A Boomer and GenXer Walk into a Bar
Wit and wisdom, some smart assery, and a Mother and Daughter questioning “Are we even related?”
A Boomer and GenXer Walk into a Bar
ANNIVERSARY - One Year Under Our Belts - A Boomer, a Gen Xer, and a Year of Laughs, Lessons, and Left Turns S:2E:1
A year can change your voice. Ours did. And we avoided killing each other!! We hit record every Tuesday and built 53 episodes that zigzagged from road rage and thrift-store joy to a raw, carefully told account of the Perry High School shooting that reshaped our family. The result isn’t neat—and that’s the point. A Boomer and a Gen Xer learn to argue well, laugh hard, and lean into topics most people dodge, because that’s where the real conversations live.
We revisit the crowd favorites and also bring back the practical. Along the way, we spotlight guests who expanded the world of the show, from local service to pickleball culture to acts of everyday generosity that deserve a louder cheer.
Then we go deeper. Our most-downloaded series, A Parent’s Nightmare, unfolds with care, structure, and clear trigger warnings. We talk through how we prepared to speak on trauma, why reading from notes can be a survival skill, and what we’ve learned about parenting in the age of phones and social media. The takeaways are practical and firm: know your kids’ worlds, set boundaries early, and don’t outsource safety to screens. We keep it human, too—studio mishaps, clumsy confessions, and the family game-night logic that never quite adds up but always brings us back to the table.
Season two is a promise: more listener-driven topics, selective video moments, and deeper research where the stakes are high. Come for the laughter, stay for the candor, and leave with something useful. If you smiled, thought twice, or shouted at your dashboard, hit follow, share this episode with a friend (or an ex), and drop us your boldest topic idea. Your stories make this show better—what should we tackle next?
email: boomerandgenxer@gmail.com
Welcome everyone to today's show. It is going to be a doozy. We are a boomer in a Gen X or walk into a bar coming to you from the rabbit hole studio, where you, as our listeners, will experience some wit and wisdom, some smart assery, and a mother and a daughter questioning, are we even related? My name is Jane, and my co-host is my daughter, Bobby. And for the next several minutes, I guarantee you will be entertained because you know what episode this is, Bobby? This is season two, episode one. We have made it through a full year with our listeners being so committed to us and bless their hearts. God love them. God love them.
SPEAKER_02:I'm sure there are plenty of therapists that know who we are by now.
SPEAKER_01:I would think never met us. Because I know our therapists ask, are you sharing this information with anybody else? We say, sure, on air. So uh anyway, we've had just a really great uh year. And I wanted to talk about that today. That is what our show is about. And we have had put out, as as most of you know, we have put out a show every Tuesday since October 1st of 2024. Yep. That was our very first show. And have you gone back and listened to any of our first shows, Bobby? I have. And did we sound crazy?
SPEAKER_02:I mean, we still do. It's just we're we're kind of more we have more of a flow now, I think. But back then it was also hilarious the fact that we were trying to find our our niche. Ourselves. We were trying to find ourselves.
SPEAKER_01:Hey Bobby, why do you have one ear on and one ear off on your headset?
SPEAKER_02:Because somebody decides that they uh want to sing into the microphone, and I can only deal with half of that.
SPEAKER_01:See, that's hurtful. That's hurtful. That hurts my feeling.
SPEAKER_02:I told you, you just can't do things. You think you can. I gotta tell you you can't. I no, I I think I can. I don't think you can. No. No, we're not we're not doing this. We're not doing this.
SPEAKER_01:Okay, I can sing, and one day on on the air, I'm gonna sing. I didn't say you can't sing. You just don't want me to.
SPEAKER_02:It's just anybody can sing. Not everybody has pitch and tone. I know. Like Dr.
SPEAKER_01:Domain always says, she loves to sing too bad. She's no good at it. Yep. So there's that kaboom. Oh, you're too late with the uh little drum set there, Dr. Domain.
SPEAKER_00:You could have had the I thought you were gonna sing a song.
SPEAKER_01:No, I'm not gonna sing a song. But what I was gonna tell Bobby is since she only has one side of her headset on when we start out, and then she puts the whole thing on. Um, I was mowing and I hit a branch.
SPEAKER_02:No, you said you hit a tree.
