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Hey friend—deep breath. This one might challenge you a little, but it’s too important not to say: Your s*x life is a barometer for the health of your marriage.

Now, before you panic—we’re not saying it’s the only barometer or even the most important one all the time. But it is a highly revealing one. In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are digging into Chapter 8 of their book Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire—and we’re talking all about the powerful link between intimacy and marital stability.

Because here’s the truth: s*x—or the lack of it—is never just about the act itself. It reflects emotional maturity, communication patterns, trust, safety, and connection. In short, your s*x life mirrors the state of your union.

But the good news? If you’re noticing gaps, struggles, or distance… that awareness is the first step toward healing and reconnection.

In this episode, Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and Cassie unpack:

• Why a struggling s*x life is often a symptom of deeper issues—not the root
• How healthy, emotional intimacy leads to more satisfying s*xual intimacy
  Steps you can take today to begin healing the emotional + physical disconnect
• Why communication, maturity, and intentionality are the foundation of a divorce-proof marriage

Key Takeaways:

• A thriving s*x life isn’t about performance—it’s about emotional connection
• S*xual disconnection often signals unspoken pain or unresolved tension
• Rebuilding your intimate life can strengthen your marriage in every area
• There’s hope, healing, and help for every marriage willing to grow

No matter where your marriage stands today—whether your s*x life feels vibrant or it's non-existent —there is always room to grow, reconnect, and heal. God designed your intimacy to be life-giving, not guilt-ridden. Your best days of connection may still be ahead. So don’t give up, friend. There’s hope, and you’re not alone on this journey. ❤️ We're cheering you on as you Mature into True Happiness!

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Hey friend! When you saw the title “Sexy Talk,” your mind might’ve jumped to flirting or bedroom talk—but that’s a different chapter. 😉 In today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 7 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and unpacking what “Sexy Talk” really means: open, healthy communication around s*x in marriage.

Let’s be honest—s*x, money, and kids are the top 3 tension points in most marriages. And if you’re not talking about s*x in a healthy way, (or at all,) you’re likely missing out on deeper connection, better intimacy, and real emotional safety.

In this episode, Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and Cassie discuss:

• Why talking about s*x is one of the most intimate acts of marriage
• How to build communication skills when you weren’t exactly “born with them”
• The common barriers that stop couples from talking honestly about intimacy
• Practical ways to start having non-awkward, meaningful conversations about your s*x life

Whether you've been married 6 months or 16 years, this episode will help you communicate better, connect deeper, and feel more confident navigating one of the most sacred parts of your relationship.

Key Takeaways:

• Emotional intelligence and healthy s*xual communication are learned, not automatic.
• Avoiding conversations about s*x creates distance—talking about it brings connection.
• You don’t need perfect words—just honest, kind ones.
• Communication is a skill that can transform your bedroom and your bond.

It’s time to stop guessing in the bedroom and start talking. 

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Hey friend! We’re back with another episode in our Feeling Sexy series, and this one gets real. Today, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 6 of their book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and the topic? Emotional maturity in marriage—and what happens when it’s missing.

In the early days of love, everything feels dreamy. But when the honeymoon phase fades and real life sets in, those adorable quirks can turn into major irritations. That’s when we often default into one of two unhealthy patterns in marriage: The Brat or the Doormat.

In this episode, Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and Cassie unpack:

• What it looks like when wives show up as “Brats” (tantrums, sulking, withholding)
• How “Doormats” bury their voice to avoid conflict (hello, people-pleasing!)
• Why both are rooted in emotional immaturity—not brokenness
• How to step into your God-given confidence and grow into a mature, sexy, whole woman

Because here’s the truth: great s*x isn’t built on manipulation or passivity—it flows from maturity, self-awareness, and emotional connection.

Key Takeaways:

• The “Brat” and the “Doormat” are just unhealed parts of us—not our final identity
• Emotional maturity is sexy—it builds trust, safety, and real connection
• You can be strong and soft. Assertive and loving. Confident and kind.
• Growth in the bedroom starts with growth in the heart

No matter where you find yourself—whether you've been defaulting to Brat-mode, hiding as a Doormat, or somewhere in between—there’s hope, grace, and room to grow. You were made for more than emotional survival. You were made for intimacy that’s rich, mature, and deeply satisfying, and we’re here to help you get there—one honest conversation at a time.

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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into Chapter 5 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and it’s a game-changer.

This episode is all about the deep and often overlooked connection between your nervous system and your s*xuality—and how understanding that connection can completely transform your experience in the bedroom.

