it and I literally stare at you pretty frequently, just like watching you do life, watching you interact with the kids, watching you be present in a conversation with people, and just seeing your ability to hold your space and hold your own. And I feel like as you evolved spiritually, it's made you even more powerful and confident and knowing of your true inner nature and really just feeling great in your own shoes, so to speak, confident in your own power and knowing as a physical entity in a physical universe.

Vanessa:

Right and it's been really fun getting to experience that together, because I feel like your expansion fuels my expansion. My expansion fuels your expansion. Our expansion fuels our children's expansion.

Jordan:

Totally.

Vanessa:

And our whole family's expansion. So just really going down to the depth of what we're feeling and expanding even more and going to the next thing that feels like the next right thing to learn or the next thing to understand.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

Like that. Just that fuels all of the expansion and it feels so right and it feels so fun and so awesome.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

Like, for example, when I had Oliver. I feel like I had a certain level of consciousness and that was a really incredible experience. I became a mom and like there's no words to describe the feeling that you have as a parent. It just feels so incredible and you love this little tiny human being so much.

Jordan:

Yeah, more than everything, more than everything.

Vanessa:

Yeah, like our kids are everything. We love them so much. And then we had Adeline and I had a similar experience where you just have this unconditional love for this beautiful baby, love for this beautiful baby. And I was at a certain point in my expansion then, in my consciousness, in my understanding of how everything worked, and I can honestly say that I had the like in my entire life. I had the most positive emotional state after I had Eloise, which is our last baby date. After I had Eloise which is our last baby.

Vanessa:

She's almost 10 months old now.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

And I, before I had her, I I did a lot of prepaving and I kept thinking like I want to experience euphoria and I kept on that thought like I want it to be a euphoric experience. Right, and I can honestly say like for the six months after she was born it was pure euphoria, like I was just so happy totally and now reflecting on that, like what make, what made you so happy right in that experience.

Vanessa:

I really think that it's the point that we are in our consciousness yeah, I feel like the word capacity comes to mind. Right, that's a great way to explain it.

Jordan:

Yeah, like you're increasing your capacity to experience this depth of emotion, this breadth of emotion, and just give yourself these deeper, more powerful emotional states that are even more in harmony with your infinite perspective, and just feel better and better and better. Like you say all the time, the better it gets, the better you feel. The better you feel, the better it gets.

Jordan:

And it's like you're just opening this capacity to feel and to know and to believe in your own worthiness and to experience that euphoria that you were after and that is so cool, like what a great idea of, rather than engaging, the fear side of the pain of birth. Really, you did step into that and be like I want this to be euphoric. I want to experience euphoria. I want this to be one of the coolest experiences of my entire life and 100%. I got to witness it and it definitely was.

Vanessa:

Yeah, no, it's just like such an incredible feeling and knowing that you were the conscious creator of that behind it, and to me it's really empowering thinking that we have that ability to inject the emotion in different things in our life, that we that there's always another level, that wherever you're at, no matter how good it feels, there's always a deeper level to that, and to me that's what spirituality and connection with our source is. And knowing that we've never arrived which is really awesome to think it's we never are living the same story twice, Like no matter where we go in life, there's always a deeper feeling of satisfaction of satiation to experience.

Jordan:

Totally.

Vanessa:

And the more that you're tapped in to all of this, above the green line feeling stuff, the more you'll be able to experience yourself as who you truly are.

Jordan:

Absolutely. I can't wait to get out there and do some more of this right now. You're like inspiring me, like let's go. I want to experience euphoria, let's do this.

Vanessa:

So I'd say the whole idea behind this episode is to be more fully, authentically yourself, so that you can experience these really satiating, incredible emotions and experience the expansion that's available to you, whether people are going to be on board with that or not and sometimes they're not, and good on you for being able to recognize that they're not your vibe tribe, and that's perfectly okay, because there's a lot of people waiting to be in your vibe tribe.

Jordan:

Totally, and you'll never know where your vibe tribe is if you never make it known that that's really the stuff that you're into and how you're vibing with the world and the universe. Like, essentially, like you were talking about in the beginning, if we always stay shallow, we never get to go deep. So I think, just experimenting with allowing the depth of yourself to be out there a little bit more and just see the connections that you make, see the people that you inspire, see the people that come out of the woodwork that are also operating at the same level, vibrationally woodwork, that are also operating at the same level, vibrationally, and I believe it'll really open your eyes to wow.

Jordan:

There really is a lot more of this going around me than I even realized.

Vanessa:

And all of those experiences help you fine tune your own beliefs, which is really powerful, because in the beginning I know, if I look back to myself, when I first started engaging in these spiritual concepts, I whenever I tried to apply it to different things that were happening in my life. At first, you're just trying to make sense of everything, how things work like, what do I believe in all of these things. So when you first start outwardly showing to people what you believe and that you're becoming more open to these spiritual ideas, you're also trying to make sense to yourself what you believe. So it's really awesome to have these experiences with people. When you start showing them, I am more open, like I'm interested in my expansion and even fully understanding or reminding myself who I am.

Jordan:

Absolutely.

Vanessa:

All of those experiences with people help you fine tune that.