SPEAKER_01:No, well, I did say I hit a tree, but I hit a branch and it almost ripped my ear off. Oh. My ear was like bleeding all day. Well, it really wasn't funny, and it still hurts, so it's hard for me to wear my headset.
SPEAKER_02:But and like I said, any any sentence that starts with I was mowing and ran into a tree or I was on the tractor and ran it into the pond, I know it ends well. No, and it doesn't phase me anymore. It's just like, oh, again. Okay.
SPEAKER_01:Well, I was just I was just sharing with you that you know it's hard for me to wear my headset because now I'm gonna have cauliflower ear probably, and that's not really attractive on women. I don't think so. You don't think I will?
SPEAKER_02:No. I don't know.
SPEAKER_01:I don't even know what cauliflower ear is. We live in Iowa, everybody should know what cauliflower ear is. Uh well, the grandson used to wrestle all the time. So I kind of know what cauliflower ear is, but I'd have to look at a picture to make sure that I knew that exactly what it was.
SPEAKER_02:Well, let me just say this if there's a fight in the bar and one guy has cauliflower ears and the other one doesn't, you're going with the cauliflower cauliflower ears every time. Every time.
SPEAKER_01:Okay. Well, anyway, that happened to me, and I just had to share that with our listeners. So we have been on the air for a year. Again, want to thank everybody. And what we want to do today is kind of just review what we've done over this past year. So we started out with great support, and we still have that great support of other podcasters, and we have a lot of listeners um that stay with us. I mean, they talk to us about our shows and our topics, and you know, what's their favorite and who's the funniest. I'm pretty sure it's me. But uh, they talk about who's the funniest and you know, just just some of the topics. And our listeners, you guys do provide us with ideas on what our topics should be. And so, you know, just looking back, do you remember what our very first topic was, Bobby?
SPEAKER_02:Our very first one uh was the don't hurt yourself. I suppose the road rage, the road rage.
SPEAKER_01:It was, yeah, road rage and uh furry faux pas. We talked about it I was wondering if you're gonna stutter on that, the faux pas.
unknown:No.
SPEAKER_01:No, no. Um, but anyway, we had a lot of really good topics out there, and again, ask us. We think we're hilarious, and so do a lot of our listeners, and we love the fact that y'all are are still listening in. But I'm gonna ask you, Bob, what was your favorite topic when we did this past year, or maybe a couple, because we had some fun real fun with some of these, and we had to do a lot of research on some of these because we didn't want to talk about them until we knew something, and somebody gave us a topic, and we went, ooh, we better, you know, start checking that out.
SPEAKER_02:And there's even some now that we're going to plan on putting out in season two that were suggested in season one, and it's just something that I don't want to speak on until I actually have the research.
SPEAKER_01:And you know what else we're gonna do during season two is people have asked us, you know, will we go with a video as opposed to just audio? And the answer is no, no, absolutely. But here's what we will do we are going to plan on doing some videos so that we can put them on our Facebook page so that y'all can see, you know, what we're up to. We'll put them out, and I'm not sure TikTok's gonna exist, so we're not really sure we're gonna go the TikTok route.
SPEAKER_02:But we'll when you first mentioned it, you're like, we'll put it on the YouTube, and I'm like, that's the boomer coming out right there. Put it on the YouTube. Why can't we do YouTube? Well, let's just go on to AOL chat room and put it in there too.
SPEAKER_01:Put it wherever, but we're gonna have a few videos out there because there's too many times when we have, I'll be honest with you, Bobby's right. I am a clumsy mess sometimes. And I'm just a mess. And she she's just a mess sometimes, and sometimes it is just so off the cuff that it blows both of our minds. So, anyway, we we just want to share that with you. So, Bobby.
SPEAKER_02:Okay, what so my top one that I really enjoyed doing, and unfortunately, it was at the um expense of someone else was the one where we were talking about the things that we like would never buy again and things like that.
SPEAKER_01:Oh, our regrettable purchases, yeah, yeah. So uh Dr.
SPEAKER_02:Domain, I I for days I laughed about that. Oh my gosh, I still laugh about that.
SPEAKER_01:I still laugh about it. I tell people when they say, Oh, you're podcasters, and we you know, we tap their phone and we give them the information and they start following us. I always tell them if you want to hear one where Bobby and I could not stop laughing at the expense of Dr. Domain, go to that one.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, that one was super like I said, I'm glad that he's at the point in his life and healing, I hope, that he can just laugh about it and enjoy that other people laugh too. And um, hopefully we're not re-traumatizing him at all.