Using a powerful stoplight analogy, they break down what your body might be telling you:

• 💚 Green = Ventral Vagal: You’re safe, connected, and open to intimacy
• 💛 Yellow = Sympathetic Activation: You’re alert, anxious, or bracing
• ❤️ Red = Dorsal Vagal: You’re shut down, disconnected, or numb

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• • How to recognize your nervous system “state” during or before intimacy
  • What to do when you’re in yellow or red—and how to shift toward green
  • Why God designed your body to speak to you—and how it connects to your healing
  • That safety, connection, and presence are the foundation for s*xual confidence & feelings of desire

Wherever you are in that nervous system spectrum—it’s not wrong, and it’s not shameful. Josh (certified sex therapist) and Cassie want to help you tune in, listen well, and respond with love, grace, and truth.

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Hey friend! We’re continuing our deep-dive into Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and today’s episode is all about one of the most tender (and powerful) topics: seduction.

In Chapter 4, “The Art of Seduction,” Josh & Cassie explore how desire is experienced differently between men and women—and how confidence plays a key role. For many husbands, desire is fueled by how attracted they are to their wives. But for wives? It’s often about how attractive they feel about themselves.

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• How to build s*xual confidence by changing how you see yourself
• Practical ways to honor your body and visualize yourself through Jesus’ lens
• Mindset shifts to help you let go of shame and step into holy seduction
• Why feeling sexy isn’t about performance—it’s about presence, identity, and delight

Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and his wife Cassie are here to guide you gently and boldly into embracing your body, your desire, and your God-given capacity for intimacy.

This is your invitation to step into the intimate life God designed for you—with courage, clarity, and support.

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Hey friend—want to improve your s*x life? You’re in good company. In this episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie dive into Chapter 3 of their new book, Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire, and they’re not holding back.

Today’s conversation is all about God’s design—for your body, for intimacy, and for what s*x is supposed to look like within Christian marriage. Spoiler alert: it’s better, deeper, and more sacred than what the world tries to offer.

Josh (certified Christian s*x therapist) and Cassie unpack:

• What Scripture reveals about God’s design for s*xual pleasure
• How your anatomy and desire are good—not shameful
• What’s permissible in the bedroom for Christian couples
• And why embracing your s*xuality is part of embracing your full self in Christ

If you’re ready to shed shame, reclaim passion, and embrace the truth that God created s*x to be both holy and hot—this episode is for you.

Key Takeaways:

• Your body and desire are God-designed and worth celebrating
• S*x isn’t “dirty”—it’s divine when rooted in covenant love
• Exploring what’s okay in the bedroom starts with love, safety, and mutuality
• Growing in intimacy is spiritual, emotional, and physical—it’s all connected.

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This is your permission to love your body, your spouse, and your s*x life—without shame. Share this episode with a friend who needs to know that God’s design for s*x is way better than you think. 💖

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Hey friend! If you’ve grabbed your copy of Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman’s Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire (or you're thinking about it), today’s episode of The Road to Happiness Podcast is for you.

Josh & Cassie are sharing the best ways to read Feeling Sexy—whether you're a wife ready to grow in confidence and desire, or a husband hoping to better understand your wife’s journey. This isn't just a book—it’s a roadmap for healing, connection, and sexual wholeness, rooted in biblical truth and backed by decades of clinical expertise.

In this episode, they’ll cover:

• How to approach the book based on where you are in your journey
• Why Feeling Sexy is for both women and the men who love them
• How to engage with the content in a way that leads to real growth and healing
• What makes this book different: 13K+ hours of therapy wisdom from Josh, nearly 20 years of real-life marriage experience from Cassie, and 100K+ hours of combined certified Christian sex therapy experience through MyCounselor.Online, seeing results of healing, and achieving the goals their clients have.

This is your invitation to step into the intimate life God designed for you—with courage, clarity, and support.

Key Takeaways:

• There’s no “right” way to read Feeling Sexy—just start where you are
• Husbands: reading this alongside your wife is a game-changer
• Healing and confidence are possible with intentional steps and support
• You’re not alone—Josh & Cassie (and thousands of others) are cheering you on

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Hey Friend... Feeling Sexy? Because we've got some exciting news! 🎉 Josh & Cassie are thrilled to announce the release of their brand new book: 

Feeling Sexy: A Christian Woman's Guide to Sexual Confidence & Desire - and in this episode, they're giving you a behind-the-scenes look at how it came to life! 

This episode kicks off a special podcast series where they unpack why they wrote the book, who it's form, and how faith, neuroscience, and s*xuality all work together to help you create the thriving, connected, and joy-filled intimate life you were designed for. 

