What happens when your grief is invisible to the world—but unbearably real to you? In this episode, my guest Arden Cartrette, a birth and bereavement doula who has turned her personal experience of multiple miscarriages into a powerful mission of healing and advocacy. From breaking the silence around first trimester loss to highlighting the massive gaps in medical training and support, Arden shares the truth about miscarriage that too many people experience in isolation.

We talk about the emotional complexity of pregnancy loss, why comparison can deepen our pain, and how empathy—real, lived empathy—can change everything. Whether you're a parent, a practitioner, or simply someone trying to be more present for others, this conversation invites you into a more honest and human understanding of grief and care through pregnancy loss. 

And if you need support or would like to connect with Arden you can find her at:
Website - https://www.themiscarriagedoula.co/ 
Instagram - @themiscarriagedoula

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What if marketing could feel more like self-discovery than strategy? In this episode of Redefining Us, Stephanie Konter-O’Hara sits down with Joanne Homestead, founder of Desk Plant Creatives, to explore how soulful storytelling can transform email marketing into a powerful tool for connection and authenticity. Joanne shares her journey from educator to email copywriter and how a memoir class unexpectedly led her to discover the impact of personal stories in business.

We talk about the importance of aligning with your values, navigating vulnerability, and embracing the “zero draft” mindset to overcome perfectionism and overthinking. Whether you're a purpose-driven entrepreneur or a creative professional, this conversation will help you reframe marketing as a relationship-building practice rooted in your unique voice and lived experience.

Connect with Joanne:
https://deskplantcreatives.com/
https://www.instagram.com/desk.plant.creatives/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/joannehomesteadcopywriter/
https://linktr.ee/deskplantcreatives
https://www.facebook.com/deskplantcreatives
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFUrIBT0zKKUr4Hq4g5-XfQ
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Imagine how powerful we'd all be if we stopped wasting energy on body shame and turned it toward something that truly matters. Eada Gendelman, a therapist who helps those with disordered eating is here to talk about healing our relationship with food, body, and exercise. Drawing from her own experience with an eating disorder, Eada shares how shame, societal praise for disordered behaviors, and a lack of language prevent many from seeking help. She and Stephanie discuss how cultural shifts have changed (but not solved) body image struggles and why self-compassion is the key to true healing. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a cycle of self-criticism, this conversation will inspire you to break free, reclaim your energy, and see that healing is always possible.

Connect with Eada:
Website: http://morningbirdtherapy.com

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Grief and motherhood are closely related. One mother may grieve the relationship she had with her partner before kids, another may be grieving a miscarriage, another the loss of her identity before kids. Motherhood is a profound transformation, yet we rarely honor the grief, and healing that come with it. 

Our guest Kellee Meyers shares about a ceremony for mother's that she did after her C-section births that helped her grieve and heal. The Closing the Bones ceremony is a four-hour, deeply nourishing ritual that can help any of you mother's out there process birth experiences, losses, and personal evolutions. (It doesn't matter if you had your kid 15 years ago or 3 months ago). 

We talk about why so many mothers feel unseen in their struggles and how ritual can provide the witnessing and support they desperately need.

Kellee describes the power of being held both physically and emotionally, by a trusted group of women, the importance of acknowledging grief, and why receiving care is essential, not selfish. Whether you’re newly postpartum or years into your journey, this episode may be a helpful reminder that your experiences deserve to be honored. It just might change the way you think about healing in motherhood.

Connect w/ Kellee: 
Website: wildtransformations.com 
IG and FB: @wildtransformations. 
Sign up for her monthly newsletter filled with raw, real reflections on motherhood.

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Sairan Aqrawi is an engineer and business strategist, reframing midlife crisis to midlife PRICELESS! She believes that turning 40 or 50 (or really any age!) marks the ideal time to reinvent oneself, rediscover passions, and take bold steps two enjoying life. And it all happens by overcoming self-doubt, embracing change, and taking action, because confidence is built by doing, not just thinking about doing.