SPEAKER_01:What do you think, Dr. Domain? I mean, did you have a favorite one that we talked about over the past year? Dead silence. He's thinking he's going through the catalog.
SPEAKER_00:Give me a second.
SPEAKER_01:Oh gosh.
SPEAKER_00:Um, I would say it was the one around manners. Like there was an episode. Oh, we didn't, yeah.
SPEAKER_01:We did etiquette and manners, yes, we did.
SPEAKER_00:Yeah. Um revealed a lot.
SPEAKER_01:There were there were several that I really liked. And and we had some guests on that were really good too, you know, because we had Said Isbase uh from for pickleball. We had Jackie Schmillen who came in talking about the Iowa National Guard. That was really wonderful. Um, we also had uh Freedom Bikes and Generosity, and that was with uh Ozzie Bob from A Bait, right? Right here in Iowa, right?
SPEAKER_02:And I mean we had 53 episodes between our very first one and our very last one of season one. So there is a lot of material and a lot of different material out there.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, there is a lot.
SPEAKER_02:It is crazy just looking back through it and going, oh my god, yeah, we did that. We talked about that. Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_01:You know which one I heard the most feedback one on was thrifting and dumpster diving. Oh, people love that. Oh, they loved it. You know why? They're all thrifters, yeah. And people are just not afraid to do the dumpster diving. You know, another one that we did, and this is going to kind of uh wrap into another session that we're gonna do was when we had my grandson Dustin come on and talk about celiac. Right. I had a couple of people contact me and say, hey, listen, listen to your podcast. How did you know? I mean, how did you know that you had it? And what made you think that you need to needed to go get it checked out? And so just helping those few people that contacted me, you know, uh and said it's nice to know that you're not crazy about things that are happening to your body, yeah, because we're crazy about other things, and yeah, I mean, uh, yeah, at least I had a dream last night that I probably shouldn't share with you, and I guess I won't, because one of the other ones that was kind of controversial was when we had that clash over sex worker rights.
SPEAKER_02:Oh, sweet baby Jesus. Please stay with us. You know, I mean, uh listen, Jesus loved the whores and prostitutes, he loves everybody, you know, so let's give them some rights. That's all I'm saying. If Jesus can love them, the government should too.
unknown:Okay.
SPEAKER_02:And give them tax breaks. And you're talking to somebody who's cracked a Bible maybe three times. So that's true. I have no idea what I'm talking about, and I'm gonna stick to that.
SPEAKER_01:This is funny that she said that because every year at Christmas. Every year at Christmas, we have this game that we play, and they have to answer Jesus or Christmas uh questions. And it's funny because Bobby always says that, but she went to she had to go to horse camp, and the horse camp was a Christian camp. And so she got to ride horses, but she There was a trade-off. There was a price. I like to call it a bonus. I like to call it a bonus because what's really funny is during this game at Christmas, you get asked a question, and if you can answer the question, you get to pick up a cup, and when you pick up the cup, it could be a simple little gift like a pack of gum, or it could be a hundred dollar bill. It just really depends. And so all the grandkids, all the kids play this game, and we also have a segment there where you can phone a friend, right? But you have to pick somebody in the room, and it can't be me. Right.
SPEAKER_02:We can't have our phones out.
SPEAKER_01:You can't have your phones out, can't be me that you ask the question to.
SPEAKER_00:So how do you phone someone without a phone?
SPEAKER_01:It it's just kind of the same, you know, phone a friend, ask a friend.
SPEAKER_02:We'll call it a phone. We'll call it a relative.
SPEAKER_01:We'll call it ask a friend. Phone another dumbass in the room.
SPEAKER_00:Oh, it's just a little confused.
SPEAKER_01:But stay with us on this one. Stay with us. So, what happens, what I where I was going with this, is what happens is since Bobby historically has answered these questions, everybody knows now to ask Bobby to answer their questions for him. But if she's wrong, they lose. Yeah. So it was now last year we did geography and history, and we relied on one of my grandsons, highly intelligent cat, and almost 90% of his answers were wrong. And people were using him as our go-to for the answers. He's so convincing.
