
UNASHAMED: The FirstLight Ministries Podcast
UNASHAMED invites you into honest conversations between pastors and counselors about sex, betrayal, and redemption. Featuring the directors of FirstLight Ministries - a St Louis-based nonprofit dedicated to helping men, women, and spouses heal from harmful sexual behaviors - each episode includes clinical experts and faith leaders who share a Biblical worldview of sexuality and healing. Discover how the power of the Gospel can transform lives and restore relationships harmed by sexual sin with UNASHAMED.
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UNASHAMED: The FirstLight Ministries Podcast
Living An Integrated Life: Why Healing Is More Than Just Stopping
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People who struggle with compulsive sexual behaviors often find their emotions, thoughts, values, and actions to be disconnected from each part - or even at odds. This fragmentation of the self, called disintegration, often accompanies a deep sense of shame, numbness, self-loathing, and tension between the person they see in the mirror and the person they wish could be. In today’s episode, FirstLight counselors Shari Montague (LPC, CSAT) and Matthew Friesen (PLPC) explore how disintegration effects strugglers, and how breaking free from sexual addiction involves more than just stopping behaviors - it’s about learning how to live as a whole person.
Bonus discussion: "I quit porn. Why isn’t my marriage better?"
Featuring: Shari Montague (LPC, CSAT) and Matthew Friesen (PLPC)
Credits: Produced by Rev. Jonathan Shilts. Theme music is No Indication by TrackTribe.
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FirstLight is a St Louis-based ministry that is dedicated to helping men women and betrayed spouses find freedom from the harm of sexual sin.
www.firstlightstlouis.org
www.firstlightstlouis.org