The power of Suggestion (Words are Curses)

There is power in the curses (words) you speak over your life. Suggest what serves you, rather than not. 

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Hello everyone. Welcome back to another episode of If Not Now When by yours truly Ari Champagne. Hi, welcome and welcome back if you're returning. If you're new here, hi, I'm your host and producer, Ari Champagne. Thank you so much for joining in, joining in with me today. Um, I you guys, I I realized the last episode literally only the first half was odd, there was audio. The second half had no audio. You guys obviously wouldn't have known that because you didn't sit here and record it with me. But when I listened on the playback and I realized like the second half of what I was saying, it was not caught. Oh my god, that I was like so infuriated. So, um, but hey, again, this is not no cookie cutter process, it's not a cookie cutter podcast. You guys know I give you real life, my real world examples, my real world uh perspective. I live in the world, I am in the world. So again, this is not some perfect cookie cutter podcast. If you're gonna get the perfect thing over here, you guys already know I want to and have delivered my raw, authentic content, period. Okay. Um, but I do apologize for that. But I mean, luckily it was a shorter episode for you guys, so you guys didn't have to sit through a whole what 20, 25, 30 minute podcast. I think it was only 15 minutes uh that caught that it caught the audio, so whatever. Um, the previous episode was, you know, how competition creates growth yet destroys your individuality. Um, I spoke about how obviously compare yourself within range, within reach, right? Um, but also too, you know, it's okay to be a little bit delusional, right? Like again, I'm sitting here, my podcast is still fairly brand new, up and coming. Could I potentially compare myself to Joe Rogan? Uh, not yet, right? Because I don't have guest speakers, I don't have, you know, the ads, I don't have that fame yet, right? So again, but again, I could see him as competition and want to eventually, you know, appear in that bracket on that level, right? Or Mel Robbins, I I've mentioned her several times in my previous episodes, right? So again, um, you know, just realizing what competitive sphere you're in and making sure obviously it makes sense. Um, I know for a fact I had circled in how, you know, with women, um women with children and women without trend, and how there's this whole comparative nature, how there's this whole what one person thinks are better, one person thinks they're not. I was just trying to uh the like I said, the last episode where the audio didn't catch, is you know, I think a lot of women with children, for some reason, they think they are better or not as better because of what this new society has told women, right? If you got a bunch of kids, you're not valuable. If you did this, you're not valuable. And it's just like, again, why not create that own value within yourself? I say this all the time. If you are a woman with children, you should feel like you are that girl 1000% all the time. You produce and you populate, you help populate the human planet. Do you understand how significant that is? So, again, I know in the past there's this, you know, prominent YouTuber who would say, Oh, if you have kids, you're not valuable. If you got kids, that's a mark off and all these things. It's like, why would you ever listen to that? Again, another human came out of your body. You helped populate the earth, and yet you still don't feel adequate. This is why, like I was mentioning before, my coaching can my new coaching containment that I'm going to be launching here pretty soon. Is I want women to understand how exactly innate, powerful they are. Go look at the most strongest, biggest, you know, man you know, right? Go go walk down the street and go see a man. A woman produced that. Right? Or even look at your children and look at how your sons, right? You produced that, you helped populate the earth. And what world would you ever think you are not significant? In what world would your self-esteem ever be low in any kind of sense? And I'm not talking about relationships right now, I'm not talking about how it didn't work out with the father or how men have uh maybe perceived you as this because you have children or not. I'm talking about your innate divine beauty and power and being able to populate the earth and you contributing to that. This is why I would say, listen, with the woman with kids, I bow down, I respect you times 10. Because in my mind, again, I don't have children, right? But in my mind, I'm seeing and I'm like, oh my God, one day that's gonna become that's going to become hopefully someone's husband, right? That's gonna be hopefully a productive member of society who does honest work, who helps with his community, who serves, you know, whatever higher power of the Lord, right? Who lives righteous, right? Again, that's how my mind works. But again, I know that a lot of women don't view themselves or the circumstance of having children in that way. So again, and I was kind of just giving a shameless plug to my new coaching. Again, this is a refinement coaching for you guys. Again, it's not launched yet, but again, it is my brand. It's called Closer to You. Um, this is a trademark TM by again, yours truly, Aerie Champagne. So, again, that is launching very, very, very soon. I I I just have to again get the website up and rolling, get my coaching together, and it will be launched. So, anyway, um, this episode, I wanted to talk about how listen, you are exactly what you tell yourself. Period. You are exactly what you tell yourself in whatever capacity, in my mind, right? I the I believe half of the battle of what people are facing today, half of the battle of what uh people are mentally going through in this mental conundrum, right? A lot of people today are very insecure, they don't feel adequate because that you know they they're very um competitive, they're depressed, they're overly stimulated, right? They're overly hyper sexual, hyper lustful, all these things, right? And again, I'm telling you, you are exactly what you tell yourself. There's there's the power, the power. So this is one of the um the great book of 48 Laws of Power, this called the power