36: When Discomfort Is the Path to Connection with Annmarie Chereso

Redefining Us

Redefining Us
36: When Discomfort Is the Path to Connection with Annmarie Chereso
Feb 05, 2026 Season 1 Episode 36
Stephanie Konter-O'Hara

Discomfort is unavoidable in relationships, but how we respond to it can either create distance or deepen connection. 

In this episode, Annmarie Chereso joins Stephanie to talk about why tolerating discomfort is a crucial skill for parenting, partnerships, and personal growth.

They explore how fear-based reactions show up in conflict, how early conditioning around being “good” shapes our boundaries, and what it looks like to lead with trust instead of threat. 

This conversation offers a thoughtful look at navigating hard moments with more awareness, compassion, and clarity.

Connect with Annmarie:
Website: https://annmariechereso.me/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annmariechereso/ 

About Annmarie:
Annmarie Chereso is a conscious relationship coach, speaker, and contributing author of the #1 international bestseller The Perfectly Imperfect Family. With over 20 years of experience, she helps women break free from generational patterns, navigate conflict with clarity, and reconnect with their true selves.

Blending deep spiritual insight with practical tools, Annmarie guides women to let go of conditioned beliefs, embody love, and create empowered, fulfilling relationships. Her playful, heart-centered approach makes her a trusted ally for women seeking greater peace, trust, and freedom in their lives.



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