Jordan:

Yeah, and I think what will happen too is sometimes you'll state something like you know what I believe? I'm the conscious creator of my reality and I can condition my vibration to be in harmony with the infinite part of my consciousness and live a more robustly energetic, awesome, high vibe, positive emotional experience of life. You know it sounds kind of crazy, but then somebody else might be like you know what? I think that too, in fact I've thought that for a long time, and here's all the experience that I have now to back that up.

Vanessa:

Yeah.

Jordan:

And I think that's what starts to happen with these exchanges is you start to see validation through stories of other people and they go? Yeah, I believe that too, and this is what happened whenever I started practicing that.

Jordan:

And it can be on topics of abundance, it can be on topics of healing, it can be on topics of relationships, it can be on topics of business and career and work and all these different things where you'll start to see validation of these ideas that you have and it'll reinforce that and allow you to take it just a little bit further.

Vanessa:

It's like wow, I thought.

Jordan:

I was kind of crazy. These ideas were just kind of forming in my own mind, but now I've got validation of that from this person and you know what I really appreciate. That. That's really cool, and you move on, and that's a big part of like collaboration right.

Vanessa:

Yes, yeah, that's what I all of this has made me think of. The connection portion of VibrationFit.

Jordan:

Totally.

Vanessa:

Our biggest intention, I would say from the beginning, with our idea around VibrationFit, was the connection aspect, because we felt like we were alone on this tiny little island where we couldn't really connect deeply with anybody, and like our desire with Vibration Fit was to find like-minded people that we could all come together in this vibe tribe and reinforce these proofs. Like all of this manifestation of people being the conscious creator of their reality.

Jordan:

Absolutely and fine tune the process of conscious creation Right.

Vanessa:

Make it faster, make it funner, make it easier, totally.

Jordan:

Like, if you have some weird little trick that you use that helps you get into vibrational proximity to the thing that you want, and that's similar to something I'm trying to do too. Like what is that weird little trick? What's the process? What did you pick up from an Abraham Hicks YouTube video that you then applied that?

Jordan:

then you saw actual physical results in your life come out of it, and I think that collaboration is really what you and I are, like, most excited about when it comes to vibration, fit is just really being around like-minded people that are in the space and basically creating the space where we can come together and kumbaya, enjoy the process of conscious creation.

Vanessa:

Totally so. As a result of this podcast, this makes me really want to go to the Vibration Fit Facebook page and introduce ourselves, who we are and our intention around the Facebook page and invite others to do the same, so that you can connect yeah.

Jordan:

So, as we're going here, it's funny because we started the podcast but we really didn't have any active social media in advance of like starting a podcast and our idea was, hey, let's at least have something where we can capture our own clarity on these ideas, that form. And then maybe this will give us some material to put into the social media outlets. So at this moment, right now, we have spun up the social media platforms but we haven't robustly built a following or anything there.

Vanessa:

You know.

Jordan:

so if you do like this stuff, we really do appreciate people engaging with it, and every view, every download, every like, every subscribe is really meaningful to us.

Vanessa:

Oh yeah, I take screenshots all the time, yeah.

Jordan:

Like I remember, I remember, like, like, like she'll, like it's like worth a telephone call if we go from like 12 subscribers to 17 subscribers. Five more people click that button. Yeah, but that really truly is meaningful to us because it really does show that there are some people out there that are interested in the content, engaging in the content, and I really do want to speak as if I'm speaking to an individual all the time, as if I'm directly across the table with that person.

Jordan:

So hopefully, if you listen to this podcast or you watch any of our YouTube videos or you engage with any of our stuff on social media, or if you go to vibrationfitcom and you read it or use any of the processes or the frameworks or watch the videos or use the systems over there, that you really do feel like we made it for you.

Jordan:

Because we did, yeah we did Like we really did, and that really does spur from the idea that we made it for you because we did yeah, we did Like, we really did Like, and that really does spur from the idea that we made it for ourselves. So everything that you're seeing in terms of frameworks, processes, ability to collaborate, videos, all this stuff that we do, vanessa and I are building that because we want it to exist in the world. We want it to be a resource for us to be able to use to raise our own vibration.

Vanessa:

We have a sign at home that says create what you wish existed, and for us, Vibration Fit is everything we wish existed.

Jordan:

Totally Exactly so. We're making it for us, we're making it for you, but it really is on an individual level. We really love everyone who's engaging with this and really excited about going forward yeah, we're super excited to just keep experiencing the evolution of it all.

Vanessa:

but every view, every reach out saying wow, I just listened to this episode and I love this part, or even the feedback like I, it made me think of this episode and I love this part, or even the feedback Like I, it made me think of this and telling us what you guys think, your honest feedback, like all of it, means so much to us.

Jordan:

Yeah, and is definitely fueling future content.

Vanessa:

Oh yeah, Everything is fueling the next thing that comes out of us. So it's it's incredible to just watch how it's all unfolding. So the message here is be authentically yourself. If you enjoy what we're putting out, then go to vibrationfitcom or our Vibration Fit social platforms and follow us, share your information, share who you are. We truly love you.

Jordan:

Yeah.

Vanessa:

And we're just so happy that you're here and we're so happy to be sharing this experience with you. So with that, we would love to send love and light to you all.