Inspired Living for Women: Conversations With Women Over 40

Beyond the First Dream: Alexandra Dotcheva’s Bold Midlife Pivots to Health, Wealth, and Self-Belief

Lauri Wakefield Episode 17

In this episode, we explore Alexandra Dotcheva’s inspiring journey of reinvention. After nearly 30 years dedicated to the violin, she faced the reality that fear+ was holding her back from true fulfillment. At 32, she boldly left music to pursue nursing, later building financial freedom through real estate investing. Alexandra shares how immigrating from Bulgaria challenged her to shift from negativity to a solution-focused mindset. She reveals why addressing health, spirituality, career, finances, and relationships together is key to lasting confidence. Her story proves it’s never too late to start over — and that you are always a work in progress.

Key Topics Discussed:

  • Alexandra’s early struggles with stage fright became the foundation for her holistic confidence philosophy.
  • She reinvented her life at 32, leaving a decades-long music career to pursue nursing — showing it’s never too late to start over.
  • After immigrating from Bulgaria, Alexandra shifted her mindset toward resilience and positivity to adapt to a new culture.
  • How she built financial freedom through real estate investing and created a coaching method based on five essential life pillars, all drawn from her personal journey.

Key Takeaways:

  • Confidence comes from strengthening your health, spirituality, career, finances, and relationships together.
  • Reinvention is always possible, no matter how long you’ve been on one path.
  • Starting over often leads to greater freedom and unexpected opportunities.
  • Embracing new mindsets after major life changes builds resilience and lasting growth.

Noteworthy Quotes:

"As long as you're alive, you are a work in progress."

"Financial freedom isn't about your salary—it's about what you keep."


Alexandra's Bio: Alexandra Dotcheva is a multi-passionate entrepreneur, nurse, author, and coach who believes reinvention is always possible. Trained as a classical violinist in Bulgaria and the U.S., she later pivoted into healthcare, earning awards for excellence in nursing. Her journey expanded into real estate investing, holistic health, and personal development coaching. Through her book, It Really Is Simple, Alexandra inspires others to overcome fear, break free from limits, and pursue prosperity, confidence, and fulfillment on their own terms.

Website: holisticselfconfidence.com
Book:
It Really Is Simple 


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