Sairan also talks about common struggles among successful women who feel “stuck” despite achieving career milestones, or raising a family. She's giving us some strategies for breaking free from routine, handling rejection with resilience, and transforming hidden talents into fulfilling side businesses. No matter what age you are, if you’ve ever felt like you’re just going through the motions, this episode is a must-listen. You'll feel motivated to take charge of your future, start something new, and redefine what’s possible at any stage of your life.

Want to connect with Sairan? She’s offering a complimentary one-hour consultation for Redefining Us listeners! Mention this episode when reaching out:
LinkedIn: Sairan Aqrawi
Instagram: @sairan_aqrawi

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What if your struggles with food have nothing to do with food itself? In this episode of Redefining Us, Ashlyn Burnett, a National Board-Certified Health and Wellness Coach, shares the powerful connection between the nervous system and our relationship with food.

Ashlyn shares how polyvagal theory explains the different states of the nervous system and how these states influence eating behaviors. From the fight-or-flight urge to restrict or obsess over food to the shutdown response that leads to binge eating and disconnection, she breaks down why so many women feel trapped in cycles of control, guilt, and emotional eating.

There is a way out though. Through nervous system regulation, inner healing, and somatic work, Ashlyn teaches how to find freedom from food where eating becomes intuitive, nourishing, and no longer a source of anxiety or shame.

Connect with Ashlyn:
Podcast: Heart Led Wellness
Free Root Cause Quiz: http://heartledwellness.com/quiz
Instagram: @heartledwellness
12-Week Coaching Program: https://www.heartledwellness.com/hle

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Caitlin Morris, an Overcoming Overwhelm Coach and mother of three, shares her raw and honest journey of navigating motherhood, grief, and the pressure to “do it all.” Caitlin helps moms redefine overwhelm and discover rest and self-care in ways that work for them.

What You’ll Hear:

• Caitlin’s transition from fitness professional to redefining self-care as a mom of three
• The "ReRooted" framework: a simple, cyclical approach to growth and rest
• Balancing new life with loss and how grief shapes motherhood
• Why micro-moments of rest matter and how to release the guilt of prioritizing yourself

Motherhood isn’t about perfection, it’s about evolving through every phase. If you’re feeling stretched too thin, listen to this one. 

Connect with Caitlin Morris:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_withcaitlin/
Website: https://www.coachingwithcaitlin.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/caitlin-morris-pcc-a-cfhc-10458520b/

Don’t forget to subscribe to Caitlin’s newsletter and book a free “Possibility Call” if you’re ready to break free from overwhelm to find the time and energy you need for the things that matter most.

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What does embracing pleasure look like as a woman whether your a woman without kids, a mom, a woman in menopause, a grandmother, etc? In this conversation with Dr. Rosalyn Dischiavo, founder of the Institute for Sexuality Education and Enlightenment and author of The Deep Yes: The Lost Art of True Receiving, she shares her personal and professional journey into sex education and therapy, exploring the profound intersections of sexual health, mental well-being, and personal identity. She dives into her story of overcoming infertility, pursuing a doctoral degree, and the importance of integrating pleasure and desire into our holistic health practices.

Rosalyn reflects on how societal messages, like the Madonna-whore complex and hustle culture, inhibit our ability to truly experience life’s joys like enjoying a sunset or embracing intimacy. She wants us to rethink our relationship with pleasure and provides actionable insights for cultivating deeper connections with themselves and our partners.

This is a conversation that goes beyond sex. It’s about reclaiming wholeness, honoring our bodies, and redefining how we show up in the world.

Connect with Dr. Roz:
http://instituteforsexuality.com

IG: @HolisticSexEd https://www.instagram.com/holisticsexed/

FB: https://www.facebook.com/InstituteforSEE

Book: https://www.amazon.com/Deep-Yes-Lost-True-Receiving-ebook/dp/B01COCGE74/ref=monarch_sidesheet_image

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We are talking about the deeply emotional and often taboo topic of money, especially as it relates to parenting.

Guest, Khara Croswaite Brindle shares her journey into the field of financial therapy and sheds light on the unique challenges parents face. Like psychological weight of financial fears and the practical considerations of budgeting for the costs of raising children. 

