What We Made Possible
What We Made Possible is a podcast about the ripple effects of healing and how they shape leadership, social change, and the way we move through the world. Hosted by Patti Dayleg, a Leadership Coach for Social Change, this podcast explores what becomes possible when we center well-being, cultivate meaningful relationships, and lead with purpose.
Through solo reflections and conversations with inspiring guests, we uncover the turning points that spark transformation. Some moments are quiet shifts in perspective, while others are bold decisions that redefine what’s possible. These conversations highlight the ways healing strengthens leadership, deepens collaboration, and creates a more sustainable path for individuals and organizations alike.
Whether you’re navigating leadership in a nonprofit, building coalitions, or charting your own growth, this podcast offers stories, insights, and practical tools to help you move forward with clarity and intention.
What We Made Possible
014. Why Your Purpose Doesn’t Have to Be Your Paycheck with Brenda Umana
On today’s episode, I reconnect with my friend and fellow public health grad school alum, Brenda Umana, a true multi-hyphenate: poet, yogi, writer, and communications pro. We dive into her beautifully winding journey from accountant to creative, and the courage it takes to claim all the titles that make you whole.
Brenda opens up about what a younger version of herself never thought was possible: saying yes to the many layers of identity instead of confining herself to a single box. We chat about the pressures of being first generation—the familiar narrative of honoring family by pursuing “safe” or “practical” roles, and the gentle rebellion it takes to explore paths that light us up, even when they don’t neatly fit someone else’s expectations. Brenda shares how yoga and intuitive listening unlocked doors she didn’t know existed, helping her weave together a life that holds both stability and creativity.
I especially loved Brenda’s reflections on dharma—the idea that our purpose might not always align with our job title or paycheck. And how sometimes, giving yourself the freedom to be more than one thing is exactly what allows you to show up for yourself and your community.
If you’re wrestling with the “shoulds” or seeking permission to be your fullest, multi-faceted self, this episode will meet you right where you are. I invite you to pause and ask: What would it look like to honor all your possibilities? What version of you is waiting for a seat at the table? Let’s explore together.
About Brenda Umana:
Brenda Umana is a multi-hyphenate creative—poet, yogi, writer, and marketing/communications director in the education space. Moving through life with a bi-cultural lens, she embraces many roles, never limited by one title — trusting that with the right intention, each path reveals itself when it’s meant to. Her debut poetry chapbook, Familiar Roots: Tending to Healing Through Poetry, explores generational stories and the journey of self-discovery. Whether guiding meditation, crafting language, or leading teams, Brenda’s work invites others to pause, reflect, and honor themselves.
Where to find Brenda:
LinkedIn: Brenda Umana, MPH
Substack: https://thecontentmentcorner.substack.com/
Book: Familiar Roots
Resources Mentioned:
The Invitation by Oriah
Burnout by Emily Nagoski PhD and Amerila Nagoski DMA
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