Tune in as they share: 

• The heart behind the book and what sparked the idea
• Why Christian women often struggle with desire - and how to reclaim it
• A sneak peek at a few chapter themes (spoiler: they're 🔥 and grounded in truth!)
• How the combo of Biblical truth + brain science can transform your s*x life! 

Josh brings his experience as a certified Christian s*cs therapist, and Cassie shares her wisdom from 20 years of marriage and motherhood. Together, they're your guides to a more confident, connected, and God-honoring s** life. 

Key Takeaways:

• You don’t have to choose between spiritual and sexual confidence—you can have both
• Desire is holy, beautiful, and worth cultivating
• Your past doesn’t disqualify you—God’s not done writing your intimacy story
• This book was written for you, and healing is possible

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Already grabbed the book? Share your favorite chapter or takeaway and tag us! And if you haven't yet, what are you waiting for? Let's grow the intimate life of your dreams - together. 💖

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Hey friend! Today on The Road to Happiness Podcast, Josh & Cassie are diving into a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough—why alpha males often avoid therapy and what that means for their growth, relationships, and emotional well-being.

If you’re someone with a strong, take-charge personality—or you love someone who is—this conversation is for you. We’re breaking down the myths around masculinity and strength, and challenging the idea that emotions make you weak. Because true strength? It starts with honesty, vulnerability, and a willingness to grow.

In this episode, we explore: 

• Why alpha males tend to resist therapy (and why that matters)
• How bottling emotions blocks REAL strength and emotional maturity
• How family members can lovingly support the alpha male in their life
• A bold challenge for the guys: don’t let fear of vulnerability keep you stuck
• This isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about becoming the strongest, healthiest version of yourself.

Strength isn’t about pushing through; avoiding emotions doesn’t make you tough—being present and emotionally mature gives you TRUE strength. Growth requires courage—and yes, that includes therapy and emotional work.

The people in your life need your whole heart, not just your drive. This episode is full of empathy, encouragement, and truth—and it’s here to remind you that healing is not only possible, it’s powerful.❤️ 

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To the alpha males out there—we dare you. Don’t sit this one out. Step into the real work of healing and wholeness. And if you love an alpha male in your life? Share this episode with them today.

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Hey friend. Let’s be real—relationship loss hurts. Whether it's the death of a loved one, a friend who moved away, or a painful falling out, losing someone close to you leaves a deep ache. In today’s episode, Josh & Cassie are walking with you through the grief, the questions, and the slow, hopeful process of healing.

You’re not alone in this. And while loss is a painful part of life, it can also become a turning point for growth, emotional maturity, and deeper connection with others—and with yourself.

Join us as we discuss: 

• Different types of relationship loss and why each one impacts us deeply
• Practical tips for processing grief and finding your footing again
• How healing from past loss can shape healthier relationships in the future

This episode is full of empathy, encouragement, and truth—and it’s here to remind you that healing is not only possible, it’s powerful.❤️ 

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If someone you know is grieving, send them this episode as a gift of hope. And if that someone is you—we’re so glad you’re here. Healing starts now.

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Making friends as a kid? Easy. Making friends as an adult? Well… that’s a whole different story. In today’s episode, Josh & Cassie dive into the real-life challenge of building and maintaining adult friendships—especially when life keeps changing.

Whether you’ve moved, gotten married, had kids, or just feel like your old friendships don’t quite fit anymore, you’re not alone. But the good news? You can create meaningful, grown-up connections that last—and they’re worth the effort.

Join us as we discuss:

• Why adult friendships feel harder to form—and what to do about it
• How life transitions shift your social circles (and that’s okay!)
• Practical ways to connect with people in your current season of life

This is your permission slip to stop waiting for friendships to happen to you and start building the kind of community your heart is craving. ❤️ 

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Is it weird to feel sexually aroused when you have a full bladder? One listener submitted this honest “Asking for a Friend” question—and Josh & Cassie are here to answer it with compassion, clarity, and a little bit of science.

Here’s the good news: Yes, it’s normal! You’re not broken, you’re not alone, and you’re definitely not the only one who’s ever felt this way.

In this episode, Josh (certified sex therapist) and Cassie explain:

• Why some people experience arousal when their bladder is full
• How the nervous system, body sensations, and pleasure can overlap
• What to do if this sensation causes confusion, shame, or curiosity

This is a safe space to get curious about your body and sexuality—without judgment and with truth, grace, and a good dose of humor. ❤️ 

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Six weeks into marriage and struggling with erectile dysfunction? You’re not alone. In this “Asking for a Friend” episode, Josh & Cassie respond to a heartfelt submission from a newlywed facing unexpected challenges in the bedroom—and the emotional weight that comes with it.