Money is never just about dollars and cents. What us mother’s know is that money is also about exhaustion, comfort, and survival. Financial therapist, Khara Croswaite Brindle reminds us that compassion is essential when reflecting on our financial decisions.

What need was left unmet? What led you here? Instead of judgment, try curiosity. Instead of shame, try understanding.

You're human. It’s not the mistakes that define you, it’s how you move forward.

We talk about:

1. The Emotional Weight of Money: How inherited beliefs and personal fears shape our financial decisions.
2. The Real Costs of Parenthood: From childbirth expenses to everyday spending habits, Brindle breaks down how to adapt budgets for family life.
3. Predatory Marketing and Parental Guilt: Insight into how marketers target parents’ pain points and practical strategies to navigate these pressures.
4. Curiosity and Compassion in Financial Healing: Why approaching money conversations with understanding instead of judgment is essential.
5. Generosity and Stability: Balancing financial generosity with the need to maintain personal financial security.

About Khara:
Khara Croswaite Brindle, MA, LPC, ACS, CFT is passionate about giving people aha moments that create goosebumps and catalyze powerful action. She is a TEDx Speaker, licensed mental health therapist, and financial therapist in Colorado. Khara enjoys various roles as a serial entrepreneur, author, professional speaker, professor, and consultant. Khara specializes in helping therapists and financial therapists turn pain points into possibilities through consultation, courses, and supervision. She is originally from the Pacific Northwest and gets her best ideas walking outside and being around water. When Khara’s not writing her next book or supporting fellow professional helpers on their own self-discovery journeys, she enjoys spending time with her daughter, reading, and indulging in gluttonous, gluten-free desserts with her family. 

Connect with Khara:
https://croswaitecounselingpllc.com/financial-therapy

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In this episode of Redefining Us, host Stephanie Konter-O'Hara gets candid about embracing imperfections, navigating motherhood’s transitions, and fostering vulnerability. She introduces one of the many exercises around practicing vulnerability that she includes in her therapeutic group that she hosts for moms (see details on joining below).

It doesn't matter if you’re a first-time mom or welcoming your fourth child, Stephanie shares insights to help you embrace every stage of your journey with authenticity and connection and how to no feel so alone in the exhaustion of it all.

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Abuse can look many different ways, both overt and not. Our guest, Sybil Cummin, MA, LPC, ACS, shares her evolution working as a play therapist with children in contentious divorces to uncovering the often-overlooked dynamics of abuse dismissed by the systems at play. Our conversation lays bare the realities of narcissistic abuse, domestic violence, and the systemic gaps within family courts.

Sybil highlights the critical role of community, connection, and safety planning in the journey toward healing for anyone who's endured any amount of harm. We talk about how abuse can look many different ways and break the stereotypes that are most often portrayed. We delve into the struggles survivors endure—recognizing coercive control, overcoming post-separation abuse, and reclaiming a sense of self.  

If you know someone who's suffering from abuse, or that's you yourself, or if you're a professional who stands survivors, this episode offers clarity, practical guidance, and a steadfast reminder: recovery is possible, and no one walks this path alone.

Connect with Sybil:
https://www.risingbeyondpc.com
https://instagram.com/risingbeyondpc
https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/podcasts

About Sybil: Sybil is a Licensed Professional Counselor who has specialized in working with victims and survivors of narcissistic abuse and domestic violence for the last decade, including the child victims in these families. She owns a small group therapy practice in Colorado and after witnessing the constant ethical issues survivors experience in the family court system trying to protect their children she created Rising Beyond Power and Control (often referred to as The Rising Beyond Community)  to help close the gaps in support for this population.  Sybil hosts The Rising Beyond Podcast and is active in legislative changes in Colorado for family court reform.

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What if finding the right support during postpartum could change everything? In this episode, we dive into the challenges many new moms face, from physical recovery to emotional well-being, and how a lack of accessible resources often leaves them feeling isolated. Together, we explore ways to prioritize maternal mental health and navigate this pivotal time with the care every mother deserves. 

