The Heart-led Man

Falling Behind in Life? Here Are 7 Truths That Will Set You Free

Evan Spargo

Feel like you’re falling behind in life?

Like you should be further ahead by now, more accomplished, more secure, more certain, but deep down, you’re wondering if you’ve missed your chance? Or worse, you may think something is wrong with you.

I know that feeling all too well. In my mid-30s, I looked around and saw most of my friends with families, homes, great wealth, and steady careers, while I was still carving my own path. The comparison turned into shame, and the shame kept me stuck.

This episode is for the high-performing man quietly carrying that same weight.

Inside, you’ll discover:

  • Why “being behind” is the biggest lie you’ve been sold
  • 7 empowering truths to break free from comparison and shame
  • How to trust your own timeline and create a life that’s truly yours
  • The reframe that turns delays and detours into your greatest advantage

If you’ve been measuring your worth against someone else’s path, this conversation will anchor you back into power, perspective, and peace.

Alignment is the only timeline that matters.

You’re not behind, you’re just on your timeline.


(0:02:00) - The painful narrative we carry 

(0:06:00) - Truths: You're allowed to want what you want 

(0:08:35) - You're allowed to move at your own pace 

(0:09:24) - You're allowed to change paths, even late in the game

(0:11:55) - We all mature at different speeds 

(0:14:58) - You’re not broken for not fitting the mould

(0:16:30) - You’re exactly where you need to be to learn what your soul came here to master

(0:20:29) - The man who lives from alignment never truly falls behind

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🎧 The Heart-Led Man Podcast is hosted by Evan Spargo, MCC Coach & Founder of The Ascension Men's Community. Helping men lead with purpose, presence, and peace, without losing themselves or the people they love.

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