When expectations around intimacy collide with real-life struggles, it can feel isolating, discouraging, and even threatening to your relationship. But the truth? There’s hope—and healing is possible.

In this episode, Josh (certified sex therapist) and Cassie explore:

• What to do when erectile dysfunction shows up early in marriage.
• The impact of sexual expectations—and how to reframe them.
• How to navigate emotional fears like “What if they leave me?”
• A biblically grounded path forward for intimacy, connection, and healing.

Key Takeaways:

• ED is more common than you think—and it doesn’t define your marriage
• Intimacy is about connection, not just performance
• God can bring healing through honest communication, empathy, and patience
• There’s always a next step forward—together, not apart

Whether you’re newly married or years in, this conversation is full of grace, truth, and practical wisdom for walking through intimacy challenges together—not alone. ❤️ 

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No one walks into a relationship expecting to experience verbal abuse—especially not from someone they love. And yet, here you are, carrying the weight of words that were never meant to define you. If this is your story, friend, we see you—and you're not alone.

In this heartfelt “Asking for a Friend” episode, Josh & Cassie gently unpack what it means to begin healing from verbal abuse. Whether you’re still in the relationship or picking up the pieces afterward, this episode offers compassion, clarity, and next steps for healing.

Join us as we discuss:

• What verbal abuse looks like—and why it’s more damaging than people realize.
• Why healing is not only possible, but essential for your emotional and spiritual health.
• The steps toward reclaiming your voice, dignity, and sense of safety.

This episode is for anyone who’s felt silenced, belittled, or broken down by the words of someone they trusted. It’s time to step into healing—and we’re with you every step of the way. ❤️ 

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Infidelity. It’s one of the most painful, disorienting experiences a couple can face. The betrayal. The broken trust. The "How did we get here?" feeling. If your world feels like it just turned upside down, this episode is for you.

Josh & Cassie don’t shy away from the hard stuff—and today, they dive headfirst into the question: Can a marriage truly heal after an affair? As a certified sex therapist and affair recovery specialist, Josh has walked with countless couples through devastation and into redemption. He’s seen miracles—and he wants to share that hope with you.

Join us as we discuss:

• Why infidelity wounds so deeply—and how to even begin processing it
• The power of an Impact Letter and how it helps rebuild connection
• Why healing happens together—and what that process actually looks like

This conversation isn’t about sugarcoating. It’s about truth, grace, and the real-life path toward wholeness.

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Hey Friend! Let’s be real—when it comes to sex, especially oral sex, a lot of people feel awkward, unsure, or downright freaked out. Whether it’s something you’ve never talked about or something that brings up guilt, confusion, or curiosity, this episode is a safe space to explore it all.

As a certified sex therapist, Josh is here with Cassie to help couples find true freedom and intimacy—including in the areas that feel the most taboo. In today’s episode, they tackle the stigma, the shame, and the silence around oral sex in Christian marriage.

Join us as we discuss:

• What Scripture does (and doesn’t) say about oral sex
• Why your past and culture may have shaped your views on it
• How to reframe your mindset and experience more freedom and connection with your spouse

This conversation is for married couples who want to grow in trust, tenderness, and pleasure—without carrying shame. You’re not broken or weird if oral sex feels confusing or off-limits. The Bible invites us into a sex life marked by love, freedom, and mutuality, and your mindset can change—especially when it's shaped by truth instead of fear. Real intimacy includes honest conversations, emotional safety, and playful exploration, so take courage, and get curious about what the Lord may have for you in this part of your sex life! 

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“Sexual immorality.” It’s a phrase you’ve probably heard—maybe in church, in culture, or growing up. But what does it really mean? And why does it carry so much weight, confusion, and (let’s be honest) shame?

In this episode, Josh & Cassie unpack what sexual immorality actually means—biblically, emotionally, and relationally—and how your past experiences may be shaping the way you interpret that phrase today. Whether you’re navigating your faith, your past, or your marriage, this conversation will give you fresh clarity and hope.

Join us as we discuss:

• How your story and upbringing shape your view of sexual morality
• Why understanding the true meaning behind “sexual immorality” matters
• How to overcome shame-based thinking and move toward healing and freedom
• A more life-giving way to view your body, sexuality, and relationship with God

Whether you’re married or single, churched or unchurched, this is a judgment-free space to get honest, get curious, and get free.

