Why Good People Are Draining Your Energy and Peace

Hustle To Harmony: Practical Productivity Tips for Women in Business & Leadership

Hustle To Harmony: Practical Productivity Tips for Women in Business & Leadership
Why Good People Are Draining Your Energy and Peace
Aug 01, 2025 Episode 24
Johanna Sanchez

If you’re surrounded by relationships that no longer serve you, then this is for you.

We’re not talking about toxic people here either - that’s a whole different conversation.

Instead, these are good people in your life who somehow leave you feeling exhausted, questioned, or small.

Maybe it's the family member who makes those backhanded comments about your goals, or the longtime friend who only knows the survival-mode version of you.

Your nervous system keeps you tethered to these familiar connections because your brain literally experiences social disconnection as physical pain.

I share my own story of choosing my immediate family over a family function and losing relationships because of it - and why I'm completely at peace with that decision.

We explore why "blood is thicker than water" might be keeping you stuck, how to redefine loyalty to mean staying true to yourself, and practical ways to create distance without burning bridges.

You'll also learn soft language techniques for those necessary conversations and discover why not every exit needs an explanation.

Key moments

00:00:00 Playing Small
00:00:40 Brain's Resistance
00:01:20 Family Expectations
00:02:40 Survival Mode
00:04:20 Choosing Yourself
00:05:20 Quiet Exits
00:06:20 Soft Language
00:08:00 Energy Protection
00:09:20 Final Question

Ready to stop diluting your vision for people who can't see where you're going? 

This episode will give you permission to protect your energy without the guilt - because unless they feed you or fund you, you don't owe anyone a seat at your next level.

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Johanna Sanchez is a High-Performance Coach and Anti-Hustle Productivity Expert who helps high-achieving women scale their businesses without burnout.

She's the founder of More Hours Collective and creator of the REPS Framework, helping 6- and 7-figure CEOs build profitable businesses that support their vision instead of burying them.

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