Creinthea (Cre) Chritz, a psychiatric nurse practitioner and master's-prepared educator, shares about her journey into mental health care, her work with mothers and women across life stages, and how her personal experiences shaped her professional path.

Cre shares her transition from teaching to nursing and her passion for addressing the unique mental health needs of women. She opens up about her own challenges with gestational diabetes, preeclampsia, and postpartum anxiety, which inspired her to found Coherent Care Women's and Maternal Wellness. Her practice, based in Denver, Colorado, also serves women in Florida and Iowa, with plans to expand further.

Connect with Cre: www.coherentcare.org
Instagram and Youtube is @coherent_care

Referenced links: 
Coherent Care Women's and Maternal Wellness
Postpartum Support International (Charleston Chapter)
Edinburgh Postnatal Depression Scale

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In this episode of the Redefining Us Podcast, we welcome Heidi Lindeman, a licensed counselor, IFS therapist, and parent coach. Together, we dive into the worlds of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and Human Design, exploring how these tools can help individuals, especially mothers, reconnect with their authentic selves.

Heidi explains how IFS is transformative for both parents and children, allowing us to honor every part of ourselves and interact with our kids from a place of grounded wholeness. And she describes how Human Design has impacted her own life and parenting journey, particularly in understanding and supporting her children as unique individuals.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS)
• Applying IFS in Parenting
• Introduction to Human Design
• Aligning with Our Authentic Selves

Where to find Heidi Lindeman:
https://selfgroundedtherapy.org

https://www.youtube.com/@heidilindeman9602

About Heidi - Heidi Lindeman is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) with a deep-rooted spiritual background, she is dedicated to helping moms who feel overwhelmed, isolated, and burnt out. She believes in nurturing both your soul and your human experience, creating a harmonious balance that allows you and your children to thrive. Heidi is the creator and owner of Self Grounded Therapy, LLC. At Self Grounded Therapy, we offer counseling for mothers who have a deep spiritual connection to the universe and are seeking to deepen their bond with their children through meaningful and transformative practices. We understand that as a spiritual being having a human experience, your journey is about more than just managing day-to-day stress—it’s about fostering a deeper connection with yourself and your children. Heidi uses Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Human Design to help parents live an authentic life and parent in an aligned manner.

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I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true

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In this episode, we dive deep into the complex relationship women have with their bodies, drawing from my personal experiences and the stories of clients I've worked with. From navigating the changes that come with pregnancy and postpartum to exploring the impact of body image on self-esteem and eating behaviors, we break down how these struggles shape our relationships with ourselves and others.

We'll also distinguish between disordered eating and diagnosable eating disorders, unpacking the emotional distress they cause and offering practical strategies, like DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy), to help shift the focus from body fixation to emotional and behavioral awareness.

Whether you’ve experienced body dysmorphia, disordered eating, or are simply navigating the inevitable changes of a transitioning body, this episode will provide insights and support for embracing transformation, surrendering to the journey, and building a healthier relationship with your body.

Remember—you don’t have to do this alone. Let’s support one another through every stage of our body's evolution. 

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I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true

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Heather Saylor shares her incredible journey into motherhood and her unexpected transition to becoming a stay-at-home mom. Heather candidly discusses her initial career-driven plans and the shift in family dynamics following the birth of her daughter including the challenges they faced with their daughter’s medical needs and work-life balance. She talks about finding the courage to talk to her husband about her idea of being the SAHM.

We explore the emotional weight of caregiving, the joys and growth that motherhood brings, and the importance of building a supportive community.

Heather reflects on her surprising love for being a stay-at-home parent, countering her pre-motherhood fears of boredom with newfound fulfillment. Drawing from her background as a social worker, she sees caring for her daughter as a natural extension of her skills, providing her with purpose and joy. She emphasizes the power of vulnerability in motherhood, which has fostered deeper connections with friends and neighbors.

Tune in for this inspiring conversation on navigating parenthood, embracing change, and finding fulfillment in the most unexpected places.