SPEAKER_02:He's convinced himself answers that it's like you could put him on a lie detector test, he would pass every time with all the wrong answers. That's true. I mean, the kid, and don't get me wrong, the kid is smart, he really is, but put on the spot. I think that his brain kind of um skips like a scratch CD. And so he kind of has a problem where he's like, is this the right answer? And then he second guesses himself and he's like, I'm pretty sure it's this. And it's like, no, no, dumbass.
SPEAKER_01:And so that now we've gotten to the point where we won't even ask him. He's not our second choice. Everybody's looking around the room going, who else could I pick besides him?
SPEAKER_02:Obscure facts, absolutely. How fast does a cheetah run? How long can it run? You know, what's on the Serengeti? I'll ask him every time. Yeah, when it comes down to, you know, simple things that are just winning a game. Yeah, sorry, buddy.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, not gonna happen. Now we did have a show that I'm gonna bring up, and I don't remember the topic now. I'd have to go back and look at it, but Bobby, you'll remember it. It was kind of the shock factor for me when she announced this on the air, and everybody that listened knows what I'm talking about. It's when we were talking about you did announce a lot of stuff, but do you remember saying that you dropped acid at 14? Oh, God.
SPEAKER_02:I said I was almost 14. I think I was, I think I might have been already 14. She wasn't even 14. Oh my god. I was almost 14.
SPEAKER_01:She had to have been living with her dad. She couldn't have been living with me because I knocked her head off.
SPEAKER_00:Not at all.
SPEAKER_01:But anyway, anyways, that one was one that silenced me for quite some time on the air.
SPEAKER_02:A 44-year-old woman who pays her own bills and is pretty smart cat. Okay, I dropped acid, I've done shrooms. I listen, it's it is what it is. My brain is fine sometimes.
SPEAKER_00:I'm just I think I think she should tell us more about it. I think she's take us back to that day, Bob.
SPEAKER_02:No, you're trying to make me incriminate people, and that ain't gonna happen. But snitch.
SPEAKER_01:Snitch is good.
SPEAKER_00:And end up in ditches and end up in the streets. They're probably they're probably dead anyway.
SPEAKER_01:They died from an overdose. That's not even funny.
SPEAKER_02:And they're probably listening, going, Wait a second.
SPEAKER_01:I think that was me. I think that was me.
SPEAKER_02:So that particular, that particular I mean, listen, the distance between your mic and my mic and the you know, speed at which you can get up and come at me. I feel pretty safe at this point that I could come out the back of the studio without you getting to me quite. Yeah, so I'm fine.
SPEAKER_01:You might want to try dropping something else another time and see what happens because I will be over what's between us is Dr. Domain and all the equipment. And I would come over that like a spider monkey. I'm not kidding you, because that put me back, and anybody who listened to that show knows that I sat there in silence because I was in such shock for so long. It was crazy.
SPEAKER_02:I mean, you know, it is you know, yeah, you know, yeah.
SPEAKER_01:So, what's another one that you really liked us talking about or that you got any feedback from?
SPEAKER_02:Well, I did get so our very top downloaded episode, besides our very first intro episode. Now that one did get our top, but the next one down um was season one, episode seven, and it's called A Parent's Nightmare Part One. I screamed at her to run. This holds this, so it's a two-part episode. It holds the number two and number four spot on our download list. Yes. Now I did get a lot of feedback from it, um, of course, just of people not knowing who we were, um, who do, you know, who did listen to the podcast and knew me personally. And a lot of it was some people had commented on the fact of how um rehearsed or canned it sound when I talked. And I had warned people, I think ahead of time that look, you know, we haven't we had never talked about the subject at that point in length. We had never opened up about it. And so when I did talk about it as being, you know, kind of a first person involved in it, I typed it out. I had to because when I read things, I can, you know, it's like looking through a video camera. You can kind of disassociate yourself from it. Yeah, and I think that's why a lot of these kids video this horrific stuff. And anyways, so I can disassociate from it to a certain degree to where I'm not tripping up, I'm not having those memory flashes or anything else as I'm reading it. So I did get a lot of people saying, hey, you know, it sounded real canned, real rehearsed. And it's like, go through it yourself, unfortunately, and and understand that not all of us can just get in front of a camera or a microphone and be perfect about it.