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Let’s break the silence around sex, shame, and Scripture. Share this episode with a friend who needs to hear that freedom is possible.

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In this episode, we dive into "The Good Life" — exploring how faith, friendships, and financial stability form the essential pillars of happiness and well-being. Discover the secrets to living a fulfilled life through meaningful connections, social fitness, and a balanced approach to spirituality and finances. We’ll discuss the latest research on health and happiness, share practical tips for nurturing relationships, and reveal why spending 6-9 hours a day engaging socially is key to thriving.

If you’re struggling with loneliness or building deep friendships, connect with a Christian counselor at MyCounselor.Online. Our experts can help you break through barriers, understand the roots of isolation, and build the skills for lasting, life-giving relationships. Start your journey to "The Good Life" today!

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🎧 Ever felt like grief is an endless road with no map? You're not alone. In this episode of the Road to Happiness Podcast, we dive deep into the complex world of grief—a journey we all experience but often struggle to navigate. Whether it's the loss of a loved one, a job, or even a dream, grief hits us all differently, and it’s not just about feeling sad. It’s about understanding, processing, and ultimately finding a path to healing.

💡 So, what's the deal with grief? We’re breaking it down with a blend of biblical wisdom and cutting-edge neuroscience. Imagine exploring grief through a lens that combines both faith and science—like having a comforting guide who gets the whole picture, body, mind, and spirit.

✨ Why should you tune in? Because grief isn’t something you just "get over." It’s a journey, and this episode is packed with insights that can help you, or someone you care about, move through it with grace. We’ll explore how your brain reacts to grief, how to support others who are grieving, and why your spiritual life plays a crucial role in healing.

👂 What you'll learn:

• The science of what happens in your brain when you're grieving
• How to be there for friends and loved ones dealing with loss
• Practical tips to combine faith and science in your healing journey
• How grief can be an expression of love and a path to spiritual growth

If you're looking for hope, understanding, or just a little company on your journey through grief, this episode is for you.

👉 Ready to dive in? Check out the show notes for more insights and resources: Navigating Grief: Faith, Science, and the Road to Healing [https://joshspurlock.com/navigating-grief-faith-science-and-the-road-to-healing/]

Hit play and let's walk this road together. ✨

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In this episode of The Road To Happiness Podcast, join hosts Josh and Cassie Spurlock as they dive into the rich, multifaceted journey of singleness. Whether you're young, older, separated, divorced, widowed, or simply navigating the complexities of long-distance relationships and personal challenges, this episode has something for you.

Discover how faith and science come together to help you understand and steward your sexuality responsibly. Learn about the distinction between social and erotic sexuality, and how embracing these aspects can lead to a more fulfilled and balanced life. Josh and Cassie explore the concept of righteous flirting, a respectful and godly way to affirm one another that builds healthy, joyful connections.

Through engaging stories and practical insights, you'll gain tools to navigate singleness with confidence, build meaningful friendships, and honor your values. Tune in to explore:

• The intricacies of social and erotic sexuality
• How to embrace and manage erotic feelings responsibly
• The role of friendship sexuality and the art of righteous flirting
• Practical advice for singles in different life stages and circumstances

If you're ready to transform your approach to singleness and cultivate deeper, more fulfilling relationships, this episode is for you. Don't miss out—listen now and take the first step toward a more joyful and intentional life.

For more detailed insights and additional resources, check out the show notes here.

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In this powerful debut episode of The Road To Happiness Podcast, hosts Josh and Cassie Spurlock dive into the profound ways that faith and neuroscience intersect to offer healing from trauma. Discover how pain and suffering can be transformed rather than endured, with practical insights and compassionate guidance.

What You'll Learn:

• The true nature of trauma and its impact on the nervous system
• Effective strategies to regulate the nervous system and create a sense of safety
• Practical steps to help someone in crisis stabilize and organize their experiences
• How integrating biblical wisdom with neuroscience can prevent and heal trauma

Through real-life examples, expert advice, and a deep understanding of both spiritual and scientific principles, Josh and Cassie provide listeners with the tools needed to navigate and heal from life’s inevitable hardships. Whether you're seeking to understand your own experiences or support a loved one, this episode offers invaluable insights and hope.

Tune in now to gain a comprehensive understanding of trauma and discover the steps you can take towards healing and resilience. Don't miss this enlightening discussion that bridges the gap between faith and science, offering a path to true emotional and spiritual well-being.

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If you or someone you know could benefit from professional help, consider reaching out to a Christian counselor at MyCounselor.Online for personalized support rooted in faith and informed by neuroscience.

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