Soulmates and Past Life Connections

In this personal episode, we explore the mystical realm of past lives and their connections to motherhood. Join us as we sit down with mystic mom—a mother who not only nurtures her children but also navigates the spiritual realms to uncover the threads of past-life connections that shape her spiritual journey. From spouses, to besties, and of course our little one, we share of how you know if you have a past life connection with someone.

Transcript

 Welcome to Mystic Mom, where we delve into the extraordinary. Spiritual bond between parent and child. I'm your host, Christy, and today's episode is all about past life connections.


Have you ever met someone and you feel like you've known them forever, even though you just met? Is it that you two are similar and click? Or could it possibly be your soul recognizing them from a past life? Today we're going to dive in deeper. It is common for souls to travel together, so chances are you are already in multiple relationships that existed in different ways in previous lives.

00;00;58;03 - 00;01;19;26
Unknown
Our souls learn from one another and are connected. So choose to travel together for each one's divine purpose. So let's start with the family we are born into. There's a good chance that you and your parents knew each other in a past life, but it may not have been as parent and child. It could have been that your mom was your sister in a past life.

00;01;19;26 - 00;01;44;23
Unknown
Or maybe your dad was your best friend. Whichever it was, there may be more relational work to do together that wasn't completed in a past life, or simply the souls wanted to support each other in this lifetime. These connections to our family can happen early on, but the ones personally that validated past those connections for myself was the ones that entered my life in adulthood.

00;01;44;25 - 00;02;12;03
Unknown
There are three people at the top of my head that I know for sure I have known in a past life. With each of them, as soon as I met them, I had this visceral reaction where I stopped breathing. They literally took my breath away. There was this pause deja vu feeling, and I was instantly drawn to them and knew I wanted to know them better.

00;02;12;09 - 00;02;39;26
Unknown
This was before I started my spiritual journey, so at the time, I simply just thought that we clicked and I wanted to hang out with them or see where it goes. But now, looking back, I realize that that experience was my soul recognized in theirs and vice versa. Two things you want to look for is the intensity of the meeting, and then the ease that follows it.

00;02;39;28 - 00;03;08;06
Unknown
So when you first see them, there's an intense appeal. I draw an interest in the relationship. And then there's this ease that comes once the connection is made. It is natural and easy and you feel like you've known the person forever. The three relationships that I'm thinking of is my best friend who I met in grad school, my mentor who I met early on in my career, and my husband, who I met in my 20s.

00;03;08;08 - 00;03;36;01
Unknown
Each of these introductions looked different, and the nature of the type of relationship it was, but they each had that pause. Deja vu feeling. These are our soulmates in this lifetime. We don't just have one true love soulmate that meets all of our needs. The more I have looked into past lives and soulmates and soul connections, I realize that we have multiple soulmates in a lifetime.

00;03;36;04 - 00;04;04;25
Unknown
There is not one person that is meant to satisfy all of our needs. I think this is why sometimes relationships can have unrealistic expectations, because it's common to expect a spouse to be the end all, be all. Now, don't get me wrong, I know with all my being that my husband is the one that is my partner in this lifetime, the one I meant to grow old with and build a family with and live with.

00;04;05;02 - 00;04;32;05
Unknown
He is my person. However, when it comes to spiritual philosophy, traveling, three hour long hikes, evaluating life, I turn to my other soulmates my sister, my bestie. When it comes to deep healing and self-esteem and career changes, I turn to my mentor. We are meant to have multiple soul partners again before my soul journey. I just thought of it as my mentor.

00;04;32;05 - 00;05;00;09
Unknown
I would call my soul mom because she was very motherly to me in certain ways. And my best friend, I called her my soul sister because we were just so alike, so in sync. We would get confused for one another in class and out. It was just this very similar experience that we had. And now, looking back, I realize maybe my mentor was my mom in a past life, or maybe a teacher and my best friend.

00;05;00;09 - 00;05;24;29
Unknown
Maybe she was a cousin or sister or someone else like that in a past life. But there was this knowing even before I knew what to call it. Now, the ones I just mentioned are all incredibly loving support and positive. However, an important part of this to take note of is that not all past life connections are positive or necessarily feel good.

00;05;24;29 - 00;05;52;20
Unknown
Sometimes they are incredibly painful and a struggle. Maybe in a past life we were in a relationship with an abusive spouse and they enter into our lives in this lifetime as our first love, and we are meant to walk away from them. Or maybe a toxic best friend that we have was actually a manipulative sibling in a past life that we have to learn how to put boundaries in place.

00;05;52;20 - 00;06;18;00
Unknown
Not all soul connections are meant to stay with us throughout the entirety of a lifetime. Some of them we were actually meant to leave in the past, and we get faced with that lesson again to see if we are going to do that. This is important because often when we have that intense connection and soulful recognition, we feel this means we are meant to be forever.

00;06;18;03 - 00;06;44;16
Unknown
We're meant to see them through this tough time or accept unacceptable behavior, when in reality we are being pushed to walk away from something that is hurting us. These painful relationships are just as important in our growth and transformation as the feel good ones. So when you have that I know you feeling or intuition that this past life connection is meant to teach you something.

00;06;44;19 - 00;07;09;02
Unknown
Explore it further and see how you feel about yourself when you're with these people. How you feel about your self-esteem. Because how you feel about that person is you may love them, and you may genuinely have so much affection for them, but that doesn't necessarily mean that they are meant to work side by side with you in this journey if they are not doing the work themselves.

00;07;09;08 - 00;07;41;00
Unknown
Our soul always knows what is in our best interest. So dive in deeper to those relationships to see. Does this serve me? What is the lesson here for myself? To summarize, all of this, I think is beautifully shared with this profound experience I had years ago during a psychic reading. At the time, I was a mom to one child, and I was going to this reading with hopes of finding out more about career changes that I wanted to make.

00;07;41;03 - 00;08;14;02
Unknown
So while I was looking for some advice around work stuff, the spirits were adamant about my mother her journey. Instead, the psychic told me more as a statement than a question. Did you plan on having more children now? At this time I didn't. And she said, you are going to have more children because they are on the other side waiting for you to be ready for them, because they are ready for you and you are going to help them be exactly who they are meant to be.

00;08;14;05 - 00;08;40;27
Unknown
What? That completely blew my mind and still gives me chills when I think about it and say it. Our children knew us before they were even here and we knew them. It is such a divine intervention and plan for us to get these beautiful little souls gifted to us. And this is what helps me stay grounded throughout all the chaos and roller coaster that is motherhood.

00;08;40;29 - 00;09;16;02
Unknown
This isn't a mistake. There is no coincidences. Our children are meant for us. There's a greater plan here, and when we lean into that, we can experience motherhood in a very different way. So until next time, love, heal and live. Mr. clean.