SPEAKER_01:Now let's back up just a little bit and let's tell the listeners who didn't listen to those two episodes. Well, first of all, go back and listen to them. Yes. Okay, please do. Yeah, so those ran in November of last year. And we we hope that you do. I will tell you, those were those two, it was um part one and part two. Right. They were the episode seven and episode eight.
SPEAKER_02:And uh tell them why we did that. Uh, we did that because my uh my son and my older daughter were victims in the Perry High School shooting back on January 4th of 2024.
SPEAKER_01:In Iowa. In Perry, Iowa. Yep. And our grant my grandson, her son, got shot nine times. Yep. And that's all we're gonna tell you this time because we really do want you to go back and listen to part one, part two. They were these were super hard. And I I'll be honest with you, Bobby, I didn't know that you were reading from anything.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah.
SPEAKER_01:Because you were, you know, I mean, and even now we've not talked uh about it. We talk, don't get me wrong, as a family, we talked, we definitely talk, but we didn't go through it a chronological order like Bobby did on these two podcasts. It was very heart-wrenching. I had people coming up to me saying, Hey, I listened to that, and it is so heart-wrenching. It was so hard to get through. I don't know how you did it. We don't know how we did it. No, and there were times I I think Dr. Domain had to stop the recording because we just it was difficult. It was super difficult. So part one, part two, definitely wants to listen.
SPEAKER_02:I mean, and I'll say the trigger warning again now, just for people who haven't been through it. You know, if you have small kids, if you have teenagers, if you have people who are very empathetic and are not prepared to listen to it, please don't listen to it around them. Um just have that respect.
SPEAKER_01:Right. And and I agree with that. And unfortunately, in our society, there continues to be shootings, whether it's at a school, whether it's in a mall, whatever.
SPEAKER_02:As of recording, we just had uh two this morning.
SPEAKER_01:I I didn't see this morning.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, I believe we had one was at a church and one was somewhere else.
SPEAKER_01:Okay, yeah, absolutely. Um, and so very unfortunate. Just you know, what can you do as a parent? Uh talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, and talk. Yeah, and know what your kids are doing, know who they're talking to, know who they're hanging out with, know what they're talking about. Please, please understand what's going on with your kids. Um, your phone is not that important. No. Uh, your kids are.
SPEAKER_02:And their kids don't need to have phones and social media. And we do the we actually go through that too on episode two. Yeah, we do. Um, you know, about kids and social media. And that was a good one to do just because there are so many parents out there who are younger, I want to say. Yeah. And their lives are social media, their lives are the phones, so they don't understand why it's so detrimental for their children who are under the age of 18 to be on those phones and to have those social medias and to have or allow people access to them 24-7 that would never have access to them in a you know, a regular life.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah. Kids' minds don't develop that quickly. I mean, everybody thinks, oh, they're 15, they're 17, they're not.
SPEAKER_02:No, it's like 25 minutes before the frontal lobe fully develops.
SPEAKER_01:And so, you know, you just have to be careful of that. And sometimes it still is sometimes it never develops. Because I was worried about you. Oh my god. You know, you were like 32, and I thought, man, is she ever is she ever gonna get her shit together?
SPEAKER_02:Like, this is this is that's one way of put hope right here, and and I'm losing it. Yeah.
SPEAKER_01:So one of the other ones that was really popular for us was things you should know. And uh, we did talk about things that you know, if your kids don't know that you can take the sun visor and put it down and turn it over to if your kids don't know where to get a roll of quarters to do their laundry, right?
SPEAKER_02:And they order rolls of quarters off of Amazon only to find that they are just the rolls and not the quarters. Please let them listen to that. Um, you know, I don't maybe I should come out with a book of shit you should know before you're 21.
SPEAKER_01:You know, you should.
SPEAKER_02:And it's you got pictures and it's got it's dry erase, so you can make notes and erase it later. You know, draw some drawing the pictures. I don't know.
SPEAKER_01:You know what else was popular? Your books, Bobby.
SPEAKER_02:My books. Your books.
SPEAKER_01:Oh, my books. Oh my goodness.
SPEAKER_02:What were your books? So we had Who Will Eat My Clam? And these are I gagged at.
SPEAKER_01:They look like children's books, kind of like children's books. I mean, if you open one up, it's like, you know, they rhyme and they got cute little pictures and things like that. They are not children's books. Do not be able to do that.
