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How to Make Friends Without Forcing It: with Ryan from Social Shortcuts

Rachel Melinek Season 6 Episode 1

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In this episode, I’m joined by Ryan from Social Shortcuts to talk about what actually helps people build better social lives.

We discuss why so many people feel isolated even when they live in busy cities, how Meetup and events can help people make new connections, and what often gets in the way of turning conversations into real friendships. Ryan shares his views on small talk, vulnerability, confidence, social risk-taking, self-sabotage, dating, and why connection is less about labels like “friend” or “acquaintance” and more about care, understanding and consistency.

This conversation is for anyone who wants to feel more confident socially, build deeper connections, or understand why making friends as an adult can feel so difficult.

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