Let's Talk Teens

The difference between control and influence in parenting your teen

• Cheree Murdock & Abbi Winslow • Season 1 • Episode 77

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🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: The Difference Between Control and Influence in Parenting Your Teen

Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the balance between guiding and letting go.

In this episode, we’re breaking down a powerful mindset shift—control vs. influence. When it comes to parenting teens, trying to control every choice, behavior, or outcome often leads to resistance and disconnection. But learning how to influence your teen? That’s where real, lasting impact happens.

We’ll explore what control looks like (and why it backfires), what healthy influence actually means, and how to build trust, respect, and connection so your teen wants to listen—not just comply. You’ll walk away with practical tools to lead your teen with confidence while still giving them the independence they need.

Tune in for a perspective-shifting conversation that will change the way you show up as a parent. 🎧✨