Where to find Heather:
https://heartdrivecolorado.com/
On Instagram @hdrbear
Welcome To Holland Poem 

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I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true

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There’s a recurring theme I often see of women feeling pressured to change themselves to maintain peace in various aspects of life. But what’s more important is being true to oneself, setting healthy boundaries, and rejecting societal pressures. This episode shares insights on how to identify and leave toxic environments or relationships, and to create spaces where you can feel safe and accepted. In here, I offer encouragement to seek peace and ease in your life by prioritizing your well-being and aligning with your authentic self.

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I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true

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In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the transformative journey of motherhood. Host Stephanie Konter-O'Hara opens up about her own experiences of navigating the challenges and beauty of becoming a mother for the first time.

Stephanie normalizes the struggles and triumphs of motherhood, reminding us that we're not alone. Whether you're a new mom, a mom-to-be, or simply someone interested in the motherhood experience, this episode is full of wisdom, validation, and support.

Key Topics Discussed:

• Navigating Motherhood for the First Time
• Facing the Inner Critic
• The Power of Letting Go

Special Announcement: Stephanie is launching a Pregnancy and Postpartum Support Group in January. If this episode resonates with you, be sure to reach out to learn more about how to connect with other women during this life-changing time.

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I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true

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In this episode, we’re diving deep into a topic that touches all of us at some point—connection. I’m thrilled to have the lovely Dayna Sammartino join us. She’s a Licensed Professional Counselor and has a special passion for helping people build meaningful relationships.

Connection matters, especially as we grow older and life gets busier. Dayna shares her insights on how loneliness creeps in as our responsibilities pile up, and what we can do to make sure we nurture friendships. 

Dayna breaks down why we sometimes feel lonely, even when we’re surrounded by people. She shares the concept of perceived loneliness, those cognitive distortions that mess with our heads, and practical tips to overcome them. From navigating social anxiety to finding community in new spaces, we cover it all.

Whether it’s a small gesture like sending a text or something more structured like joining a book club, we talk about ways to strengthen our relationships. And for those moments when you realize a relationship is more draining than fulfilling, we talk about letting them go to create space for more nurturing relationships.

Relationships need communication, effort, and alignment with our values. This episode is packed with real talk and heart-centered advice on how to cultivate authentic connections in a world that sometimes feels a little too disconnected.

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I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true

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In this candid solo episode, Stephanie opens up about her struggles and triumphs, sharing how she found balance amidst the busyness of life. She dives into the importance of community and connection, emphasizing that none of us are meant to walk this journey alone. Stephanie’s personal story of seeking help, surrounding herself with the right people, and learning to surrender to the universe’s plan serves as a powerful reminder that even in the chaos, there is beauty.

Join Stephanie as she sets the stage for future conversations with inspiring women who have navigated their own challenges and emerged stronger. Whether you're a business owner, a mom, or simply a woman trying to figure it all out, this podcast is your space to feel supported, inspired, and reminded that it truly takes a village to thrive.

Tune in, stay connected, and let’s redefine what it means to be a woman, together.

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I wrote a book! Becoming Mommy: Aligning with yourself and finding your voice during pregnancy and motherhood, available at all major retailers - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DZT9P3RB?ref=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&ref_=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&social_share=cm_sw_r_ffobk_cp_ud_dp_KFT90ZBDS48FDGG6DH5X&bestFormat=true

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Here it is! Season 1 of the Redefining Us Podcast with host Stephanie Konter-O'Hara, a licensed professional counselor, clinically trained supervisor, and new mom on a mission. 

Stephanie invites transformative conversations about what it truly means to be a woman in today's world. Whether you're a mom, entrepreneur, educator, or professional, this podcast explores how women redefine their roles and identities in a rapidly changing society. 

Stephanie was inspired to start the Redefining Us Podcast by her own journey into motherhood and her passion for helping women navigate the complexities of modern life. Fueled by her experiences as a new mom and a seasoned counselor, she aims to create a space for authentic conversations that empower women to embrace their evolving identities.

Tune in every other week for inspiring stories, expert insights, and candid discussions that will empower you to embrace your journey and redefine who YOU are.

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