of suggestion. And the power of suggestion is again, just as it says, when you suggest, you when you suggest in any circumstance of something or someone, right? That's your perspective, that's your suggestion, that is your your mind power suggesting that to be true, right? Or not true. Catch that, right? So when I say you exactly what you are, what you tell yourself, that is that's the full conundrum. Again, if you haven't read The Four Day Laws of Power by Robert Green, please go check it out. I obviously have not finished the book. That book is like literally the side, like a thick, it's not as thick of the as thick as the Bible, but it's a very thick book. I read majority of it, but not all of it. But again, the and think about it, the power of the tongue, the power of the voice. There is power. Now, again, I know a lot of people, or some people, you know, have grown up and they only been told you're not good enough, you're this, you're that, you're inadequate, you're never gonna do this, right? And I I understand those things, those what what someone else has suggested to you has stuck in your mind for so long, for decades and centuries, right? It's stuck in your mind for so long that that is what you believe to be true, right? They suggested it to you, and now you have adopted that. But again, that that can't be your reality unless you believe it to be true, unless you have told yourself and confirmed that with yourself. You see, it's easy, easy, easy to sit here and say, you know, well, dang, you know, it right, I'm not this, I'm not where I want to be. I'm not the weight I want to be. I don't have enough money in the bank account. I am not, right, I don't have the penthouse, I don't have all the furniture I want in my apartment, whatever the case may be, right? I don't have the the new iPhone 17, 18, 20, right? I mean, you know, whatever it is, right? But uh, but it's it's more so adopting a nature where you have to speak life into yourself. No one else is responsible for doing that to you. I work with the majority of women, and women that the women that I do work with absolutely curse themselves every single day. Why I'm not, I'm my body's not this, why I'm not that, and I wish I had this like you. And it's like you are literally adopting and telling yourself what you don't have, right? What it is that you lack already, right? So therefore it has to be true. Why not speak life into yourself? Why not speak devotion? Why not speak discipline? Why not speak wealth and charity and and you know, you being able to um, you know, be be fulfilled. Why not speak that? I get it, because again, you've adopted the the lack thereof of other people and what they thought to be true for you, and it's just not right, right? It's just not right. And again, I understand completely when somebody literally sends curses over you because, right, you disappointed them, or because again, they weren't what they ought or said them or said themselves out to be. So then they then put it on you, mostly speaking, the parents, right? Some parents do that to their children. Some parents all they knew how to do was verbally abuse you, never congratulate you, never see you as somebody that could, you know, that should not do better than them, whatever the case may be. Again, trust me, right? I I get it. But why not skip that story? Skip that story, suggest that that is not true for you, and you go in and create your own life and speak life into yourself, which all of us should be doing. Now, and there's a big thing with because you know, a lot of people make mistakes and they don't understand that um, you know, the the mistakes they've made, so they automatically believe and think that they are destitute to failure, whatever the case may be. But I'm here to tell you, listen, I've seen it and I've heard it all. Go talk to somebody who spent, you know, time in prison. And then see how most most people, right? They're not a complete psychopath, most of them come out as a completely brand new person. Most people say, Oh, hell no, heck no, I don't drink. Heck no, I don't smoke, heck no, I want to do well, right? Because they've lived that destitute life of being completely prisoned and treated like an animal. So they don't want to go back, they don't want to experience it, right? And I'm talking about somebody who has literally done time, time, time in prison, and who have and who has thought themselves through again, who has suggested to them all to themselves to know that no, this is not me. This can't be my stuff, this can't be what it is. I know there's more, I know there's better. I may have made mistakes, I may have felt destitute to my own deepest, darkest desires. But guess what? I am beyond that now. I have learned, I have sat quiet with myself and realized and told myself, you know what? No. Look where this got me. Look at where look at all the chaos I've done, I've consumed, and look where it's look where it's got me. Again, I'm talking about go speak to somebody. And again, I don't know any money for pres for prison. I don't know, but I do watch a lot of documentaries. And when I say like most of them literally are so disgusted with their prior selves, then you have to be. You have to get to that kind of point of just being disgusted. Why would you ever wake up and tell yourself every single day, oh well, I'm not this. Oh, well, you know, I I ain't got that much money. Why not? Why not be the Lulu in that sense of telling yourself, no, you know what? My bakey come may say this, but guess what? I'm still rich. I'm still rich or abundant in spirit. I'm still a great person. I still have character, I still have discipline. I'm still smart, right? I'm still intelligent again. Because you and this is how I know when most people, when most people get around certain kinds of people who are always positive, who are always thinking the better part of things, who are always kind of um beating to their own drum and moving to the whatever capacity they want to move to, they don't know how to act because all they kind of know how to do is speak negativity. It's suggest lack into their own life, it's suggest uh poverty or destitute or whatever the case may be, right? Instead of thinking the higher route of okay, sure, you know what? Maybe I may live right now in Section 8. Maybe I don't have the commas in my bake account. Okay, maybe