SPEAKER_02:These are to children's books what South Park is to Bluey. Okay, just because it looks the same does not mean it is appropriate. Oh my gosh.
SPEAKER_01:That's funny. Um, another one that we did early on, uh, and you mentioned it already, was you know, road rages and stuff like that. That was our pet peeves episode. People were like all over that. Oh, yeah. Because uh people were going, you know what my pet peeve is? Every time I saw and they listened, you know, it was like, you know what my pet peeve is? You know what I hate? And I was like, no, tell me, you know. You know, I want to know. I want to stay away from those. So yeah, we had it, we had a good year. Um, we are in um how many countries did I say we were in? 12, 12 or 13 or 12. 12 or 13 now. Yeah, and like almost 200 cities. Yeah, so yeah, we're we're doing really well, and it's because of you. And we ask you each week if you would please share us as you get the information, follow us, go in and like us, talk to us.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, and what you know, one of the most awesome ones I think that we did recently was the the episode where we asked people, what would you tell yourself, your younger self?
SPEAKER_01:Oh, yeah.
SPEAKER_02:That was one of my favorite ones just because I got to find out things about people that I thought that I knew. That's and I didn't know.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, that's a good point.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, yeah, and that's all and it all came from listeners.
SPEAKER_01:And what's funny is we were asking our friends, and we asked our friends that listen. And one of the one of the podcasters that kind of put us on this road, Ed Hallback, he was one of our our guests speakers, yeah. And what a great guy. He's got his own show. Please look him up. One of the things he had said was your friends won't listen to your podcast.
SPEAKER_02:Yeah, friends and close family. They don't listen. Good luck. And but our exes sure like it.
SPEAKER_01:Your exes your exes sure like it because they think you're talking about them. If the shoe fits, Cinderella. You know, that's interesting because my closest friends really do not listen. And you'd think for support that's crazy that they would. And I thought that when he told me that, I thought, why wouldn't your friends and family just support you?
SPEAKER_00:Maybe they're tired of us. They're not hearing anything new, probably.
SPEAKER_01:Yeah, that's why they're tired of us. That could be no, they're not tired of us. I think there's just a lot of podcasts.
SPEAKER_00:They know everything about you, all right?
SPEAKER_01:They know everything, yeah.
SPEAKER_00:Just check Facebook 12 times a day and your updates.
SPEAKER_01:Okay, I'm gonna stop on Facebook then. I'm done.
SPEAKER_00:I'm done with Facebook. Well, I'm just saying, that's why.
SPEAKER_01:You know why?
SPEAKER_00:Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Jane, Jane pet a cat today. Yeah, I know that.
SPEAKER_01:Oh my goodness. Is it like that? Because I bake bread.
SPEAKER_02:I I did bring look at my bread. I baked bread. Isn't it beautiful?
SPEAKER_01:Have you ever baked the dog shit all over the carpet? And I had to tell people in three paragraphs of what happened. I told people in many countries about that. I did. This is my life. This is my life. If it's gonna happen, it happens.
SPEAKER_02:People want videos, people want videos inside this studio and of our lives. And I'm just like, do you realize how many community standards we would like completely?
SPEAKER_01:But you know what? We're gonna give them what they want. Yeah, and so we just want to thank you guys for a very successful year. We're very happy that you're listening to us. As Bobby always says, share us with your friends and share us with your enemies. We really and truly do not care. So, with that, I think we had a great year. What do you think, Bob? I think we had an amazing year, and I look forward to this next year. Dr. Domain, thank you for all your support and everything that you bring to the table for us because if we didn't have him, we wouldn't be on the air.
SPEAKER_02:We wouldn't have to look for the red button to make sure he's recording every time. But hey, you know, we appreciate you guys being here each and every Tuesday, and especially for the last year. Guys, thank you so much. So be sure to follow us. You know, send us to your enemies, send us to your friends, send us to your exes. Uh, we don't care who listens. And if it annoys them, hey, bonus points for you. So if you have any feedback or if there's a topic you'd like us to talk about, uh, email us at boomerandgenexer at gmail.com. We also have our boomer and a gen Xer walk into a bar official Facebook page. So check us out there. And then if you have hate mail, well, I don't read it anyway. So until next week. So until next week, I'm Bobby Joy. And I'm Jane Bird. And you're stuck with us later.