FFP 18: 13 Years of Fighting: A Father's Journey Through Alienation

Summary:

In this powerful episode of the Fractured Family Podcast, host Charity sits down with Michael, an alienated father of two boys. Michael opens up about his harrowing 13-year battle through the family court system and the manipulative tactics used by his ex-wife to sever his relationship with his children. From emotional and financial abuse to false accusations and court-imposed barriers, Michael candidly shares the highs and lows of his journey. Despite the trauma, Michael fought to stay connected to his sons, fostering resilience, empathy, and healing for himself and his family. He also discusses his transformative book The Sword That Divides, which offers insight into manipulation and control, disguised as a compelling hero’s journey. 

📝 Key Talking Points:

• Michael’s background: Father of two boys, 13-year custody and alienation battle.
• The early signs of parental alienation and coercive control by his ex-wife.
• Financial struggles, long-distance parenting, and the sacrifices he made to maintain contact.
• The emotional manipulation his children endured, including isolation and being used as pawns.
• His discovery of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and how it clarified his experience.
• Calling Child Protective Services and navigating the court system to advocate for his sons.
• The role of documentation and evidence in custody battles.
• His son's courage in confronting emotional abuse and breaking free from control.
• The creation of The Sword That Divides—a memoir and guide on manipulation and healing.
• Advice for other alienated parents: staying connected, documenting everything, and self-healing.
• The role of faith and spiritual resilience in Michael’s family’s healing journey.

✨ Key Takeaways:

1. Never Stop Fighting for Your Children
   Michael’s perseverance, despite countless obstacles, shows the power of unwavering love and dedication.
2. Documentation is Critical
   Keeping meticulous records over the years provided crucial evidence to counter false accusations and manipulation.
3. Understanding Narcissistic Abuse is Empowering
   Learning about NPD and coercive control helped Michael make sense of his experience and strategize effectively.
4. Connection Can Overcome Alienation
   His efforts to relate to his children—through shared interests, empathy, and understanding—created a bond that survived alienation tactics.
5. Healing Comes Through Awareness and Community
   Writing his book and connecting with others facing similar experiences has been therapeutic for Michael and his family.
6. The Fight May Be Costly, but the Reward is Priceless
   Michael’s sons now understand their truth and have gained independence and strength, proving the fight was worth it.

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