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Daily Power Lesson #26: Why Competitiveness is Not Your Personality

Episode 26

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"You're just naturally competitive."

No. You're not.

Competitiveness isn't personality—it's childhood survival.

When love depended on being "better than," your nervous system learned: Second place = rejection.

Now you're exhausted from the endless comparison game.

The shift:

Driven (internal) ≠ Competitive (external)

One brings peace. The other brings panic.

Which one runs your life?

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