I don't, right? Maybe I don't, but I know for a fact I will I will get out of this. I know for a fact this will not be my forever reality. I know for a fact there's more, there's better, right? There is divine love out there. There is a right man for me, there is a right woman for me, whatever case may be you're right. Why not speak that into your own life? And this is the problem that most people have today is they're relying on other people to kind of give them that. And again, it's like you you cannot rely on another person to give you what you should be giving yourself, if not what God should be giving you. You can't, that's not how it works. This is how most people, some people end up in relationships and they're still lonely, they're still right, they they don't feel a sense of anything because they've relied on this one singular person to be their everything. And truth be told, that was me at one point. That was me at one point. I relied on my singular partner to do to give me that joy, give me that happiness, give me whatever. And when that did not happen, or what, or when I felt like I didn't receive it, I would go into you know a sadness, a depression, because I thought this person that's supposed to do all those things for me, not knowing you know, you were supposed to give it to yourself, or you're supposed to find those outlets for you. You were never supposed to sit here and allow another person to give you all and everything, which you should absolutely be getting yourself, which you should absolutely already be suggesting to yourself. The power of the tongue, I'm telling you, is powerful. There's power in the tongue, there's power in thought, there's power in what you tell yourself. What is the whole saying, right? That isn't this all over social media? Words are curses, words are portals, right? Isn't this what everyone's talking about right now? Right? So if we know this, again, speak that talk, talk that talking to you. Talk what you know to be true. Again, sure, maybe in reality, maybe it's really not that. Okay, I understand. I understand. If you're if you got that, I understand listen, I get it, but guess what? You you don't know what else. How do you know if you've only talked negative to yourself and then you wake up and see your negative reality? How do you know that when you talk life into yourself, you won't see a better reality? How do you know? How do you know? This is what I'm saying. There's power in the tongue, there's power in the suggestion of thinking better for yourself. There's power in knowing great things will happen for you. There's power in that. There's power in speaking positivity, and again, sure, there's reality, there is real life going on. A lot of some people can afford groceries, some people can't afford gas, only 60-70 cents in their gas. I went to the gas station a few days ago, and you know how you look and see what the up after the last person who left, how you could pull up and see. I seen it was six seventy-one cents paid to get gas, right? I I understand we live in the real world. However, again, the power of the tongue, the power of suggesting life into yourself, the power of suggesting abundance into yourself. Why not? What else are you going to do? Wallow in your own misery? Why? Why? You know what it's like, you know what it's like to be miserable, to be hungry, to be depressed, to be tired, to be sad. You know what that's like. Why not change your thinking, change your suggestions, and go out and be great for you. I think for sure, you know, and it's easy to sit here and and check off all the boxes, right? This is why I'm not saying I I don't I'm not saying I have a problem with these prestige degrees. I'm not saying that at all. I think that's a beautiful, wonderful thing. These Ivy League schools and these prestiges uh these prestige um programs that are offered to people. But sometimes when you talk and you're around those kind of people, it's like they're not even a person, it's like they're almost just a robotic. Like you've checked off the boxes. Yes, you have that PhD, yes, you have that master's. But what who have you become in the process? Who have you become in the process of you going to school for eight to ten to twelve years and then okay, yeah, now you're the lawyer, now you're the doctor, now you are the um whatever, right? Now, now you have the big prestige title. Who are you now though? Who have you become in that process? It's easy to check off. Well, it's not easy, but I'm saying it's it's it's simple to say I've done this, I've done that, I've done this, I've done that, and you still have not uh uh succumbed to anything of yourself. It's just a phenomenon that I just I I think about very often, and you guys know I don't tell what I do for work on here, but again, working around and amongst um prestiged people, uh it just it just baffles me. It's like they almost can't be human. It's like again, the more you know, it's like uh that's a that's a whole separate video. That's a whole separate video, right? Um, but again, I just wanted to share that suggestion to you all, right? You don't have to take my suggestion, you don't have to take what I'm saying to be true. You go and do it for you. Again, there's power in the tongue. Words are curses, words are portals, right? And I'm not talking about you speaking per curses and portals to other people. It doesn't work because again, you don't know what that other you don't know if that other person is divinely protected or not. So it's easy to put curses on other people, right? But once you, like I said before, once you suggest that to be true, that's when it happens. If not, again, it's not gonna work. You can talk all day long what you want about other people, but again, if that person did completely disregards you and whatever the hell you had to say, it doesn't work. This is why I'm saying speak it into yourself, speak life, speak, suggest great things about you, and watch it transform. Watch you and the circumstance transform. Cool, got it. That is all I have for you today. Like I said, I just wanted to kind of share that. You know, I kind of woke up with a nice little download. So I wanted to spread the knowledge, spread the wealth to you guys. Again, this is if not now when by your truly Erie Champagne. 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